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I'm a freshman highschool girl and this year I've really grown up this year. You could say I've grown into my looks. I stand with the same group of people every morning before classes and every morning I get these little smiles from the guys. They also look at me then when i turn around to look at them they quickly look away and then say something and kinda point at me. Is this a good or bad thing? I think its good but I don't want to get my hopes up too high. So what are the guys saying/thinking? Boys answers would really help but girls should answer too.
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You get smile from them? For the most part its good because they might like you and they think about how good you look and how nice and stuff. But if they are frowning and giving you digusted looks then they are jerks. But basically what you described is good!
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i am 19 male, i have this friend who is girl.. let me first make it clear that i am just interested in friendship with her...
i ll start from the beginning, about in the starting of this year at college, she joined our friend cirle..we were having no problems, and helped her in whatever way possible regarding her relation with her boyfriend. however she had a small fight with one of the friends.. she didnt feel comfortable being with us any more...she joined an another friend circle... now she continues to talk to me... she share her thoughts with me that she shares with no one else{atleast as far as i believe}... recently she broke up with her boy friend also at the same time her mother fell ill, she asked for my help and i helped her in whatever way possible...
but for past sometime i am feeling that she is only using me whenever she requires me... i wonder many a times that what is my importance in her life but dont know should i ask directly her or not?? what should i do?? should ask her and how should i ask her??? i really want to know about her feelings for me... (link)
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Girls need someone to hold on to during her troubles and someone to talk to and will listen to them. She probably dosn't mean to bother you of any way but she has probably been going through alot at this moment and needs someone there. Its real nice that a guy would help a girl when she is in trouble. She probably trust you and know that you will help her in her time of need.
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okay for valentines day if u have a boyfriend is he your valentine no matter what? or does he have to ask you?
and if he has to ask you to be ur valentine, is it stupid to ask him?
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I think he would be your valentine already. Asking them to be your valentine would be asking another way to ask them out but you guys are already together so you he'd be your valentine no matter what.
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Okay so tonight i lost my grandpa. and feel so horrible because i wish i had been closer to him. i am really scared that i wont be able to deal at the services and stuff thats coming up later this week. do you guys have any seggestions for saying goodbye easier and not letting go or moving on but becoming at peace with whats happened and idk. im not really sure im still in shock, because this was all so sudden and i feel so bad because the last time i could have seen him, i took it for granted and didnt go, wow i feel so awful. my friend says i should speak at the service and that would be like a way of saying sorry, but idk if i can evn pull it together enough to get to them.
but any help would be great
sorry for my poor grammar and everthing. (link)
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One thing I wanted to say is I'm sorry for what happened. Well everybody goes through stuff like this and it happens everyday. Like take a breath right now and 8 people died. I don't know where but someone has. Its sad but its part of life. Speaking at the service would be a good idea, it would make you feel better about not being so close to him. Its hard to say goodbye like my grandma she passed away 7 years ago when I was I think in first grade and I miss her so much still so you are still gonna miss him. I hope everything goes well for you.
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he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?
16/f
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If he cheated on you he probably he just wants to use you and like the rest said he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He might like you but even if he does its a bad choice to go back for him.
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well, i didnt kno what category to use. so yeaa. anyways... this is going to be long and confusing...
