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i have ugly white heads, black heads and these white bump thingies all over my face. theyre digusting. without them id actually be pretty but when they finally go away they come right back! ugh its so annoying and disgusting. i feel like no one can look at me without think 'ewww' please help (link)
I suggest you use Proactiv.
http://proactiv.com/


Or go see a dermatologist.




me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal (link)
That is totally normal to feel that way.


i just got out of a long relationship and i want to know what are some really sad good songs about breaking up or something w/ the one you love.... prefer country (link)
I only have a few country songs:


Chris Cagle - Miss Me Baby
Derks Bentley - Come A Little Closer Baby
Delta Goodrem - Lost Without You
Jewel - Standing Still
Edwin McCain - I'll Be



You could also try:


Hope Partlow - Sick Inside
Christina Milian - Until I Get Over You
Da Buzz - Sorry Baby
Dee Dee (Ian Van Dahl) - Forever
DJ Encore ft. Engelina - Stay
Evanesence - Missing
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby

If you need more just drop one in my inbox ♥



I have a firend (if you want to call her that) that has been going aroudn saying that I'm anorexic. I'm 5'4 and 102lbs so yeah, I'm thin but I'm far from anorexic.


Well at school the guy I like came up to me and asked me if I was. I tired to tell him that I wasn't but he just told me that it was really gross.


He was talking to my sister online and she sent me their conversation and he said that he was planning on asking me out but the anorexic thing made him not.


I've had 4 other people come up to me and ask since him! I don't know what to do because this is all so stupid. (link)
Hey hun wow that was such a bitchy thing for her to do.
If people aren't believing you that you are not anorexic then you really can't do anything about it but let this all pass by and don't worry it will.
Get your friend to tell every one that that is not true what she said.
I hope everything works out for you if you need anything drop one in my inbox ♥


I'm planning on asking out this girl tommorrow at school. is this a bad idea? whats a good way to ask some one out?
ALL FIVES (link)
No it's not a bad idea if you like her.
When you ask her out just make sure you two are alone. You could start off by a conversation and somehow ask her out in the middle or just ask her out out of nowhere.


http://tinypic.com/i5tawn.jpg
First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM (link)
Gosh your puppy is soo cutee!!

I suggest Ricky.
I don't know why but when I looked at the picture I just thought he looked like a Ricky lol.
Also you could try Sammy.


what is your fave song right now? (link)
I have a few :


Aslyn - That's When I Love You
Ashlee Simpson - I Am Me
Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby
Hawthrone Heights - Niki FM
Hope Partlow - Sick Inside
Jessica Simpson - Baby It's Cold Outside


Those are just some.





anyone have good song ideas for a warm up cd for volleyball??... it has to get the team pumped!!!! (link)
Panic! At The Disco - But It's Better If You Do


Khriz y Angel- Ven Bailalo (Reggaeton)


Kelis - My Milkshake


Jessica simpson - Forbidden fruit


Hilary Duff - Beat Of My Heart


GreenDay - Basket Case


Euro Trip - Scotty Doesn't Know


Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me


Bratz Rock Angelz - So Good


Ace Of Base - Beautiful Life


Head Automatica - Beating Heart Baby


Hellogoodbye - Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn


Lucas Prata - And She Said...




hey who knows some websites where you can download FREE music for your mp3 player. i know there is some b/c a lady my mom works with her daughter has done that. but can some of you please give me some sites?? thanks in advance
i'll rate 5 for any helpful answers! (link)
You could try:

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml



Ok, I am not a computer whiz or anything so keep that in mind with your answers.

I want to put pictures, it is a comic actually, in the comment box of one of my friends. I cannot figure out to do this, so I tried to put a link in. That didn't work either. So I was wondering if anyone could help out a girl?


Appreciated!!! (link)
What I do is save the picture to Photobucket, then get the Tag URL.
That works but if you still need help you can drop one in my inbox or IM me on AIM.


does anyone know any good love songs about having a really good relationshiop, and things like never wanting it to end? im putting together a CD and just thought id ask here. ill rate.

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The Afters - Beautiful Love

Yellowcard - Only One

112 - love you like I do

1st Lady - Never be replaced

Armin Van Buren - Sky Falls Down

ATC - Im In Heaven When You Kiss Me

Bow Wow - Like You (Feat. Ciara)

Bosson - One in a Million

Billy Myers - Kiss The Rain

Beyonce - Baby Boy

Brian Mcknight - Anytime

Chris Cagle - Miss Me Baby

Ciara - And I

Boys II Men - I can love you like that


If you need more drop one in my inbox ♥






okay i have very curly hair and i dont know what to do about it straightening it takes forever and doesnt come out really good. my hair is very frezzy its about shoulder lenth what can i put it my hair that doesnt make it frezzy and doesnt look greasy but not dry either.i rate high (link)
What I use is "Hask Shine Frizz Remedy".
It works really well.
Also I use "Herbal Essences Style Refreshing Mist".
You should try one of those.


okay well i asked that question about missa. and brittany and where all the girls in my grade come to the bathroom with me and so on..

