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Valentines Day
I want this boy to be my valentine but he's like one of those boys that are still kinda immature and think girls are kinda nasty and they don't get girls and stuff. But, the problem is, i want to ask him to be my valentine since it's coming up soon, and he's nice and cute and all that, but, he might say no and think im weird. I don't know what to do cause then i sit next to him in almost every class and it'll be awkward to him and me. So, any tips on what i should do?
P.S. I want a guys point of view in how he would act if a girl asked to be your valentine. Girls perspectives are fine too.
Thanks in advance.
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Male 19y/o p.o.v.;
If you're going to ask a question like that, it matters very much what age both of you are. Please included it in future questions.
Younger than 12 (unlikely); He might not like it, and it could result in him teasing you later on. It depends on his personality, and whether he actually really does like you. If he's very immature, he might do stupid things like stand you up, or make fun of you, because he likes you. Unfortunately there's no way to tell if he's doing it because he likes you, or because he's just being nasty.
Around 14 (my guess); In this age range, it would probably be very flattering for a guy to be asked out by a girl, especially if you are 'pretty'. That doesn't mean he'll accept, but if he doesn't then you can just pretend you didn't ask him in the first place.
Over 16; If the guy is this old and still immature about girls, please avoid him.
In relation to asking;
It's usually better to ask in person about valentines. Cards can help. Cards can also give potentially nasty people written ammunition to use against you in the future, so make sure you don't give a card to somebody you don't quite trust.
Friends are also useful. If you got a friend to ask him if he would be your valentine, not only would he not be able to reject you so meanly, but if worst comes to worst, you can deny having anything to do with it (make sure your friend agrees to let you say that you never asked them to ask him to be your valentine). That way, you can pretend to get pissed with your friend, and nobody's the wiser, or feeling uncomfortable in class.
Hope that helps a bit.
-K
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seriously, when girls ask that kind of stuff, it makes guys feel good
i know. i am one.
plus, guys aren't like girls. . we don't turn you down for no reason.
at least i don't.
most guys i know would at least give a girl a chance
anyway about the awkward part:
at first it might be, but it won't later.
and there's my brilliant answer.
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Oh I liked a guy like that before, my friends told him that I liked him and he thought it was weird but then he started liking me and got over the girls are gross thing. So I think you should ask him to be your valentine if he thinks its weird he will probably get over that and even start liking you too. I hope everything goes well for you!
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I made a little gallop 4 u, like I asked every male friend of mine on MSN ho he would feel about it...
they all said they dont care, its good coz it makes it eazy 4 them.
How would u feel though if you ended up in a relationship where your boy did not have to fight 4 u?
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