ok I was going out with this boy and i dumped him because he didn't respect me then we went uptown and ended up going out then he dumped me then he asked me back out then he dumped me again now he keeps lying to me saying that he's got someone else and saying he's over me and I'm over him but when I text him asking if he wanted to go uptown he said no because something might happen between us but if he's really over mer wouldn't he know that nothing will happen because we're over eachother but also I feel he's started flirting with me again he keeps pulling my hair and slapping me when he walks by and he keeps making me laugh he's sending me mixed up signals and I don't know what he wants anymore but he keeps saying I can win you over easy but he's wrong he's messed me about so many times I'm over him but I miss all the attension he gave me before
Oh wow, that wasn't even a sentence! It has no capitals except for I, and absolutely no punctuation. Congratulations on butchering the English language!
But enough about the sad state of our collective youths' typing skill.
Your ex is an asshole. Stop spending time with him. From what I can guess you guys are around 14 years of age. If either of you are any older, seriously, grow up. This is middle school drama. You should have ended any and all relations with this guy a long time ago.
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what does "two stepping" mean, like you do it a rock shows and stuff... explain, cause i feel stupid
Two stepping has absolutely nothing to do with rock shows. In fact, if you attempt to two step at a rock show, the band will stop playing, everyone will look at you, and you will promptly be escorted out.
It refers to the Texas Two-Step, which is the kind of dance you would do with country music. It's a very simple dance where you hold the other persons hands, take two steps forward, and one step back. You kinda go in an awkward oval shape as you do this. I really don't like two-stepping nor do I like country music, and I'm in Texas. Yes! Look at me, mom, I'm defeating the stereotype!
Anyway, unless you're at a hoedown (haha I said ho) it's not appropriate to two-step.
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My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS!
Oh wow, you like me? I'm so happy!
Wait, you forgot the apostrophe. THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER
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Okay K', you're a guy, where do you like girls to touch you? I mean, when my boyfriend has his arm round my waist and his hands all over me, I never know where to touch him.
Well, I really, really enjoy having my hair stroked. I have really soft, fine hair, and it feels so good. And girls like to pet it, because it's so soft. A symbiotic relationship!
My neck is also very sensitive. But these are personal things. I think most guys like it when you place your hands on their waist, or when your hold both hands together over their stomach from behind.
A kiss to the neck and a bite to the ear, and I am your bitch and you may do with me what you may. But all guys have their "spots". A little experimentation, and BAM!
If he says "ow" and it isn't followed by "do it again" or "HARDER AND MORE TO THE LEFT", yeah, don't do that. But don't hesitate to feel around with your hands. (Take that any way you want.) We like that. We're not gonna tell you what feels good, you have to FIND it.
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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?
Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com
- Kylie
I believe the laws are different for each state. If I remember correctly here in Texas, the law is in full effect within around 8 years of the offense, and it's a lesser penalty afterwards. But the guy still could get in trouble.
You really do need to tell your sister. Even if he can't get in trouble with the law, he could get the shit beat out of him by your sister!
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Ok, i found this tube of lip gloss from when i moved about a year and a half ago. Do u think it's ok to use it?
Lip Gloss is one of those things that just seems to never expire. If the lid has stayed on tight and it all looks the same as it did when you first got it, it's fine. If it has changed color (your cherry lip gloss has turned black) it's ready to be thrown out. It may not have quite the potency it once did when it comes to flavor, but it should be fine.
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excuse for being stupid but what is dance damce revolution?
It is a rhythm game, with four arrows on a dance pad. The screen has arrows scrolling upwards to 4 stationary arrows at the top. When they meet, you hit the corresponding arrow with your foot.
Check out www.ddrfreak.com because it can tell you way more than I can. - K'
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im not sure if they really have this online.. but is there anyway that i can play DDR ( Dance Dance Revoloution ) online? and if so.. does anyone know a website i can go to to play it? thanks
www.flashflashrevolution.com
FFR has been up for a couple of years now. It's not nearly as accurate an emulator as others, but for something that requires no downloading it's not a bad way to go. (I do hate the fact that not only are none of the songs on there DDR songs, but it gives you a miss if you hit an arrow when you don't need to. DDR 1st Mix, anyone?)
However, there are much better ways to play on the computer. First of all, you need an emulator. Stepmania is the best, in my opinion. You can go to www.stepmania.com for that.
Now you have an emulator. Some songs would be nice, yes? Go to www.ddruk.com and register. Once registered, you can go to the downloads section and download either a song at a time, or all the songs that have come off a single mix.
Now you need to take the songs you downloaded, and put them in a place where Stepmania will know where they are. This would be under the "Songs" folder in the Stepmania folder in your C:/Program Files. Go to the songs folder. Create another folder inside of it called "All Music". (It really doesn't matter what you name it, but that's what you'll be putting in it, unless you'd rather sort your music mix by mix. Then you need to create several folders, named "1st Mix", "2nd Mix", etc.) Go into the folder you just made. This is where Stepmania uploads songs from. Every folder you place into this one will be recognized as a song. When you download a song from DDRUK it will already be in a folder. This folder contains the .mp3, banner and background pictures, the stepfile, etc. Place a song folder inside the "All Music" folder you're already in. Congratulations, that's one song. Place in all the songs you've downloaded. Now run Stepmania. If the program comes up, a little note in the corner will tell you how many songs you've got. If it doesn't load, a prompt will come up telling you what you've done wrong.
