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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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Ok how do i put my column into my AIM profile? Plz help me cause i want to put it in there so my buddies can also ask for advice!


Thanks so much!

go to ur column, copy the link, and then paste it into ur profile ;)

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I have written a few short stories and I think they are pretty good and I think they could be full stories if I had more detail. Do you think I could use them as playwrites?

sure why not!! if ur dedicated enoguh to put time n effort into something, then theres no reason you shouldnt/couldnt!!

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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free?

picturetrail.com
webshots.com
fotki.com
sonyimagestation.com
theres alot more too!!! but after a while you have to pay for picture trailif you want more than 36pics!!

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well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child..

he prly duz luv you..he just dun kno how to show it!! maybe you should make him more comfortable saying it! dont hate him..every1 deserves 2nd chances! plus hes ur father..just try to get to know him better n be closer..n when u feel comfortable saying it, tell him tht u love him n strt giving him hugs!

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

eye lash curlers dont damage ur eyelashes...its mascera tht hurts them!

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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how?

idk if telling ur dad 2 divorce her is the right way 2 start things..maybe you should try talking to her first...with your dad there. tell them tht no one can ever take the place of ur mother..so dont try. tell her wut bothers u about her n if she expects to have a good relationship w. ur family then she needs to get herself together n make more of an effort to be all she can be!!

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~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!

omg wow first off..im soo sorry you have had a really tough life...no one deserves that kind of pain..n if u ever need 2 tlk im here! about your friend, theres really nothing you can do exept be there for her. some of my friends cut, and its one of the toughest things iv ever had to go through. just let her know that youre always there for her n u always will be! try 2 tlk 2 her to help her get out some of both of ur frustration. maybe go to the gym together or something? i also know what its like to move around alot..it sucks!! but iv stayed in the same place for like 5 yrs now lol. n no human being has any right at all to even touch another person..thats so horrible..wow. i guess to train yourself to stop cutting..just think about it this way. you've been doing it your whole life, and it hasnt solved anything. yeah it might feel good for a lil bit..like a temperary high...but in the end all you have is scars. in a wayits good tht u have a friend whos going through the same thing (cutting) bc you can become each others support systyms!! maybe instead of cutting you can get ur feelings out in something more..physicallike kickboxing or working out..or sports/ something that makes you happy. concentrate on the things that you love..surround yourself with fun ppl who you like to be around! and everytime you think about cutting, just remember all you'll have in the end is a scar! if u ever need 2 tlk..im here 4 u!! n let ur friend kno..if nething happens to ger gpa...at least hes not in anymore pain n hes in a better place n she has another angel lookin down on her!!! x0x0x0x

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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?

jus b like "ummm..thats not funny..no ones laughin" n if ppl r laughin jus take tht part out! lol

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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!

both.. before - so if u have it u dun infect the othe rperson after - so u kno if u have it

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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?

just let go of ur shyness n tlk 2 him!! i kno thtcan be hard..but if you care about this guy oso much you should talk to him! maybe he likes you too and just needs a reason to tell you, and what more reason duz he need than knowing you like him ;) i say you just tell him how u feel..that way either way he knows, and you know that you did something about it instead of sitting back and doing nothing!! trust meit sbetter to feel rejection rather than regret!! good luck hun ;)

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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight?

ur deff. NOT overweight! u r a lil tiny but not underweight either...your the weight most girls dream to be! lol

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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't.

nope ur not over weight at all!! sometimes all the fatin ppls body goes straight to one or 2 places n tht makes them feel fat..but ur not over weight at all..n im sure u dont look it either!

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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring..

just wash ur face 2ce a day! a good lil soap is pure-zone. my bro uses n it n wrks 4 him! but evry1 is different so who knows...but yeha u shuld give tht pure zone stuff a try!

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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do??????

whoa there!! idk if id want a guy like tht tlkn 2 me! he obviously duznt care about you...so i say just break up with him! but if your really set on gettin him 2 tlk 2 u...just pull him aside n AMEK him tlk 2 u..tell him ursick of the way hes acting n thts not how u shuld be treated! >:O !!!!!

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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18.

i think hesmore embarressed then mad, i mena he put his feelings out their n he got turned down! just let him kno u still wanna be friends n all..u jus don wanna ruin tht relationship..plus friends can be alot more special then bf/gf! but i dun think hes mad..

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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*

LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü

they dont change around thier friends, theyr not afraid to be sweet no matter whos around, they invite u wen theyr goin out, they like to actually cuddle instead of just make out 24/7, they can c u at ur worst n still tell u ur beautiful, their shoulder is always their 4 u to cry on! x0x0x

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Hey you guys, can you hel;p me? I'm looking for a good website with cute girly clothes that don't cost a lot, almost like a cheap delias.....do you guys have any favoirite websites?

www.forever21.com
www.579.com
www.rue21.com
www.rampage.com

hope tht helps!! ;)

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Hey my boyfriend is like a punk and i am a cheerleader and we are like OBSESSED with each other but im like a prep and he is more laid back ( punk style ) should i break up with him ?

if you like him alot then no dont break up with him! oppsotites attract sometimes, and if your happy, why let go of it? good luck w. the relationship!

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okay so my friend alex(we'll say) she knew this guy we'll say his name is tyler. okay so alex met tyler at her old school and when i asked her if she knew ne hotties she gave me his sn. so i i.med him one day and we've been talkin online for the past 9 months or so. and i really have grown to love him! i think that i might even be falling for him. and i really wanna meet him face to face one day. but i have no clue how i would explain him to my parents! bcuz when i first got aim i wasn't suppsoed to talk to n e one i didn't knoe! and now i might even go meet him?? idk so please help me asap!

if urparents ask how u know him just say you met him through a friend or you met him at the movies or something and a friend introduced u! have fun wen yall meet!! :)

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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1?

100-120 lbs...somewhere around there!

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