Heres the story:

I IM'ED Marisa and I questioned "May i ask why you are mad at me and why you hate me?"

and she said:

Marisa: Yeah you may ask and heres the answer.. Because you talk about me behind my back.. You said im a backstabber.. You send my convos to people and try to get them to go against me.. your a spoiled brat.. you get pissed off when im hanging out with brittany.. And last but not least; You LIE.

Me: Okay, i never called you a backstabber... I never talked about you behind your back except the day you made me cry.. I ADMIT IT. I once sent a convo to brittany and nora when you said we arent friends anymore. And i was upset and they both helped me. I am a spoiled brat and i get everything i want. I do get jellous when you are with brittany but i suck it up, is that all a lie? no its all the truth.

Marisa: Yeah well i dont know if we can be friends with eachother anymore, i dont trust you!

Me: I don't know you are throwing away a good friendship and really im not going to come crawling back and if you do im going to reject your plead.

Marisa: You were ging to back stabb me anyways

Me: NO I WASNT!

Marisa: well thats what brittany said

********I IM BRITTANY************

Me: heyy

brit: heyy

Me: why did you tell missa that i was going to back stabb her, you are trying to just hogg her!

Brit signs off at 3:57:52 PM

**********MARISA IMS ME************

Marisa: why are you sending convos to people?

Me: im just asking brittany why she said that i was going to back stabb you

Marisa: Well I know you will i dont trust you!!

Me: dont okay, i apologize, but i dont think that you deserve a apology after what you did to me.

Marisa: bye

Me: bye


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Do you think that i should get over her.. but now i have no friends and all of them went against me because marisa is making them and i feel heart broken....

should i apologize to god or should i forget about her?

x0o Brok3n (link)
If I were you I would forget about her.
I mean would you really want to stay friends with some one who does not trust you?
If she says she does not trust you right now and you do apoligize to her, she might accept it but most likely she still won't trust you.
And if the rest of your friends go against you just beacuse of Marisa then they aren't your real friends; if they were they would still talk to you.


should girls shave down below? (link)
If you are comfortable with it and you want to there is nothing wrong with that.
If you don't want to and/or are not comfortable with it then don't.


WELL i REALLY LiKE THiS B0Y BUT RiGHT N0W I W0ULD SAY WERE JUST FRiENDS..THE THiNG iS i THiNK HE LiKES ME BACK iM T0 SHY T0 SAY ANYTHiNG AB0UT iT

WHAT SH0ULD i D0?
(link)
If you are really that shy then the only thing you could do is wait for him to make the first move.
If you are the type of girl who doesn't mind your friends hooking you two up then ask your friend to do it.
You don't have to go out with him right away.
If you are still shy right now then stay friends with him for now until you get comfortable talking about whatever it is you are shy about.


Hey, please don't delete this question, I really need advice! I just transfered to a new school in the middle of the year. I used to be really popular and well-know, but now I can't seem to make any friends, and it's been about two weeks! Please give me advice to find some friends! (link)
Hey hun,

Aww I know how you feel.
It's kind of hard to transfer to a new school in the middle of the year when every one already knows each other but you have to hang in there.
I know this may mean nothing but you will make friends pretty soon without even realizing.
If you see some people in you class like for example gym or lunch that are alone looking bored and have no one to talk to come up to them and make conversation.
I just started highschool this year and the people I knew I had no classes with them.
I made a lot of friends by just talking to them
You have to start off by making conversation.
It just takes time.
This might not help you much I'm sorry, If you ever need to talk you can drop one in my inbox or IM me anytime. My s/n is XXMiSZJUCiiXX.


i need a cute aim, profile does any one have anything cute to put in there? (link)
What I love to do for my AIM profile is get cute little quotes from xanga.
I'll give you a link:

http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1858043



Does proactiv work? (link)
I have been using Proactiv for a while now and it worked at first but now it doesn't.
If you don't keep using it properly each day then your face gets worse.


whats pros
and
cons?? (link)
Pros are the postive things in a situation and Cons are the negative.



do u think its sexy wen a guy doesnt save down there? (link)
I certainly do not find that sexy.




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