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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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My best friend (14) gets aroused sometimes when she watches free online porn...against the law because you have to be 18+.
Every woman + man get aroused no matter what and I can't stop that because it's human!
Should she still watch porn because it makes her horny and she goes plays with herself for about 10 minutes and she's done. I know a bit nasty, but I'm like her sister!
Should I just let her what she's doing? What are things that can make her aroused by not using online porn?
Thanks!
A lot of people look at porn even though they're not 18. You can't stop her from doing something she enjoys doing. You may think it's nasty, but she obviously doesn't. Everyone goes through a stage where sex is all they think about. That's what happens when your hormones are going out of control. There are loads of things that can make her horny other than looking at porn, but she has to figure that out for herself. I suggest just leaving her be; she isn't hurting anyone.
[= hi krissy. i was wondering, how do you get your column so popular. i want people to ask me questions theirself but no1 ever askes me questions. can u give me some tips? thanks in advance!
You have to start answering more questions. Once you have more questions with your advice people will notice the advice you're given and will ask for your advice when they have a problem. If you have MySpace and whatnot, try putting a link to your column on there. That way your column will get more popular because more people will notice it. Also, try to make your column cute, if your column stands out more people will want to come to it. When you're giving advice always write well. People don't like going to columns where 'th3y write liek dis.' It's very annoying and haft the time people won't even read the advice given. Finally, answer questions the best you can and give your 100%. Place yourself in that persons' shoes and you'll give great advice.
how do they work exactly? i heard two diferent stories. one is:
1st: makeout
2nd: fingering and handjobs
3rd: oral
homerun/4th: sex
and i also heard
1st: makeout
2nd: feeling up eachother, just like boobs and ass.
3rd: oral or hands
4th/homerun: sex
can someone help me out with the truth of the bases?
Everyone is going to tell you a different story. But from what I heared it's the 'four F's.'
1st: Frenching.
2nd: Feeling.
3rd: Fingering.
4th: Well, you know the 'F' word for that; sex.
I'm not going to ask how do you find your bra size question...I'm 14/f and I wear a 34 B (Kid size ones) The adult 34 A's are too big for me and face it, I have no boobs. Is this normal or what? Will my boobs ever get bigger? I don't do sports by the way
Yes, this is normal. Usually your breast tend to be the same size as the girls in your family. However, you're stilly 14, so you're still growing. You have loads of time. You don't stop growing until you're 18.
so i was just wondering. what do you look for in the opposite sex? like, for guys, do yu like preppy or sporty grls, etc. and for grls, do you like jocks or nerdy-ish, etc. and describe yourself, too. i'm just curious what people look for. thx!
I have a boyfriend and he pretty much has everything that I look for in a guy. I like a guy that I can be myself around. A guy that can make me laugh, no matter how sad or down I am. A guy that is always there for me no matter what. Someone who is cute, funny, sweet, out-going, good personality, sensitive, can act silly around me, has beautiful eyes, nice hair and treats me like a princess.
As for myself, I'm a fun loving girl. I get along with pretty much everyone; I'm easy-going. I love to have fun and a good laugh. I'm crazy and I'll say anything that is on my mind. If you want to know more, just check out my column and read my profile.
So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am?
You washed your hands well and only 40 mins later you masterbated. So, you're fine. You're not pregnant.
i am haveing sex and i am on the pill and have been for almost to years and im not sure how long this has been goingon but whenever i get my period ( i get it for 3 days) on the 1st and 2nd day it is usualy brown not red and it hurts really bad i never used to have cramps but now i get them terriably is this bad or is it normal idki just need help.
I never used to get cramps, either. But lately I have been getting really bad ones while on my period. As for your period only being 3 days, that's normal. Some girls get their period for 2 days, while some have it for a week. It just depends on the girl, since every girl is different. Now, for your period being a brownish color, that is just old blood and you have nothing to worry about. If you are still worried, though. I suggest going to the doctors.
Hi. Okay, so I want to get a necklace that says "Jailbait"
I saw the one GirlProps had;;
http://www.girlprops.com/RetailScience/page2/item/6358
I want one kinda similer to that but more fancy & pretty.
Does anyone know where to get one?
Thanks!
