i haven't seen my friend becky for a long time, and we really wanna hang out together. her birthday's this weekend so she invited me over to like a bonfire with a bunch of her friends. the only thing is, i will only know becky and maybe a couple other people i met through her but aren't really friends w/. also, they get drunk alot and i think they will be getting drunk on saturday. i've tasted alcohol before but i don't really like it and i've never been drunk, so i'm kind of nervous. i don't know anyone besides becky so i'll already be a little bit uncomfortable, and then if i've never gotten drunk before i won't know what to do. should i not go? go and not get drunk? what should i do?
Well I think you should just go. If you are good at meeting people then maybe her other friends a really cool and you can meet some new people. For the drinking part you dont have to drink. Just say you dont wanna, or if you dsont wanna feel left out then just havea few. Dont get totaly messed up. Pluse if they live in a local area and there is gonna be alot of pople and someone calls the cops on you and they see inderage drinking then yo can get in a lot of trouble for that, its not to much to worry about but somthing to keep in mind. Its really up to how you feel. If you dont feel comfortable then just dont go. Tell your friend you will hang out some other time.
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can you give me some good ideas on wat i should give my friends which are girls for their birthdays they're turning 14 and give me some ideas on christmas presents for girls too they're 13 and 14
-If you know there sizes get them a cute shirt or something.
-Money always works but for really really good friends it not a very good idea.
-Movies with like candy and popcorn and stuff.
-Earring and other jewlary if they wear it.
-Picture frames with pictures of you guys.
Stuff like that.
Jess
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i walk home from the bus stop with this guy every day. sometimes we like don't know what to talk about haha, what are some things we could talk about? not like movies or music because yeahhh just no...
You can ask him how his day was and stuff. Maybe if you have classes together talk about that. Anything that just comes to mind wqould work its better than an awakward silence.
Jess
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13/f I met a boy on the internet beck in february. I used to like him but now I dont really like him or want to talk to him anymore. I told him once I shouldnt talk to strangers online but he said, "but you know me! I'm not a stranger!" I said well you can never be to safe. He said, "but you saw a video of me! and it had my moms voice in it!" we got into an arguement. I really dont want to talk to him anymore, he doesnt really seem to understand anything and can be rather annoying and brags about his girlfriend which i dont have the time to listen to.
So, today, I asked, "who is this" and pretended I never met him before. The convo ended with let me know with "Alright let me know when you found your brain, see ya" Was this a good way to get rid of him? Please help
Just block him. That way he wont be able to talk to you. You dont know him so you wont have to deal withhim in the real world either. if you cant block him, just ignore him. He will hopefully soon get the point.
And for future advice dont talk to random people online, its not exactally safe, and could get you in danger.
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I go to an all girls private high school. Before that, i went to public school. I am having a sweet sixteen party, but the only problem is, there is going to be twice as many girls (i'm still friends with all of my public school friends, which is even in the boy to girl ratio) but then when you had all of my school friends, it like doubles the girls. Should i cut back on the girls--or make a desperate attempt to meet some more guys??? Would it just be really awkward if there were too many girls (it would be like 20ish boys and 35ish girls)
Thanks in Advanced.
No im sure it would be fine. just invite whoever you want.
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is an ipod nano "too fancy" or "too much" of a gift to get my bf [of 5 months when it comes] for christmas?
im not rich i mean im pretty average-class i guess but i dont have a job yet although i may have one by then.. but i dont want to get it for him if it seems like too big of a deal.. i hope that makes sense!
Well it does seem like a little much for a boyfriend of 5 months but its really how you guys feel about it. If you honestluy thing it is gonna lsat for a long time and that you guys are really that in love then sure get it.
Jess
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My friend has mono and i shared her water bottle with her 2 days ago( not knowing she had it) i got tested the next morning and my test came back negative..however i feel like i have the flu and strep throat , is there a possiblitly that i may still have gotten it? should i get tested again?
You could have t just from being with her. Y ou also might have strpe throat because it is common with mono. If you are really comcerened go back to the doctor.
Jess
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how do you burn cds from your itunes?? i've done it before, but the button i used to click that would burn them isnt there. do you have to be signed into itunes to burn your cds? because the burn isnt there anymore. helppppppp
you have to make a new playlist of the songs you want first them it should show up.
