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This sounds like a really childish question to ask but..thongs.
My mom thinks they give the wrong message across when a 14 year old wears them.
But I still want to wear them because I hate it when you can see the panty lines. They're just so ugly!
They make me feel weird knowing that you can see them! I hate it. There's probably nothing wrong with it, but I still don't like it.
I don't know what to do though. I wear boy shorts alot, they don't show as many lines but I don't really like them. I wanna feel comfortable.
My friend told me to just confront my mom and tell her that I don't like the lines I get with regular panties but I can't do that, LOL. I don't know why.
Any suggestions? (link)
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What you could do is ask your mom to give you some money when you decide to go shopping,buy the thongs even though she is unaware of it since you don't want to confront your mom.When she askes you what you bought you could tell her you bought some supplies or clothing or other stuff you needed anything.Your mom should let you wear what you choose to want to wear it's not her body it's yours she totally needs to start caring about herself instead of trying to pick things for others.
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Well I had a 50 dollar bill and well my cousin watched me put it in my purse and then I walked away for a second and well I know for a fact that she steals stuff from my family cause my family geos on vaction every year and she and her mom and brother stay at our house and one time she told me that she stole my sisters cds and bra and underwaer and I think that she took my money cause I cant find it anywhere! How can I ask her without getting her mom mad at me?? easy fives thankss...and I will report bullsh*t answers (link)
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Just ask her if she happened to see your money around because you can't find it,that if she happened to take the money accidently not knowing it was yours to return it to you,and that you would very much appreciate it.You might as well tell her not to tell her mom about it.
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing? (link)
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It's alright as long as you don't always buy her very expensive stuff all the time because then she will always want but since it was her birthday with much more good reason that you decided to do so.Also it will show her though that you really like her a lot to give her something that costs a lot of money.That is very generous of you how sweet!
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i have a problem opening up with guys. it is kind of weird. i like guys and all but when i acually am with them (date) it seems to weird. like i go back in my shell. how do i keep from doing this? (link)
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You just may need more experience,just need to get used to it so then later on you will be able to be open to the guys you like,and that happens to other people too.What will be much easier for you is that you let them do the most of the talking,like when they ask you a question you just answer, and try asking them questions about their interests or desires.If he askes you why you don't talk very much with him say that you just want to keep hearing of what he has to say about himself because you're very interested in him.
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I am a secondary school student (15 yrs old, female and have been in love with a boy that I know for just over 3 yrs.
Usually we get along really well, though he treats me as nothing more than a good friend.
I am extremely confused, as everytime I get an indication that he thinks of me as more than a friend he will do something unexpected and nasty afterwards, like making a really harsh/cutting comment in front of a group.
He has heard rumours in the past that I fancied him but he has remained a very good friend.
I can be quite insecure sometimes and I wonder if it's my lack of self confidence which is making me confuse his signals (is he giving me the green light?) or whether the fact I adore him is making me read more into his body language. Or his he just sending mixed signals?
Please help! Thanks, UrsulaX (link)
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It could be very possible he is sending mixed signals which confuse you but you have to figure them out like solving a puzzle you have to put the pieces that fit together just right.He is probably hiding his feelings towards you,wants you to find out or he just thinks of you as a special friend.What I suggest you do is find out who are his other friends like guys,be friends with one of them,you should then ask what your friend of 3 yrs.saids about you,if he likes you, tell him not to tell him about this to just keep it between you,and him.Then you will get out of those mixed signals.
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Well i have a friend lets call him fred.. well fred is usally really happy.. and i cant picture him being sad at all.. i dont think i have ever seen him sad.. and ive known his since 2nd grade (in 10th now) so ya.. and today i went online and his away message said dead inside.. and i asked him if he was ok and he didnt say anything.. and im worried about him cause hes one of my really really good friends.. what should i do? please answer i rate high.. (link)
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Tell him what seems to be making him upset,to trust you,to say what is on his mind,and what are friends for.Also that if you were upset about something that you would tell him if something is bothering you or something that upsets you,and that friends shouldn't keep things away from each other.Try insisting,if he tells you to stop then tell him you will respect that,and you will give him time and when he feels to want to talk about it you'll be waiting intill he does.