You can get them at Ardens. However, I'm not sure if you have that store around where you live or not. If you don't, you might want to try E-Bay.
ok well i was wondering if you have sex while your on you period if the chances of getting pregnant are greater than when your not on it.
thanks =]
When you're on your period, the chances of getting pregnant are lower than you having sex while not on your period. However, I wouldn't suggest having sex while on your period, it can get a bit messy. But if that is what you want to do, I'd put down a towel just so you won't have much to clean up afterwards and it won't get everywhere. Also, be sure to clean 'down there' good, if you have sex while on your period. You don't want to get an infection or give one to your partner.
is it wrong for a 15 year old and 18 year old to be together? he's still in school yet and he just turned 18 in august? is that still bad?
I don't think that's bad, at all. I mean if you guys like one another, you can't help your feelings. Age shouldn't matter. Plus, you guys are only 3 years apart. My boyfriend and I are 4 years apart and we don't care, nither does anyone else. So if you like this guy, that is all that should matter.
okay this really doesnt have to do with christmas im just curious to know.. okay, how much do your parents , i mean "santa" spent on your for christmas? like when you wake up christmas morning what kind of stuff do they give you and how much do they spent? because im wondering if my parents spend a lot of money on me for christmas or just the right amount. thanks bunches, i know random question but im random!
It depends on how much they want to spend on you and how much they're able to spend on you. Some parents don't have a lot of money so they aren't able to get what their children want. However, it shouldn't really matter since Christmas isn't about gifts, it's about family. Although, I usually get a big gift (I got a snowboard a couple of years ago and that was $700+), than a bunch of little things; CD's, Chocolates, PJ's, DVD's, Clothes, Money, etc.
do u need to singn phonenumbers in phonebooks cause when i look in a phonebook some of the people i know are not in there and it's the phonebook from the area they live.
help?? =)
The Phone Company knows your number and they put you in the phone book. If you want your number unlisted (not in the phone book) you just call your phone company and tell them you want your number unlisted; many people have their number unlisted for various reasons.
I'm going out with this guy, and he lives in Michigan while I live in Pennslyvania.
I wanna see him, but he doesnt get his drivers license until either this or next summer [i forget]. Does anyone know how I can see him before that???
You could start saving up some money to get a bus/train/plane ticket to go see him. You could also plan a road trip with your friends and meet up with him. You could get him to start saving money and he could come down to see you.
you know the third site you gave me? It said that it's common for people who are dating to masturbate.
Yeah, I know it's common. But some people just choose not to masturbate while they're in a relationship. It just depends on the person.
ok listen i have a real question and i might sound strange but i am fourteen and i got my first period a month and 13 days ago and still no second period. why? is there something wrong with me? and should i tell my mom? help! (sorry bout the long question by the way)
You're 100% fine, hun. Don't even worry about this. Usually all girls are irregular when they first start their periods. Meaning, your period won't come at the same time every month. Don't sweat it, though. Concider yourself lucky. And be sure to carry around pads/tampons (whichever you use) when you go out, just to be on the safe side.
where can i find good layouts for my column?? the ones that are already on here for you to choose from i dont really like. thankss
If you don't have a paid account, the 'layouts' that Advicenators' provide for you and the only ones you can choose from. If you would like more to choose from, you'd have to get a paid account. More details here: http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
there is a website where you put in the ID of the person whose layout you like and it will copy it for you! its called like layout copier or something - i think it may begin with an h? anyone know the link of that website ! thx
You can find that at the following website: http://www.msbuddy.com/?gen=snatcher
Hes a great friend but im not sure if i'm liking him more... im confussed i know he wants to go out with me but i dont know how i feel.. how can i sort out my feelings?
Do you catch yourself thinking about him when you're at home? When you see him, do you always look at him and get butterflies? If you're feeling these feelings, you're probably crushing on him. Just try to see if you do things that would make you think you're crushing on him. Maybe you should try hanging out with him more often. That way, you'll be able to sort out your feelings and see if you like him as more than a friend or not.
thanks for the last advice. The sites were really helpful, especially the third one.
Anyway, I just wanted to ask you if you still masturbate or want to masturbate while you're dating.
No. Why would I, when I have a boyfriend?
hi
I have a problem
When I come into a conversation with a girl,
my eyes keep turning down to her chest.
I try to look up to her face, but my eyes just keeps going up and down. What should I do?
A lot of guys do this and it's something that you aren't going to be able to stop, just like that. This is something you need to work on. Try focusing on their true beauty - their face. When you catch yourself looking at a girl's chest, remind yourself that you should be looking at that pretty face. Just work on it and in time, you won't be always looking at a girl's chest.