so my life is basically retarded right now. i dont have many friends. i mean i do, but none of them are really close, cos people tend to cause drama and screw me over, and i got sick of it, so i pretty much pushed everyone away. when i first meet people, im really shy and i usually dont talk much. i also suck at opening up, even though i want to, i just kinda.. cant. i have one really close friend, and shes not even that close. her mom is really strict and i only see her at school usually. outside of school, i never have anyone to hang out with accept my older friends, but sometimes i feel like im a pain in the butt to them. cos i cant drive and i always need a ride, and i barely talk to them. we dont know much about each other, we just hang out. its weird. i love being out with them though, everything feels better. i hate being at home. my parents always give me shit. they expect me to get straight a's or a+'s, and they give me so much responsibility. then, it soccer, they expect me to be a star player. but i cant, im not that great. they always yell at me when i dont live up to their expectations. they dont know anything about my life either. one time, my dad was asking me about drinking. i told him i dont do it and that i would never do it. he told me i wasnt fun, which was weird. truth is, ive been drinking since i was 12, and ive smoked, both cigs and weed. it makes me feel kinda guilty when they compare me to my sister and say how shes so bad, yet im so good and obediant and stuff. with guys, its been shit. ive had two boyfriends, neither of which lasted very long. im more of a tomboy, and im the youngest of all my friends that i hang out with outside of school, who are all boys, pretty much. theyre all either seniors or older, except for 2 or 3 of them, and im a freshman. there was also this guy that ive liked since i started talking to him in the beginning of the year. he kissed me, but told me it was just spur of the moment. then we didnt talk for a while. after about two or three months of little contact, hung out again and he kissed me and.. we had sex. it was a mistake, but i dont regret things.. so i guess its not really a regret. now we stopped talking so much again. i also like one of my senior friends, but hes.. well, i dont know whats up with him. hes a real gentleman, so hes never really like "dayumn, shes hot" i only heard him talk like that once, and it was just me, him, and two other guys, and they were saying they would fuck one of the teachers at our school for an a. he was just like, "oh yea, me too" but kinda in a quiet "not really" way. theres one other friend i have, and hes.. well, i feel kinda close with him. like, i feel like almost like siblings, or maybe just like best friends. but yea, i dont want to get attached to him because hes so bad. he goes to juvi school and is in gangs and stuff. well anyways. in school i always use to get good grades and never get in trouble. this year, my grades have dropped a little, and i have already gotten 3 referrals. ive been ditching and stuff too, which i know i shouldnt but.. i did. i want to go somewhere far away but i cant. my parents are giving me so much responsibility, they want me to like, save all third world countries. seriously. i dont. i want travel. my parents dont know any of my friends. not my guy frinds anyways. she thinks im always hanging out with my "nerdy friend" amanda, but im always with my guys.
sorry, this jumped all over the place. anyways, i just wanted to know your perspectives on my life and what i should do and stuff. i know i do bad things and hang out with bad people, but i dont want to stop hanging out with them. them make me happy. so i just want to hear what you guys think of this and stuff... (link)
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Alot of people go through that. And most parents expect you to live up to their dreams and you can't live up yours. You just need to try your hardest to open up to people. I use to be all shy and stuff but I finally overcomed that, I just tried talking to people and now I have a real close best friend. You also need to make a good choice in the guy you like because that can change your life and make your life worse. Like you said you don't want to get attached to the guy because he is so bad and thats true. The gentlemen guy dosn't sound so bad so he's is a good choice. But smoking also isn't best and I know you know that but trust me, bad idea. Like people say its cool to smoke when your like a teenager right? And then when your older is cool when you stop. But it will be hard to stop and your wasting your life with that. It would be hard to get your life in order but just try. By choosing good friends and influences. I hope everything goes well for you!
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what can i do to get to her? she definitely doesn't trust me and i feel like she's been keeping things from me. when it comes to other guys, she gets defensive, really defensive. i trust her and tell her everything, but i feel as if she keeps things from me.
it deals with guys. why does she get so defensive when either of us brings up her guy friends? not just any guy friends, the ones that like her. it doesn't seem like she draws the line clear with them. talking to her about it makes her uncomfortable, and makes me look like the bad guy. what should i do? i really don't want to lose her, i just want her to be honest about things (link)
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Tell her that you mean alot to her and that you don't want to lose her to the other guys also that you really care about her. Tell her that you want her to be honest and tell you everything thats going on. It might make her uncomfortable but if you don't you will not know whats going on. I hope everything goes well for you!
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heyy ... okay well me n my bf just got together on the 7th and weve gone to the movies together and stuff so yah but i really wanna kiss him and i dont really no how to .. he said he wants to kiss me to so yah but i dont no what to do like just randomly kiss him or what .. it would be me first kiss so i want it to be special. we've like hugged and everything so yahh... and i need some ideas on what to get him for v-dayy. thanks for the helpp!!!! (link)
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You should kiss him when you feel its right. Like the special moment that comes up. For valentines day, I hope these help
~Chocolates are always a classic for valentines day!
~Or those heart candies those boxes
~Or a nice heart shaped picture frame of the 2 of you in it
~Some fresh baked cookies
~If you don't cook then you can get the ones from the store and stick them in the oven
~Or take him somewhere to eat or somewhere fun the 2 of you will have
I hope you guys have a great valentines day!