Jess
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earlier today i went into hottopic and there was this song on and i loved it but i dont know the name it went something like this "tell all my friends im dead" it sounded like new found glory but i never heard that song
I actually just heard that song this morning for the first time, its pretty amazing, and yes it is new found glory.
Jess
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Who is Derek from the new season of One Tree Hill?
EDITTTT
EDITTTT!!!!!:His names Matt Barr in real life.
He says hes peytons brother. But i think there is something werid about him. Im pretty sure tonights episode will sum itall up =)
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my bestfriend is realli obsee with this kid she likes and she wont stop talkin to him && shes really annoying me so i hope she shuts up before i kick her ass so waht should i do .
wow im in the EXACT same situation right now. Honestly you just need to talk to her and tell her how your feeling and talk it out and get out your feelings and youll feel better.
Jess
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On my myspace, it will only let me upload 16 pictures. But on some of my friend's pages, they have over 20!
Can anyone explain why this is, and how I can get that many pictures (if possible)?
Thanks in advance :)
yea i saw that too i girl i know had 3 pages. I was pretty sure that that went for eveyone that you could have unlimited pictures now? I didnt try because i didnt want that many, Just ask your friedns how that got it, thats the only advise i have really..
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can someone please tell me the name of this song and/or who is sings it?
your everything i want
your everyhting i need
your everything inside of me that
i wish i could beyou say all the right things at exaclty the right time ..
please help if you can, sorry it's a kind of old song
i loveee that song!
Everything You Want by Vertical Horizon
Jess
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what are some stores that you can buy like plain black sweat pants at
or like any color.
im 14/f and i want to wear them over like sports pants after a soccer game just plain ones with nothing on it.
Steve and Barry's and everything there is 6.98 or something like that. IF there isnt one of those then any sports wear stored or maybe walmart or target.
Jess
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There is a Taking back Sunday song that i wanna know what it is...
Here are some of the lyrics...
the truth is that you could slit my throat and with my last gasping breath id apologize for bleeding on your shirt
You're So Last Summer =)
Jess
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Where do people get that Pink and yellow Fall Out Boy tee-shirt that says "Break Dance, Not Hearts". Thanks a lot :)
hot topic. They have all the band t's.
Jess
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Lately, I can't log in to MySpace. The page loads and everything, but when I give my information and click 'log in' the page just loads forever, and doesn't do anything. It's not my anti-virus or firewall or anything, because it's disabled. Do you have any suggestions?
Its just myspace, there are millions of people all on it at once it causes it to be pretty slow. There is really nothing you can do but deal with it.
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ok so this year me and my ex have 2 classes together and whenever im around him all my old feelings for him come back. We broke up a long time ago, and we remind friends but he to told me that all of the old feelings are coming back. we joke around and hang out and we get along great....but im not sure ifwe should get back together. We roke up because I moved away...but then i moved back and we said that we should be friends but now we both want more. Should I get back together with him or no? Any help would be amazing.
You only broke up for distance so why not give it a try. You ovbiously got along good and didnt break up from being in a fight or soemthing like that. See how he feels about it.
Jess
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I have a friend who I talk to online almost every night. Last year we were alot closer and we sort of hung out in school. But he doesn't talk to me that much. Like over the sumer, my bff and her brother had a combined party with each of their friends. Well my friend was one of the guest's brother so I asked if he could go to so he did. But he didn't talk to me! Hes also a pervert, I know that but i don't know why i like him so much. Like one day we were talking and he asked me to senior or junior prom, but we are sophmores. and I once told him that I wanted to go to a haunted house soon and he suggested we go together because he knows i'll be terrified and hanging all over him. And he talks about me to my friend amanda alot.
Does he like me? Or does something sound odd?
Maybe he likes you but he isnt loking for a girlfriend, I know that seems weird but it could be. Or it could be cause he is with his friends, pople act different around certain people. Start to hang out with him more and stff, see what happenes.
Jess
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i have a guy friend who wants me to dye his hair for him. i just don't know is it ok to just use one of those boxes that are like meant for girls? or are there specific dyes that you are supposed to use for guys hair? thanks!
Im pretty sure there are men's hair die too but its fine to use womens, womens hair dye just gives you more because they have longer hair.
Jess
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