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Stupid Boys
me and my bf broke up like a week ago. i broke up with him actually because things were getting really serous and i never liked him in the first place. i liked that he liked me and he liked that i liked him. well wehenever we could hang out i wouldent be so into him but afterwards when i was thinking about it i did like him so basically i liked the idea of him. 2 days after we broke up he asked out my bestest friend. she asked me if it was okay. me and her are 100% truthful with eachother and i really was okay with it so i said it was fine. he was what youd call a "good boyfriend" who never forgot to call me back and whatever. now whenever i see them dancing at partys or whatever it kinda hurts because i knew 2 weeks ago that was me. i dont want him and i dont mind him not liking me, i just dont want him to like anyone else. how do i get over this? most of the time im good just being with my friends but somtimes it really gets me. its kind of bringing down my self confidence and i hate it because i used to think i was the hottest thing ever. if your gonna be mean about any of this please dont answer. thank you
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don't take this the wrong way, but, you're not the hottest thing ever. nobody is what they think they are. they're not better than anyone else, prettier than anyone else, or smarter than anyone else. nobody's hot shit or the hot shot. nobody's the best or the coolest. nobody is. so nobody should be flattering themselves & making themselves out to be more than they truly are.
it sounds to me you just like being liked. you'll get over it eventually. he's not with you, so you shouldn't care about it. you told her you were fine with it, but now you miss being liked. i'm sure someone else likes you, but you just don't know it. and before you date someone, make sure you really like them first.
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Look from what I hear, you kind of wish that he still liked you, but just to have him there.. not for you to go out with him. you just like the thought of a guy falling all over you and no one else... I don't blame you, all girls would love to have a guy falling all over them, even if they don't like them. you seem to be a little bit jelous about the fact that your x-bf asked your bestestfriend out. all you have left to do is wish your best friend and her bf the best, because even if it didnt work out between you and your ex it might work out with him and your best friend. its ok if you feel jelous cuz its normal... so dont let it get to you because you'll eventually find someone YOU LIKE and he'll like you also. Sorry I made this so long, but i hope it helps!
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I know the feeling. I went out with a lad once and i was never into him as much as he was me.
As soon as i dumped him i kinda regretted it.
That was 2 years ago, and even to this day I get a bit jealous when i see him with another girl.
It'll get easier, in time. Just try not to spend so much time with them when they're together.
keep in touch with him aswell, me and my ex did and now we're so close we're like brother and sister.
Hope it goes well for you xxx
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I dont wanna b mean but, maybe u should had thought about it a little bit more. Relationships r not rainbows n butterflies. There are bad times as well, where you are bored of each other and wonder "am I happy?".
Well, once you felt u were no longer amused you dumped him.
Now that you see him with another girl it feels bad. Could it be that you still like him? Could it be that you are jeallous? Could it be that is sucks how easilly he moved on? Its a mixture of all them and maybe you should not think about yourself that much. Did you ever consider that you broke his heart when you broke up with him?
Dont say stuff such as "the hottest thing ever" nothing in your acts or your ex boyfriends acts indicate something about your looks. Just dont feel this way cause you ll turn into a bad type of woman. The type that makes men cry so she can feel precious.
What the future brings, no one knows, maybe you ll end up married to your boyfriend, maybe you get married to your best friend (lol), nothing is over till your last breath. For now, try to absorb the teachings of your acts and dont do anything that will scar you for life.
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