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my appearace is taking up my life
i am way to upsessed with my appearance it is starting to ruin my life i cant go 30 minutes without looking in a mirror and when i do im always depressed because i am so ugly but no one thinks that but me i mean all my friends say i am really pretty and i have alot of guys that like me but i never seems to get that i am pretty through my mind because there is always someone prettier that gets all the attention and it makes me feel really ugly i feel ugly all the time i don't know what my problem is but i think i got a real upsetting depression problem or something what can i do to get over how i look and how my face looks and stuff please help me i have struggled with these problems for about 2 years and i can tell that everyone notices this problem what can i do to get over my appearance
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Some people and kinds of people do et labelled "beautiful" but many people do believe that people are couatom made.They believe that god has made people to look the way they would want to and has also given them the talents they would want to have but some things in life make people insecure about things they would othervise love about themselves.Men are happy being men and women are happy bieng women,so people with certain faces like those types of faces the most.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Keep in mind that you are absolutely goergeous.Cover the mirror with a sheet and kepp saying to yourself "I'm beautiful".Remember,no one can be prettier than you.
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Many girl feel that way so don't worry =)
I don't know if this might help you but one of my friends said:
"There will always be someone who's uglier than YOU"
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You should like yourself for who you are. You shouldn't be so worried about it. Your friends are probably right when they tell you that you are pretty, so don't feel like you have to look in the mirror all the time because you think you're ugly. Like your appearance. I'm not saying to let yourself go because you need to stay healthy, but don't feel so depressed about it. It'll ruin your life if all you do is worry.
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Most girls will struggle with their appearance because there's always someone who's going to be prettier. But just because someone next to you may be more attractive, doesn't make you ugly (or the ugliest person). There are a lot of girls who are probably looking at you & feeling the same way. The truth is - you can't always compare yourself to others. Other girls may be more beautiful on the outside, but who knows if they have a personality as wonderful as yours. Instead of always looking down on yourself when you come across someone more attractive - look at your own features. Quit focusing on your own flaws (& that others don't have) & focus on the things you love about yourself. :)
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Thats how I feel sometimes. There is always someone prettier but we can't let that get to us right? So just try to tell yourself you are pretty and so is the next girl. Maybe the other girl might have a bad personality and you have a good one. So that makes you special. You have looks and a great personality. So remember there is also something good about you that people like too besides how you look.
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