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Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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I was wondering that lemon lemonade help your hiar high lighted in the sun. what if putting pink or starwberry? I just wondering.. oh yea and if you do put lemonade your hair sit in sun. you dont just pour in your hair? will surger make hair more yucky and oily? 3rd qestion after all that do have wash it????
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i'm pretty sure it's not any kind of lemonade .. it's just pure lemon juice. don't use sun-in or any of those advertised products, they leave your hair orange! (i have a bad experience lol) . go to the drug store and they have pure lemon juice - i'm not sure if you actually squeeze the lemon in your hair .. lol rate me!!!


Ok. Im fat is there neway i can get skinner by tha time skool starts on Sep.7 and i need to work on my stomach area. (link)
try exercising. sit ups will really help your stomach area & abs. it will be sore a little, but it's totally worth it. also for more tips rent videos that have workout programs - good luck! =)


My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come! (link)
i say a house party - invite everyone - and have a DJ and a dance floor =) also a big table with tons of snacks and cool lighting outside & inside .. spin the bottle, pool, also the boys go home @ like 11 pm and the girlies stay for a sleepover! movies and stuff! tell me how it works out! good luck with it =)


I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help! (link)
you should definitly tell your friend how you feel. coming from a girl's perspective, we love to hear if guys like us - and it proves that you're not too shy to say that stuff to us =) if you tell her you might win her heart


hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!! (link)
i say go for the movie! it's your chance to shine! you'll still have a tutor - so it's not like you'll become dumb from missing 2 months of school .. just make sure you have all your friend's phone numbers and have your parents or somebody stay in contact with you teachers and it will be ok! remember me when you become famous! haha good luck =)


nebody kno a website that counts words in an essay for you?? (link)
no i don't sorry .. but i'm answering this because in microsoft word - near where you click spellcheck - there is a button that says word count .. self explanatory .. lol good luck! =)


Can anydoby explain to me how to remove earrings? I can't seem to get them out, they're just regular studs. Thx. (link)
that's weird how you can't get your earrings out! if you just got them pierced, that's perfectly normal - but otherwise, you should ask you mom to help (because she can obviously see the back of your ears better than you can) LOL! and if they're really stuck go back to where you got them pierced or the doctor! good luck! =)


my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be (link)
you should talk to your friend and maybe even try to plan a time where you two can get together and catch-up! also, you probably have tons of other friends to hang around with, but i know how it feels to feel like your loosing one of your closest friends =( tell her everything you told me.


I have really thick hair and i can wear it down there is only one way i can... if i hairspray it when its wet. other than that it poofs out. and if i sraighten it then it looks bad. i am alsoo constantly pukking it back into a pony tail. what are some cute ways i can wear my hair that it isnt too much of a hassle? (link)
see if you can french braid it or just braid it. it lasts forever (LOL)! and won't fall out. if you're really having a hard time with your hair ask your hair dresser for some tips! good luck =)


okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

i rate good (link)
well if you and your mom are so tight, then you should be able to tell her and she should be able to understand where you're coming from. plus - it depends on how old you are too. if not just plan movie dates for now! lol good luck =)


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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~ (link)
i think you should ask him if you two are going out! i know it may sound weird, but if you want to know if this relationship is real or not - or if he's just using you =/


My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH! (link)
you should definitly tell your boyfriend that you feel uncomfortable when he's around all the girls .. maybe sometime you should just go over there when he's with them and see what all the fuss is all about! maybe you should talk about trust with your bf ..


does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol (link)
my neighbor worked @ a restaurant as a bus-boy for part of the summer .. maybe you could do tutoring for local kids or babysitting could probably be your best bet - good luck & please rate =)


I'm really into writing Dark Poems, REALLY dark poems. But the weird thing is, I'm a REALLY happy person who leads a good life with a loving family and lots of friends. o.o; I don't have any depression or anything and I'm not going through Teen Angst. Is something wrong with me? o___O; (link)
nope! nothing is wrong with you. it seems like your maybe just trying to connect with maybe the darker side inside you that doesn't come out and people can't really see it. it's great that you write poems to release your feelings! do you think i could ever read one? =)


good and cheap makeup....what kind of brands? (link)
NYC (new york color) they have the BEST pencil eyeliner in the world! also go for the cute lip smackers stuff! i love it and my lips always look great - LOLOL! i also love maybelline .. but i usually only get it w/ coupons =)



Hi.. My name's amy! Ohh I'm female lol.. And I've kind of had a problem my whole life, and it's the whole ideal of being shy. I'm 14 years old, and I have yet to make out with a boy or any of that sweet stuff. I've hugged and pecked guys. But its just.. Everytime I would kiss my boyfriend, the next day I'd come into school slapping my head and saying, Why would I do something like that, I feel so stupid, and then my face turns red. Also, the other night, I was hanging out with my boyfriend, and he hugged me like we were watching fireworks, and he just put his arm around my neck.. and I just stood there motionless. I had no idea what to do! I just started laughing. Many guys have broke up with me for the reason that I am shy. Is there a way I can change? Because all boys think I start laughing or being shy because I'm using them, or that I don't like them. What would you did in my situation..? Thanks alot! (link)
it's ok that your shy .. a lot of girls our age are! you just have to loosen up a little bit and go with the flow .. i mean hugging your boyfriend or seeing him the day after you kiss shouldn't make you feel embarrassed .. if i were you i would just try to loosen up =)


can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period? (link)
yes! you can even get pregnant DURING your period.


Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long (link)
lol that's ok that it was so long =) you need to talk to your best friend. tell her everything you told me. she needs to know how you feel about this situation and that you're tired of being stuck in the middle. also - you have to balance the time you spend with your friends and with your boyfriend. sometimes you need to be with your bf and i completely know where you're coming from - but then there's only times that you wanna be with your best friend .. just tell her everything. good luck and rate me =)


Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????


~Cheer grl~ (link)
probably car washes, bake sales, maybe even have a dance and everyone has to pay $5 to get in and all the proceeds go to the new uniforms. good luck with whatever you do & please rate me =)


Hi .. well, here it goes. There's this guy, lets say his name is Luke. Luke is really cute and he's a yaer older than me, sometimes he is sweet to me but just to prove to his boys that he's tough sometimes he is really mean. His younger sister, Michelle, is my best friend (she's 2 years younger than him.) Anyways, to my sister and Michelle he makes fun of them but to me he just teases me a little, nothing too bad. When we all went out last week he kept following me and stuff and staring at me and telling me to race with him and trying to make me catch him. I don't know, everyone says it looks like he likes me but he wont admit it to my sister or anyone else. His 'boys' won't tell me either. They say he has a girlfriend named 'Ashley Marks' but Michelle would know because they go to the same school and she never seen any girl named Ashley marks with him and she says its a lie. I really want to go out with him but if he doesn't admit it I won't get too far. And also i really can't tell him I like him unless he tells me first because my mother said not to because she doesn't want people at her office to thinkim a huge flirt...(his mom and dad work for my mom and dad) I want him to tell SOMEONE he likes me and I want to know if he likes me...help...i need a ton of opinions on this one cuz i really really like him and want to date him!!! (link)
you should just point-out ask him if he has feelings for you. if you can't do that you could get ashley or one of your friends to tell him how you feel. it seems like you are in love with luke and if you want your relationship to go somewhere - you have to tell him you like him! good luck =)




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