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Q: how can i take off my acrylic fake nails without going back into the salon to get them taken off?

ive heard about soaking them in hot water.
soak them in nail polish remover until they get weak-sh like you can pull them off. then just peel them off

Q: okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.

HELP!
your friends regreted what they did. your not being a goody goody, your being smart. your kissing your boyfriend! goody goodys dont do that!!! dont worry about it alright sweetie? yupour useing good judgement that i wih everyone would use

Q: Congratulations on being top columnist =)
lol thanx babe!!!

Q: I have been married for 8 years. My husband and I have grown distant over the past 2 years. I started sleeping with someone which I don't believe in, and still can't believe I did it. I fell in love with this other man and he is the father of my newborn. I still love my husband and do not want to hurt him, but I do not want to hurt the other man either. I believe in God and that he doesn't believe in divorce, and the roots of this are so deep now. I would be happier with the other man, but does that matter at this point?
your happiness is the only thing that matters. i understand that it is difficult to leave a relationship that has lasted for so long, but if you are happier with the other man you need to be with him. this baby will always be a constant reminder of the other man, and you dont want to resent your current husband. god ment for you to be happy, and to live the greatest life possible. bein with a man that you dont want to be with is not being happy, and the day you die you will regret all of the things that do not make you happy. life is short, it dosent last long. would you really like to use up your life with a man you dont want to be with? i advise you to divorce your current husband, and to be with the fathr of your newborn. i wish you the best of luck

Q: congrats on featured columnist!
lol thanx!!!!!! you will definately be on there soon!!!!!!!!!

Q: i woke up this morning with a stiff neck and it hurts really bad. i cant move but head to the left at all or it kills. what can i do to help this!? i need all the help i can get, thanks.
dont worry about it! i got it and it only lasted about a week until it completely went away. I would just get a lot of sleep, and take some advil. keep it hot. maybe sleep on one of those pillows you plug in until they get hot or a heating pad. take a bubble bath. be careful when your bbrushing your hair so you dont pull at your neck. dont worry to much youll be fine!
xo

Q: i want to buy these pills for breast growth but im going to talk to a doctor about it first so ill know its safe but has anyone ever taken a pill for this? does it work at all? thanks!
i have heard that they are a waste of money i wouldent try them
just wait you will grow lol

Q: how is school like where you live
im taking a survey to se what school is like
so what do you rate ur school
okay
my school is sort of fun
because we basically rule the school (my whole grade)
we are all so tight that no one could ever break us up
out school uniforms suck. majorly
some of the teachers are pretty decent but the other ones are horiable!!!!
scale of 1-10 i rate an 8ish?

Q: HELP
tomorrow
i have a date type thing with my friends
and like yeahh
i have black slacks [pants]
and black flats [shoes]
WHAT COLOR SHIRT DO I WEAR
without looking weird
like gothish
you could wear a color like pink or red or yellow shirt with a black shirt underneath. maybe wear a belt of the same color to help from looking gothic. dont wear a lot of eyeliner and wear "happy girl" makeup like light eyeshadows, use an eyelash curler, soft pink blush and lipgloss, etc. maybe curl your hair if you have time? or braid it or put it in pigtails. if you need anything else let me know, im always here
xo

Q: I was thinking of asking my principal to start an advice column for the school. Maybe like a small group of people get together sometimes and maybe there could be a school website for kids to go to and ask their questions and this group of kids could answer the questions, but no one would know who they are. How exactly would that work? Does anyone know of a school (middle school) having an advice column ? Also, how could I bring this up to my principal? And do you have any more ideas of an advice column or something like that for the school ? Thanks !
yeah, i have heard of middle schools that have websites and theres advice comumns on some of them. the advice columns were made after the school made a website tho. you could ask to make an apointment with the principle. when you get in tell him/her that you think an advice column would be helpful. tell your principle that you would take full responsibility, but you need theur "okay" on it. you can make a websight on blogger or wetpaint or somthing like that, and maybe advertise it around the school. dont tell anyone it was your idea. post flyers or whatever after school when no one is there. because once more then one person knows somthing, it dosent stay a secret. if your willing to pay for a website you can make your oun, and have all your own features. tell me how it works out! if ya need anythin lemme know!!
xoxox

Q: Does it sound like I like him.. ?

I think he is cute, but not hott.
I like to talk to him.
Talking to him is easy and I feel comfortable.
I think he is very funny and i'm always laughing around him.
I walk home with him and a few other people after school sometimes.
I look forward to walking home with him and them.
His name slips out of my mouth when I'm talking about someone else.


how does that sound ?
it sounds like you dont have a crush on him. it sounds like you enjoy his company
it sounds more like instead of being attracted to him your attracted to who he is and his personality
thats very good
i think you guys would make a great couple!

Q: Hi. I've been thinking about going on birth control. Not because I want to have sex, because I'm waiting for marriage. But because I hate my period.

I've had it about 2 years, almost 3. It just got half way regular last year.

I was wondering what type of birth control makes you have fewer periods?

I've heard something about one that only maked you have 3 or so a year. What is it called?


I'm 14, and sex is the furthest thing from my mind, so don't worry about that.