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ok so i've known this kid keith for like a year or something, we never really thought of each other as more than friends but thats all changed now. ever since i met him i've heard about him hooking up with a bunch of my friends. after me & keith started talking more he started to tell me he liked me and stuff, and i always gave him a hard time saying that i was only gunna b another girl he made out with , so i didnt talk to him for months, i just started talking to him again and he tells me he changed and hes not like that anymoree...and explains a bunch of reasons why he has changed and why he wanted too. i believe him. i really do. and then me & him went to the movies and made out and all that good stuff.. NOTHING ELSE. well a couple days later one of my friends..we'll call her kim..well kim i guess had a 'thing' with keith as she explained. and as her friend...lets call her kenzee explained. well i called keith and he tells me that kim totally bitched him out and i told him she bitched me out too. and i ask him if he had a 'thing' with kim and he told me sorta, well he admits to me that he likes her but he tells me he likes me too. keith and kim both got into a fight because of me and kim tells me that i ruined everything and that i go around bragging about kissing 'gorgeous' keith in her words. which i didnt. so, about two days later after that (me&keith are still talking) keith leaves me a message while im at cheerleading practice saying in exact words..this: "hey *****, whats up..well i just called to say hi...and whats up..well ill talk to you later oh and me and kim are 'really' cool now. well talk to you later bye hun love you." so i totally freaked out with jealously of course..well who wouldnt? and i called him and i guess he just got off the phone with kim..well yeah im soo jealous its unbelievable im scared hes just using me as like a back up or something like that or he just wants two girls..i dont know well can someone give me advice on what i can do? please thankss...i'll rate. (link)
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What you need to do is find out if keith is cheating on you with kim it's a big chance he is since he had the past of his that he went out with a lot of your friends.Ask your other friends if they seen keith with kim,what do they do,if they don't know anything tell them to keep an eye on him for you,ask other people who know him.If he is cheating on you break up with him and don't think about it twice because once a guy cheats he will do it again.
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i am 14 im about 5'4 or 5'5 i weigh 135 pounds. i am very muscular with muscular legs and arms. I am gaining weight and its going right to my stomache.. i know i am eating poorly but i am excersizing daily b/c i am in athletics currently involved in volleyball. I will be in off season soon for basketball so i will lose acouple pounds off of that. I really want to lose weight! Any ideas to get my mind off of junk food and start losing weight >>FAST (link)
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What you can do is just put your mind on the television watching a favorite program you like,get rid of the junk food before you may probably can't resist getting your hands on it.You could go outside,practice with a couple of friends playing basketball or handball or other sports that get you going into action.Or rent some movies or do some workout,at the same time hear some music.Or you could some studying or do some crossword puzzles or buy some magazines but it doesn't really have to be these exactly things I'm just giving you some good examples of things that sets your mind a lot so you would be really focused on that and not on the junk food.Which by the way helps to set your mind about other things as well.Run daily for at least fourty five
minutes.Eat several fruits,vegetables,eat every three hours,for a meal eat half of a plate,and a small amount of meat but try staying away form foods that are red meat or greasy foods and drink at least eight cups of water daily as well.Good luck!
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You said that you likes to go to the gym because it helps to relieve stress,in your info. Well, I dont have access to a gym, and I can't get a membership. What types of things do you do at the gym that I can do at home? Sometimes I do 100 crunchs/sit ups before I shower, but that is sooo hard to remember to do! and to get in the mood to do. Do you have any tips? I mostly want to tone up my stumach, legs, and butt. I will be running track in the spring.
If you wanna know more, just ask!
-Kellzie- :) (link)
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What I do at the gym that you can do is I do cardio activity for like twenty five minutes,I run for twenty minutes.I also do at least 30 pullups and 35 pushups or more,I use a big red ball,I lay on the floor,extend my legs on the ball,bent my knees as I push up,forward.Another exercise I do on the red ball is I place my body on top of it,bent my kness up,then I go down but as I go up my knees must bend,you have to have some coordination,use your hands to make your your stomach lays flat on it,and you will need practice to get very good at doing this and then it will be a piece of cake.I also left weights with my arms bent,legs apart like a triple beam balance if you know what I mean.I lift weights at least fifty times,I exercise three times a week.You should do a lot of running so your speed gets faster that is what happen with my speed I was one of the fastest runners in my gym class and my gym teacher said I ran like speedy gonzalez!That made me so happy!Exercise at least three to four times a week and the sooner you start the better!Good luck!
