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Losing My Grandpa
Okay so tonight i lost my grandpa. and feel so horrible because i wish i had been closer to him. i am really scared that i wont be able to deal at the services and stuff thats coming up later this week. do you guys have any seggestions for saying goodbye easier and not letting go or moving on but becoming at peace with whats happened and idk. im not really sure im still in shock, because this was all so sudden and i feel so bad because the last time i could have seen him, i took it for granted and didnt go, wow i feel so awful. my friend says i should speak at the service and that would be like a way of saying sorry, but idk if i can evn pull it together enough to get to them.
but any help would be great
sorry for my poor grammar and everthing.
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i think its a great idea to speak at the service..its ok if you cant keep it together and you cry..people cry at funerals. also, make it a goal to pray each night and maybe talk to your grandpa..if you beleive in that kind of stuff.
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I'm sorry for your loss. I know what you're going through, I lost three grandparents from cancer, but two of them were recent. it would be great for you to speak at the service, but not to say sorry, but to say "you'll always be in my heart". it's not easy to say goodbye, no matter what the case is. and however long you feel you need to grieve, is up to you. the best you could do, is not think of how he died, but all of the great things you used todo with him. it'll take time, but always remember that he is with you everyday. once again i'm sorry to you and your family for your loss.
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I'm very sorry to hear about your lose. You should check out this website...
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It has tips on how to handle a funeral, moving on, lots of things. Just go through the different menus at the top to the right of the picture.
Hope this helps!
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sorry to hear it
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One thing I wanted to say is I'm sorry for what happened. Well everybody goes through stuff like this and it happens everyday. Like take a breath right now and 8 people died. I don't know where but someone has. Its sad but its part of life. Speaking at the service would be a good idea, it would make you feel better about not being so close to him. Its hard to say goodbye like my grandma she passed away 7 years ago when I was I think in first grade and I miss her so much still so you are still gonna miss him. I hope everything goes well for you.
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