Now, DDR songs are all well and good, but I prefer the newer In The Groove myself. You can go to http://thefantomfreak.bemanistyle.com/itg/ to download some ITG stepfiles. They are longer and more fun.
Now at this point all you can use is the keyboard to play. If you want to hook up a dance pad you have for the PS2, you need to buy an adaptor. You can go to www.levelsix.com to find those. You can get a PS2 to Parallel Port adaptor for $5. But the parallel port may be taken by something like a printer, so it's easier to buy a PS2 to USB converter. Those are about $13, I believe.
I understand all this technobabble can get confusing, so IM me at fei3587 if you need to be walked through it. Enjoy, and keep on playin. - K'
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Ok I heard a rumor and me and my friend were wondering if its true. If u wear sports bra's all the time will that reduce ur growth *if ur still maturing. Signed: Fully Matured
No, of course not. If someone walks by and pushes down on your head every 5 minutes, will you be shorter?
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)
Haha, I understand what you mean more than you know. My best girlfriend, Ashley, has been dating a guy named Kevin. Let me tell you about Kevin. He's a fucking loser. He is 18, still in high school, smokes, and is in danger of being fired from his job because he doesn't really do anything. (He works at a supermarket.) He's one of those guys who looks stoned all the time. (And he very well may be.) He seems to want nothing but sex, and is also more in love with his car than he is with her. And Ashley, like an idiot, tries to tell our little circle of friends the good things about him and almost always draws a blank. Me and her friends all agree we hate this guy. She'll say something about them having a fight, and me and one of her friends will look at each other knowingly and nod our heads.
None of us have sat down and told her that her boyfriend sucks, so she's still going out with him. We probably should. You probably should too. Ashely is a smart girl, but she is blinded by what she thinks is love. If it were anyone else she would agree. So yes, tell her. All of you get together, and tell her.
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Is it possible to fall in love too easily? It's just...I always seem to be in and out of love with people. Most of the time it's just puppy love but right now...there's this guy and I love him for real. I just want to know if it's okay to fancy people all the time and shit. It's not like I fancy other people when I'm with a guy but when I'm not I feel like I'm always obsessed with someone.
Well, maybe you do fall in love too often and maybe you don't. It all depends upon your interpretation of the word love. If you like a guy for a while and later on find one you like better, but weren't really dating the first one anyway, it's no big deal.
Have you ever heard the phrase "you can look, but you can't touch"? There's nothing wrong with checking out other people. Trust me, you are not alone in this aspect. Thinking about other people whilst alone is perfectly natural. I do it all the time myself.
Um, I'm not sure if I answered the question or not because I'm still not entirely sure what it was.
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Well, it's a long story but I don't really know how to deal with it. A couple of years ago I was dating a young man for a long time. We were engaged and were planning to get married within a year or so. I loved him like I never loved anyone in my life and he loved me, but one day it all had changed. He grew distant and cold and kept me and all of his best friends in a distance. In addition to the distance, he started treating me really badly and after a long long time of tollarating it and trying to understand what's on his mind and help him as much as I can, I couldn't take it anymore, all my attempts to rescue that relationship crushed and died and I gave up. We broke up. About 3 month later, I've heard that he'd started dating another woman and after another 2 month, I've heard that they've got engaged. As a result from that, My EX had lost ALL of his friends because, as they say, he became completely intollerable. It took me almost two years to get over him (I was overseas for a year which helped a little), But now I came back home and every little thing reminds me of him and that I really miss him and I do still love him, but the thing is that I love the man he used to be, not what he'd become. I don't have any news about him because he'd totally lost touch with "the outside world" and we don't have common friends anymore. I know that I should get over it and go on with my life but I just don't know how, I had tried and it worked for a while but now that I'm back home, I'm surrounded by things and places that remind me of what we used to have and these are things that I can't avoid seing. What should I do?
(I'm a 23 y.o. woman)
It's hard to get over anyone, and I can identify with every little thing reminding you of them.
"This chair...it was sitting here the whole time while we were dating, and it hasn't moved since."
You tend to associate everything with him. Now, obviously it would be kind of expensive to just up and move out of town and get new stuff. But at your own home, something as simple as moving some things around may help. Try to make your living area seem a little newer, fresher. When you go to places the two of you used to go to, rather than thinking "We had so much fun here...", think something more along the lines of "Hey, I bet if I found a new guy, I could take him here and have a blast!"
I know you'll be feeling nostalgic for a while, but the thing you have to keep telling yourself is that the man you fell in love with is dead. And why not? It's true, isn't it?