What would I have to go through to get them if my mom says okay? Like how would the doctors appointment go?

How do I ask my mom also?


Thanks.
tampons make periods more easy to handle. also taking advil or midol. explain to your mom that you dont want to have sex, but your period is getting so annoying ang gross you want to make it go for less time.

Q: ok my glasses just broke and im tired of it. i want to get contacts but i want to know the pros and cons of them first before i spend my money on them. would it be better to just get my glasses fixed and what is the best place to get contacts. also i am 14 f and i have to pay for them myself so i need cheap one's ( but good quality). my friend said go to walmart and get them. is that ok? i just need help intirely! please help me...
i have contacts. i have had them since i was nine. so basically theyre extremely simple to put in
PROS:
1. they dont fall of when you jump
2. you cant see them, so everyone can see your eyes
3. theyre easier to carry around
4. you can win more stareing contests
5. they come in colors if you want colored ones

CONS:
1. if they break, like in school or somthing, then you cant see through one eye until you get home to put another one in
2. you cant swim with your eyes opened unless your wearing goggles
3. there is a slight risk of getting infection if you forget to take them out
4. you need to take the responsibility to rinse them out every night

i havent found any of this a problem though! good luck if you need anythin lemme know!
xo

Q: I need a good site for pictures, Like cute pictures that i can put on my space, or nex, please help
photobucket.com

and google.com under images you can search for whatever you want!

Q: I went on a few sites that i shouldn't have... how do i COMPLETELY delete them from my computer?
press Ctrl and H it will wipe out your history.
but if theres things in your history you dont want to delete, you could just visit a bunch of websites to move them down of your server so they wont be seen so easily. most parents dont really knwo so much about computers, they probably wont ever find it anyways

Q: i am saving my self for marrige and my bf doesnt want to wait until we get married. he sometimes puts me agasnt a wall or kisses me and doesnt let go. this things exite me alot and im afraid they might lead to me giving in.
Is this normal for me to get exited sexually at such things?
yeah its totally normal don worry about it. getting excited is fine just when it gets to the point where you are about to give in you should ask him to stop.

Q: hey, well this past week ive been having like a million dreams a night. like about stupid stuff too. like last night it was about me in a grocery store dressed up as a skeleton, chocolate chip muffins, and me peeing and then having to pee again right after. yeah random right? whats wrong with me? this has been happening to me for a week and its totally freaking me out.
i wouldent worry about it. we all get strange dreams just somtimes we dont remember them. maybe your not sleeping as lightly. check out http://www.myjellybean.com/dream/dream.html

and see what each part of your dream means

Q: do tampons always break your hymen [considering it wasnt broken before]?
no, the tampon dosent break your hymen because its to small and dosent pass it.

Q: Hi, Im 15 I was thinking I would wear a mini jean skirt, brown leggings, brown uggs, a redish low cute shirt with a pink tank top under the shirt. I would wear this to school. Do you think this sounds ok to wear or is it to weird. If you think its weird can you give me advice on how to make it look cool.
i would definately wear a red undershirt instead of a pink one. it wont make a huge differenct but it will make some. then id wear a brown belt over the red shirt if its long or i would wear a redish belt over the skirt if it dosent go so long. id wear a brown headband to.
anythin else lemme know!
x's and o's!!

Q: 13/f
I'm going on a Carnival Cruise very soon and I was wondering if there are any particular ways to make friends. I have a lot of friends now, and I can be pretty outgoing at times. I will probably be going to the Club Carnvial program for teens 12 to 14, has anyone experienced this and what should I expect there? I want to make a few close friends to hang out with on this cruise. (:
Thanks
im going in the summer! just be confident. dont be afraid to go up to people who look around your age. start talking to them. give a compliment and then sit next to them adn ask them a question and then when they answer, answer it yourself. like "you like it here?" "yeah" "yeah me2, espeacially the food. my favorites the pizza! wat do u like the best?" etc and then ask them if they wnna hang out with u l8r. be sure to have confidence and make conversation! good luk!

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luvbug555
FRIENDS ARE LIKE ELEVATOR BUTTONS. THEY CAN EITHER BRING YOU UP OR TAKE YOU DOWN. CHOOSE WISELY
A friend will let you borrow their umbrella but a best friend will take yours and scream "Run Loser Run!!!"
we are all angels
with one wing
and we can wonly fly
with the help of somone else
my friends are my wings

TRUE FRIENDS
THEY ARE HARD TO FIND
DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET!

you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose! but you cant pick your friends nose

killers stab you in the head
Frenemies stab you in the back
boys stab you in the heart
but best friends dont carry knives

a best friend will never ever come to bail you out of jail so never use your one phone call on them
i tried that, but she wouldent pick up. when i got back to our jail cell, i asked her why she wouldent pick up her phone.

theres no thing as strangers. there are only friends we havent met yet



ill give you advice the best that i can
im only 13 so the advice i give you may not be the best
but ive made tons of mistakes so i can relate
and im obsessed with shopping so anything with clothes i can help
and im always here if you want to talk or hang out or anything
im giving you the truth straight up
i am a brutally honest person
Im also fun-loving and adorable
I consider myseld a happy person
I just happen to love black
Do not call me gothic or ill kill you

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