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Hey yeahi am 13/f and I still like my ex-boyfriend 13/m a whole lot but like his ex-gf out of nowhere cause came back to our school and now he is acting all strange around me now that she is back but before she was here we were like the best of friends but now we have drifted apart and I have told him how i felt about him but he always changes the subject like he is avoiding it what should i do? (link)
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You need to get his attention,tell him not to change the subject,maybe he probably changes the subject becuase he probably doesn't want to be in a relationship with you because he may still have feelings for his ex girlfriend so he rather not want to talk about it.Tell him that ever since his ex came in the school he changed with you and ask for an explanation.
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i have cryed myself to sleep for the past 2 years EVERY single night. i cry out of nowhere and get upset for ansolutely no reason at all (that i know of) no matter how hard i try to be i'm barely ever happy. i don't bother people about this because i don't even know what's going on so why tell them unless i know what it's about. i used to cut and i've counted 51 noticable scars from it but i've stopped my old habits for my boyfriend. i'm not one of those people who like to bother others about my life and my problems because i don't like having people constantly worry about me or think that somethings going on in my personal life. there are some people i can talk to about this but they would worry and i can't stand it because i dont want to be the person people are always worried about. but i cry every single night for no reason most of the time and i try so hard not to but i can't hold them back.. i don't understand myself anymore (link)
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There are other people who go through situations they don't understand why like yourself but you really need to seek to your parents about it,go see a therapist so she could help you find out what is going on with you,and the process may take a while or longer but time doesn't matter you need to cure this horrible issue.It doesn't seem normal for yourself to be crying for no reason get help as soon as possible.
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I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!! (link)
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You need to apologize to her,tell her you will never hit her again,and get into therapy so she would see that you're being very serious about it,buy her some flowers or some other gift saying your truly sorry,and never meant to hurt her,and to give you a another chance,and that she won't regret for taking you back.She may not take you back right away but you need to earn her trust again,and be very respectful,be a gentleman to her,if she refuses to listen keep insisting,and don't give up which will show her even more that you really want to be in a relationship with her, and, that you care that much that you are not going to quit on her.Don't get frustrated take my advice I mean what do you have to lose,take some action now!
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hi..
Iam 31, i have 2 kids one 3 month old and a 9 year old ..my oldest has a different dad{happens}
i have been w this man for 5 years and he has always treated my son like his own..his father is somehow thru manipulation turning my son against my boyfriend all of a sudden he doesnt want him at any football games,, which he paid for if it wasnt for him he wouldnt even be on a team... his father and i have been apart for 10 years he has a girlfriend that calls me on the phone and says i can have him back and that sort of stuff i will call there house and she will hang up on me..i dont really kow how to go about handling this situation ... i think it boils down to his father being insecure about my son and his relationship since i have had the baby! why since then? like i said it has been 10 years! iam thinking of professional help! thanks ! torn mother/torn child
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You obuviously need to seek for professional help for this serious situation,it's certainly ridiculous on how your son's father can't handle the fact that you have a boyfriend,doesn't want you to enjoy your life with him,he has no right to manipulate others like his son, and on top of that he has a girlfriend!You certainly need to have a long,good discussion with your son's father, tell him that you don't want anything with him,you respect that he is always there for your son but he should have some respect for other people,that your boyfriend didn't do anything to him so why is that he makes your son against your boyfriend?!He certainly needs a lot of help as well because why does he want to start to destroy someone who is innocent of his bad actions.
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I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade (middle school). I have this tee shirt that I want to wear that I got from American Eagle and it says "Very Huggable" on the front, and "Very Kissable" on the back. Is that inappropriate for school, and would it be sending a bad message because I don't want to look like an idiot when I wear it on Monday. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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Words on a teeshirt will say things out aloud,people may start to think that you want to express the words written on your shirt so perhaps you should wear shirts that say things that you are or that won't make you feel uncomfortable if you don't want people to think bad then don't wear it just wear something else.Since you want to wear it you should probably wear it when you're going to some other place than school because you know how some people can be.