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Ok, i'm a girl who likes sports, video games, and all that stuff. And i hate girly stuff like shopping, make up, and all that. I'm tough and strong and i'm just wondering if it's a turnoff to guys when a girl is like me. I mean, do guys only want to be friends with girls like me? PLZ ANSWER!!
Well, me and my last girlfriend got along great when we spent time together. The arcade was our ideal dating spot! (We're such nerds.) But I never thought less of her for any of that. It made her that much cooler.
It shouldn't be hard for you to find a guy. Maybe if you find some small guy you can stand up for him in a fight and embarrass him! (Wait, that's not a good point. Forget I said that.)
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OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.
If you truly love the guy, what do you have to worry about? You should able to trust him; but moreover, you need to be able to trust yourself. You will never get any farther if you do not.
Just repeat to yourself "I am taken, and everyone else here is infected with at least 20 STD's." That should do the trick.
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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:
1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
OR
2) Just move on with my life
This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks
Regardless of whether or not she will take you back, you need to set the record straight. You did not make the call; therefore, you should not take the blame. Forget what her mom thinks; her feelings toward you should not affect either of your decisions.
Then again, she may not feel the same way you do, and could have used all this as an excuse just to get out of it. But if you truly believe in your relationship, give it a shot.
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my dad is a basketball coach for a high school team. he is also my basketball coach. im 13/F. anyways, he is always forcing me into sports. i think i found a sport that i really love, but he wants me 2 be involved in atleast 2 at a time. thats not fair bcuz i want to practice volleyball and improve in it instead of basketball. ive tried to get out of it. even my mom is tryin to get my out of basketball but he just wont let me out. what do i do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
You need to have a serious talk with your dad. He's thinking too much about his job, more than he's thinking about the toll it takes on you. I'm guessing you're still in middle school, so doing 2 sports at once isn't SO bad...but once you get to high school you can more or less forget about that. Explain to your dad that when you get to high school, 1 sport will be stressful enough. If you only take 1 now, and improve upon it, you'll be a lot better next year.
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I absolutely love Christmas! I absolutely think its the bets time of year, and i begin celebrating it around the begining of november. Christmas goes by soo fast, why wait to decorate and listen to Christmas music and begin the christmas cheer? I feel like i'm the only one who feels like this..is there anybody else??
Well, the whole feeling of Christmas, what with the whole holly jolly bullshit, seems to be nothing but people being converted into corporate whores. Good to know you're in it for the feeling, not the physical aspect of gifts. Now, I'm about as far from Christian as you can get, and never really felt the Christmas spirit. To me, all I see is "HAY GUYS IT'S CHRISTMAS BUY OUR SHIT" and that's about it.
Then again, you're pushing it. It's November 2nd. You're a little early. It's hard enough to have Thanksgiving without Santa pushing his big red ass into it. At LEAST wait until December.
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i like this girl but i don't think i want to go out with her. i don't know if that makes any sense, but thats the way it is. anyway, i told my friend and he asked her if she would go out with me (i didn't tell him to) and she said no. my friend said that he didn't know if she was serious because he was acting like he was joking around and that she might have been too. I don't know wut to think. plz help. and does it make sense to like someone and not want to go out with them?
i'll rate anyone who tries to help
Of course it does. All my best friends are female, and we are very close...but I wouldn't think of dating them. (At least, not the majority of them.) Cherish your friendship, dude.
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K heres the thing. I have a bf and were gonna call him M. I like M more then ive liked anyone. But he acts like more of a friend then a bf. For some odd reason i don't want to dump him. Even though i would if K asked me out. well every saying i should dump M.
Yeah, dump M and go out with me, K'. But I'll forgive you for forgetting the apostrophe.
Wait, what?
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Aright well last Friday, before Halloween me and my friends had an idea of gettin ppl to dress in black and I made flyers and handed them out. And sum how one of the teachers found out about it cuz sumone said my name infront of the teacher and said that I made the flyers (wich I did) anyway she told the assistant principal that I did it and he came up to me and told me to give him the rest of the flyers. So I did and he starts given me all of this bullshit on how it's gang related when he has organized for us to wear red shirts, and there is sumthin else to. Aright there is this one gurl that she came into school and she was wearing a short short skirt that when ever she bends over her ass literally is showin, and the assistant principal saw her but he didn't say anything at all and she came in with a short black skirt and long knee hight boots lookin like a hooker and the assistant principal didn't say anything. So the part that really pisses me off is that we wore black lipstick and he said that it was not aloud when last year we wore black lipstick and he didn't say anything. So it pisses me off that we can't wear black lipstick and sum hoe can some in and look like a prostetute and come in with her ass showin. And they say that guys can't wear anypink wich is wrong, I mean guys should be able to wear anything they want. Please help cuz all of this is just wrong and they kno it!!
Well no, it's not fair. The students of your school, including yourself, are victims of discrimination, sexism, and homophobia. What can you do about it? Not much, really.
I've noticed in most schools that the dress code is much more laid back when the authority is male and the victim is female and hot. What can you do?
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