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my parents anniversary is on the 15th of Feb and im not sure what to make for them! Any ideas?
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A card is pretty good for you parents anniversary but you can make it yourself or some nice cookies. Thats probably what your parents would like. I hope they have a happy anniversary!
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I've always wanted a cat. Unfortunately, my mom has always put her foot down on that, despite the fact that she always had a cat when she was growing up, and I know she loves cats. Still, she has permitted me and my sisters to have small animals, so we've had an array of gerbils, fish, and hamsters. My two gerbils recently died =[ but it's been long enough that it's time to start looking for a new pet. I really want to convince my mom that we should get a cat. I've narrowed it down to the cat that I want, too: a Siamese-I think they are beautiful, and they are short-haired, which I hope will appeal to my neat-freak mother. I have some problems though: she's been saying no to me and my sisters for so long, I'm afraid she won't even listen to me. Also, I'm afraid that even if she does listen to me, she will say no because she will think it's unfair that she said no to my sisters (they are both living away from home now) but she would say yes to me (even though they both have their own homes now, with their own cats). My question is, what are some good points that I can use when I'm trying to win her over? Anything that you can think of that would help a very smart, somewhat neat-freak person be sold on having a kitten, please tell me!! Thank you so much =] and I'm sorry this is so long. (link)
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Well its real hard to convince your mom to get you a pet! Yeah I've tried! I wanted a cat too but we have dogs so that wouldn't work out but I don't think thats your case. The best you can do is to talk to her calmly about it. Tell her you really wanted a cat and your gerbils died and at least let you have a chance to take care of it for a week or something and see how it goes. Thats basically the best you can do. I hope everything goes well for you!
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15-homeschooled
i like this guy who is a friends bro and i wont see him any more after b-ball season and i dont know how to tell him that i like him in like 2weeks seeing him maybe 3days a week even though i do have his emai
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Just when you do see him tell him and he might like you so then you guys can see each other more often which is great and that you have his email address too. So either tell him in person which I think is best or tell him through email but if you do that then he might just ignore it and pretend he never got it or something like that so telling him in person is better. I hope everything goes well for you!
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ok this may be stupid but what does it mean when someone asks you: do you wanna be ma valentine?
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Its I guess another way to ask someone out without even saying that and also that its valentines day.
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Okay. so i like this boy. he has big ears but he nice and cute.:].i dont know if i should tell him i like him or not. cause if i tell then im scared he will make fun of me. can u guys give me advice. (link)
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I think you should tell him if you keep it to yourself then you will no for sure nothing will happen because he dosn't know or what will be better and if he might reject it is to have a friend tell him. But you never know he might like you too and waiting for you to make the first move. Good luck and I hope everything goes well for you!
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Lately I've been so depressed. I'm 15 yrs old and started highschool. My life is a wreck. I feel like I'm always stressed and don't feel like I wanna live anymore. Eventhough I wouldn't commit suicide. I find myself writting depressing poems and just crying sometimes for no reason. My life isn't the happies life a girl would wish for. My parents are always fighting. They're always in bad moods and take it on me and my 18 year old sister. I hate it!. Also I feel like I have no real friends. Like they really donet care about me. Also my boyfriend that I really cared about broke up with me for no reason and now he wnats another chance. Sometimes I feel like he cares other times I don't. And I don't know what to do. I feel so stressed and like no one really cares about me. My parents work all the time and never have time for me and when we do talk we always end up fighting so I can't talk to them. I have no one to talk to. I hate my life. Please help. (link)
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Lots of people are like that. You said you don't have a life that most girls would wish for, think about the ones with no homes and no families and no food. So actually you got a pretty good life compared to others. This is life and its not gonna be all easy. Your parents take it out on you and your sister. I think you should get a journal and express your feelings there that would help alot and you should find someone to talk about this with. Like your sister she is going through the same thing tell her how you feel and maybe it will help you because most older sisters are there for you and will help you. She might be going through the same thing so you guys need to help each other. I hope everything goes well for you!