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I recently found out that my bestfriend cheated on his gf. And it wasn't just a make out with another girl type of cheating. He lost his virginity to this other girl. And he has no intention of breaking up with his real gf or even telling her. She lives about 2 hours away from here so unless someone tells her, she wont find out. She's also a good friend of mine so i'm questioning if I should tell her. I know if my bf was cheating on me and she knew, I'd want her to tell me. I'm not speaking to my bestfriend right now becasue of the fact. So should I tell his gf? (link)
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You probably shouldn't get in this problem it doesn't correspond for you to tell her what you should tell her is to keep an eye for her boyfriend,tell her that she shouldn't really trust him,keep a good check on him,and to spy on him because she may never know what he does when she's not around,and let her find out,and see the truth with her own eyes.There is a 50% chance she may not believe you,just may think you're jealous,a 50% chance she may believe you so it's better for her to see it herself.
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i have 2 groups of friends. group a always thinks im leaving them for group b... and vice versa. what do i do? (link)
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You should spent half of your time with group a,group b so it will be equal.Talk to group b that you aren't leaving them for group a,and tell them what you could do to prove them wrong,and that you are really a true friend to them.Try not to worry about this whole situation.
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Okay, I'm one of those people who hates homework questions, but for some reason I'm in honors english 2 this year, I don't know how I made it, but I did.
Anyway, we have a definition paper, and I have to have the intro paragraph done by Monday. Well I've asked around, and have an okay idea of what a thesis statement is, but I'm still confused on how to come up with one. It's a definition paper, and though I would rather just get help on writing it, as in, I'm not asking for answers, just help on making one. My word is hate, because we had to pick a word to describe the holocaust.
But really what I'm asking is how can I come up with a thesis statement for that. I'm not saying "do my homework" feel free, I don't care, but if you come up with the thesis statement for me, at least tell me how you got it. Please, my teacher doesn't have internet at home so I can't e-mail her. I will love you forever, and I always always always rate! (link)
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A thesis statement for the holcaust could be that "The holocaust affected the people majorly"or "The holocaust was an event of total destruction for the people"or the holcaust brought out many terrifying times for the people that live during that historical event" choose one of them there all very good thesis statements.
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how come when i ask a question that serious and i wanna know an answer people give me these stupid rude bitchy answers? Like go do ur mom or loser etc,. Why do they do that is thei life to bad that they have to make some one elses worse? Thanks (link)
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You should just ignore those bad comments,ask someone who will not judge you or critcize ask people for advice, that are willing to really help you but not by disrespecting you or calling names at you.When you want to make decisions make it on your own if others don't want to help you out.Those people who told you those bad things they might as well should of kept it to themselves if they had nothing good to say they need someone to lecture them on respecting others.The possible reasons why they could of done that was probably because they are immature or they have issues.Or just haters.
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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please. (link)
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I mean life can be so harsh on those who deserve to be happy I mean when Iam very into a guy then I find were not meant to be it hurts me it's either because they have someone or they don't notice how I feel towards them or other reasons but I handle it,keep trying to find the guy,I say to myself I have to have hope,and I keep trying.It's understandable that you want to give up on women but killing yourself is not the way people that died didn't want to die even when people say it they don't mean it. Don't choose to drink alcohol or kill yourself that won't solve anything. But if you decide to be intersted in guys or keep trying with woman well you decide for what you want to do with your life choose what's best for you.Hopefully you find that one person to share your dreams,hopes,and happiness I wish you all the luck!
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ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!! (link)
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Tell your friend not to say things like that,that she makes you look bad,that it really hurts your feelings,and that friends should be able to get along,and respect as well if not then what does she call that?If she won't listen,keeps the negative attitude then she isn't worth it as a friend to you or to no one.Embrassing you like that was just wrong!Or if you want to keep the friendship then just don't hang out with her in public especially in front of the guys!But if I were you I won't let someone treat me like that put her in her shoes she needs someone to teach her some manners!
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