about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ

Dont shave it. Go get it waxed and it wont grow for about a month or 2. You could also get lazor but thats a little bit more pricey if you dont mind! ♥

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I have acne (thats not really the point) and i used acne cream on my face but i recently stopped using it around my nose because id get really dry skin there. My problem is that it is still all dry and flaky and red there, even if i dont use medication there. I tried lotion and vasoline but that didnt work. The lotion just made it more red and the vaseline made it look oily and i dont want it clogging my pores .. again. I dont have any money to go out and buy anything so does neone have any suggestions what i should try to use? Thanks!!

You need to use Clean & Clear products. They work and make sure you wash your face with warm water and soap every night and morning. Dont wear too much fake makeup and just keep using face lotion. Maybe you could stop using the acne cream for a bit to see if that changes anything! ♥

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I need web sites names of places you can create your own web page. Plz. give me some feedback thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

Xanga! MySpace! Getcities.com! Freewebs! ♥

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I think im in love with my best friend. I have been since 7th grade (im in 8th grade now)and I thought I was over him. But then, everytime I see him I fall in love all over again. DO you think I should tell him how I feel? I am 5'6 and he is about 5'1. Im probably 40 pouds heavier...It is possible for a guy to like a girl that is bigger than them? PlEaSe HelP me out!! I RaTe FiVeS!! ~*~mAdDiE~*~
age 15

Yes its possible. If you thin that your friendship wont change then tell him. But he just might feel weird having his best friend like him. If you really feel comftrable then tell him. Hopefully your friendship wont change. But still, you never know if he might like you back! ♥

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I met up again with a boy I had been talking to online for a while an hadn't seen in a bit. He was totally ecstatic to see me! He gave me the best hug of my life and all. But ever since, our conversations have been duller and there are more gaps. He told me before we met that he was starting to really have a serious crush on me, and I felt so happy because I had liked him for a while. But I can't tell if I did anything wrong or anything. Is he losing interest in me? How can I tell if his crush is growing, shrinking, or not progressing?

Well.. not that there is anything wrong with you but he might of. Im not saying he did or didnt and no1 will know but him. I think he still likes you so you shouldnt worry about that. When your converszations start getting boring bring up a new subject. Honestly I would ask him whats going on! ♥

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Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy?

He defenetlly raped you. He druged you into having sex with him. You really need to tell your parents!! Tell the cops and he can go to jail for that!! He is such a jerk!! Whatever you do.. please dont get abortion..! Wow! I hope you feel better tho and please tell someone before its too late! ♥

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How do you accentuate your eyes? How do you make your eyes look bigger, but with a natural, yet stunning and exotic kind of look? Any tips or sites would be appreciated, thanks.

Use eyeliner and mascara! ♥

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Tampons or Pads?
Sharpie or Pen?
iPOD or CD PLayer?
Boys or Men?

Tampons

Pen

iPOD

Boys

l0l !!

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i juts had a mole removed by a plastic surgon.. if anybody else has had this surgery can you please tell me whats to expect later... like how it will feel... scarring, etc? thanks a lot!!

I never had it or anything but I know someone who has and they said that it doesnt really hurt but it can sometimes. There wont be any scars. ♥

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It goes something like this...

" I'm down for a one night stand....... Cause I ain't yo man....." something it sounds like pretty rickie.. but Idunno

Its called One Night Stand by Lil Jon! I like it! ♥

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u r gorgeous how ever u spell that! i just dont know what to do i cant choose between louis vuitton or dooney and burke.. helP!

Thanks for the gorgeous part.. l0l I would get a Dooney & Bourke. I totally love them and everyone has Louis Vuitton. Eather if its fake or not. But I still love L.V! ♥

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My boyfriend and I had intercourse two Saturdays ago. I'm due to get my period the begining of next week. Normally, by now I'd be showing my normal signs of PMS such as lower back ache, tender breasts, bloating, excessive eating, and cramping. The only thing that I'm getting is slight lower back pains, slightly tender breasts (but hardly), and the excessive eating. We did use protection, but as you may know, condoms are not 100%. Could it be possible that I am pregnant? Or do you think it's a little too soon to tell? I should be getting my period between the 23rd-25th. 17/f. And for the mothers on this site, when you didn't know you were pregnant, before you got your period, did you show your normal signs of PMS? Thank you.

I dont think that you are pregnant and if you are its kind of too soon to tell. Wait and see if you are going to get your period and you might be a couple of days laet but that doesnt matter. If the condom didnt break or anything then its really rare that you are pregnant. Just to make sure if I was you I would get a pregnancy test just to be 100% sure! ♥

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I am in 7th grade and I am in level math... Next year I am skipping Pre-Algebra and taking Algebra.. can any1 give me any expectations or any math tips? Thanks a bunch!

Well Im not reallt sure what kind of math tips you want but Algebra is kind of harder then Pre-Algebra! Its also fun if you have your friends in your class. Just always be prepared and do your best! ♥

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i really like this guy alot... what are some ways i can make him notice me and what are some ways i could catch his attention... i have a really hard time playin hard to get... so how about some ideas for that? like how do u "play" it... please please help!! thank you!!

Be yourself and flirt with him in ways that doesnt seem like you are trying hard. Start conversations and ask him to hang out. Im sure he will like you. I mean you dont have to play hard to get just so he can pay attention to you. Flirting and talking to him will do! Im sure he will like you for sure since you seem nice! ♥

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this summer im moving from PA to Chicago. i need some tips to help myself get through this. like how to handle this kind of a change. thx a lot!

Moving sucks! I know how you feel because I had to move all the way from Europe to St.Louis.. Just bring things that remind you of where you used to live. Bring pictures of friends, things from your school. Your always going to miss it without a dought but you are going to make soo many new friends and you are going to love your new school. You can always go back and visit! Just think about the positive things! ♥

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I think that i may have an ear infection and i'm wondering do i have to take out the ear rings let it close or can it heal eventually?

Dont take it out because it will close. Take it out and clean it. Put the earings in alchocol for about 10 minutes and then wash it with just water. That gets all of the germs out and makes it more clean. Clean your earing at least 2 times a month. ♥

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14/f me and my boyfriend want to have sex but im not really sure how you have sex. i mean what do we do. i dont know if he is a virgin or not but i really want to have sex with him. help

L0L.. HMM. IL GET BACK T0 YU ON THIS ONE.. IM GONNA LET DAVE ANSWER THIS!! ♥

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There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

Guys are so immature sometimes! Dont worry about it! Im sure hes joking because you probablly aren't ugly! Joke and mess with him back and say that and just be like just kidding!♥

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can u please change the color of your coloumn because i cant see your answers !

Yea I will tell me what colors I should change it to now.

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hey ya know how in your buddy pro it says "bout me" questions do u think u could send them to me or copy and patse them into your reply so i can use them ? thanx bunches

Yea.. first can you tell me exacly what your talking about? My buddy4u?? o0r what.

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