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i am way to upsessed with my appearance it is starting to ruin my life i cant go 30 minutes without looking in a mirror and when i do im always depressed because i am so ugly but no one thinks that but me i mean all my friends say i am really pretty and i have alot of guys that like me but i never seems to get that i am pretty through my mind because there is always someone prettier that gets all the attention and it makes me feel really ugly i feel ugly all the time i don't know what my problem is but i think i got a real upsetting depression problem or something what can i do to get over how i look and how my face looks and stuff please help me i have struggled with these problems for about 2 years and i can tell that everyone notices this problem what can i do to get over my appearance (link)
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Thats how I feel sometimes. There is always someone prettier but we can't let that get to us right? So just try to tell yourself you are pretty and so is the next girl. Maybe the other girl might have a bad personality and you have a good one. So that makes you special. You have looks and a great personality. So remember there is also something good about you that people like too besides how you look.
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16/F(me!)-I have a close friend (16/M)who I have strong feelings for.We spend lots of time together and text alot and recently I had no choice but to tell him about the way I felt (he'd heard from one of my so called 'friends'). He told me he just wanted me as a friend.
But then he comes to my house at bizzare hours and says he wants to talk! And if I mention that I want to get out of the house he'll immediately say "me too, meet up with me".
But at school he largely ignores me. And he flirts with just about every girl he sees- constantly!
Also, when we were applying for colleges he convinced me to apply to the same college as him- he said he didn't want to be without me. I got in but now he doesn't mention it and is considering accepting a place at a different college.
What is going on? Does he like me, does he not? Is he using me as some kind of back-up plan? I'm so sick of hankering after him. Sometimes I feel like I just want him out of my life. Then, other times, I think he likes me to and we could have a future together.
I'd just like your opinions on his behaviour please, every observation or piece of advice is welcome!
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He might like you but he also ignores you and flirts with other girls right? I think you should ask him if he likes you and see what he says. Or what may be better if you have a friend go and ask him because he might tell her what is going on. So either talking to him or having a friend talk to him would probably help.
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I want this boy to be my valentine but he's like one of those boys that are still kinda immature and think girls are kinda nasty and they don't get girls and stuff. But, the problem is, i want to ask him to be my valentine since it's coming up soon, and he's nice and cute and all that, but, he might say no and think im weird. I don't know what to do cause then i sit next to him in almost every class and it'll be awkward to him and me. So, any tips on what i should do?
P.S. I want a guys point of view in how he would act if a girl asked to be your valentine. Girls perspectives are fine too.
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Oh I liked a guy like that before, my friends told him that I liked him and he thought it was weird but then he started liking me and got over the girls are gross thing. So I think you should ask him to be your valentine if he thinks its weird he will probably get over that and even start liking you too. I hope everything goes well for you!
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Okay so I am the biggest complainer EVER. I complain about EVERYTHING, like when I'm talking to someone, without even thinking I just start going on a complaining rant. Idk why, my life isn't that bad and other people are probably thinking that I have a horrible life or something. Ahh. It's just a bad habit, though... sometimes, I try my hardest to act all sunny and positive but in reality I'm just pessimistic and I HATE it! I wish I could just appreciate my life and not complain so much because I know it can be much worse. And now everyone feels all bad for me because I always complain and they're like "aww, I'm sorry you're sad" or whatever. I don't want people feeling bad for me! How can I stop complaining and being so negative?? (link)
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Alot of people are like that. I agree with Sabine she is right with the journal. Write in your journal and express your feelings there. Tell everybody the truth and then they will probably stop feeling sorry for you and maybe they can help you overcome that. I hope everything goes well for you!
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I like this boy lets call his Cam. and Cam. said he lkes me and a girl lets call her clair and he likes us both and i told Cam i liked him and Clair doesnt like him at all but he still seems to like her better and i've tried alot of things he talks to me alot and we talk so much it seems he wants to be just friends!! help me please,
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He might be trying to make you jealous. You can't choose who he likes. If he likes Clair than its his choice because you can't make a guy like you. If it seems like he wants to be friends then leave it at that until he really dosn't want Clair and he wants you. But also you might be missing out on a really cool friendship.
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i rarely ever get pimples but now i have some spots of some !
i ran out of proactive so now im using the acne free 3 step thing in the morning and at night and at night i am using prescription acne cream on the spots. i have been doing this for about 2 weeks and they wont go away!
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Get more proactive and make sure to keep washing your face. That should do it until you get proactive again.
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