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my gf doesnt trust me
what can i do to get to her? she definitely doesn't trust me and i feel like she's been keeping things from me. when it comes to other guys, she gets defensive, really defensive. i trust her and tell her everything, but i feel as if she keeps things from me.
it deals with guys. why does she get so defensive when either of us brings up her guy friends? not just any guy friends, the ones that like her. it doesn't seem like she draws the line clear with them. talking to her about it makes her uncomfortable, and makes me look like the bad guy. what should i do? i really don't want to lose her, i just want her to be honest about things
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Well, I as girl, know how she probably feels. She probably feels as though, she may have to be defensive when these guys are brought up, because she knows that they like her. And she doesn't want anyone to think that she likes them back, or that they're anything more than friends.
She could also be a little insecure, with the fact that she might not think you trust her. I know, this may sound strange to you, but it's actually quite common in girls to feel this way.
The best advice I can give you, is to talk to her in person and alone. Let her know how you're feeling, in a calm manor. And explain to her how much you really like/love her, and that you want you two to be together. You only want everything said, to be honest and nothing to be kept from each other. I'm sure she'll understand and talk to you about this, and let you know her honest feelings.
I wish you nothing but the best of luck. And I'm sure everything will work out for you and your girlfriend.
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Tell her that you mean alot to her and that you don't want to lose her to the other guys also that you really care about her. Tell her that you want her to be honest and tell you everything thats going on. It might make her uncomfortable but if you don't you will not know whats going on. I hope everything goes well for you!
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