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ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff (link)
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It certainly sounds like he just wants to have sex with you, but nothing else that couple's do. If I were you, I'd talk to him and let him know that you two need to do more than just sex. If he really wants to be with you, he'll want to try harder and do better.
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thank youuuuuu . your sooo nice i think yur the nicest people here . its qood to talk to someone who can listen to them even if they dont know you .
-hey can i ask you somethinq else ? (link)
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You're welcome, I'm so glad I could help you and I really appreciate your comment, that's very sweet of you. =)
Sure, go ahead and ask me another question.
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I'm trying to remember what this old cartoon on Nickelodeon was called. It was a cartoon and it had kids that I think were (boy or girl?) scouts of some sort, and they were always outside. I remember the background was always like, tan or orange. It was on during either the late nineties or early 2000's.
If anybody could help me out I'd really appreciate it :D (link)
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These weren't scounts, but they were boys and girls. They set outside, around a campfire (which would explain the tan or orange lighting), and told scary stories -- this was called, "Are You Afraid of the Dark?"
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Can anyone list me some of Food or candies that have alot and containes alot of eggs.
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*Ice Cream
*Oreos
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so, I have this plain yellow t-shirt, and the thing is that it's slightly see through, so on the back you can see my bra.
I was just wondering whether I should wear a white or a yellow bra underneath it? I don't own a nude one...
So yes, which would be better?
Sorry for the weird question. (link)
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A yellow one would work great. I think even a tank top or a cami (that would go along with the yellow shirt) would work out perfectly.
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Hey all, Im 15/f. And my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year. He messaged me on myspace and said i am to obessive. even though he and never talk. Im very sonfused, he didnt break up with me, but i felt horrible after and now i am trying to back off, amd not talk as much. He called me later that night and said he was sorry that we got in a fight.. but now he is hardly talking to me.. Iddk what to do. Any advice?
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If you honestly do not hardly talk to each other in the first place, how would be obsessive? To be obsessive would be to be all over someone, all the time, and constantly talking, etc.
If I were you, if you really want to try to keep the relationship, just don't try to talk to him, let him do it, then he cannot tell you that you're being obsessive. Just see what he does, then it's all on him. If you don't care about saving it, then I'd tell him it'd be better if you two were just friends.
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hey everyone, i am 14/f and i have had a bad reputation because i was emo/scene. I am now preppy, but i stil hold that bad rep, any advice on how i could get rid off that and become someone people like?
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The best advice I can give you is to talk to people, try to make friends or make peace, and show them how different you really are now and that you're a cool person, etc. The best way I can think of doing that is join something, do something that shows how talented and cool you are, people will look up to you for that and see how different you are now.
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well me and my boyfriend are going to try to have a baby soon and we are looking for some cute, unique names. now so far i have chosen names like Braylin/Braylyn for a girl and for a boy all of the Aidin names.. now so far my favorite names have been Zaidin, i dont want aidin by its self because my cousin has a little boy named aidin and she has named her newest baby girl Slaydin. so i just want some names that are similar to Zaidin and Braylyn. i do however like the name Braidance i kindof just made it up so please help me find some names! (link)
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Kaitlyn, Faye, Braiden.
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yup i seen that one before. and iam sorry thats what i herd that when your boyfriend is liking that down there you aint gonnna feel nothing because you dont have a clitoris :( (link)
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Oh sweetie, don't be sorry, I understand. People will say anything, but I assure you that isn't true. One day, when you're really ready, you will be just fine when that happens, I can promise you that.
I honestly wouldn't worry about it, my friend. I'm sure you'll get pleasure and find it soon, as long as you can can feel pleasure from it, then you'll be just fine when you're really ready for that.
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why do guys always ask girls to send them pictures of them? and what kind of pictures do they want?? (link)
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Guys ask girls to send them pictures of themselves because guys wanted to see girls get rid of their clothes. So therefore, the type of pictures they want are nude ones -- don't do it, it's ridiculous.
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I am wondering if you cum and a guy cum's inside of you can you still get pregnant? (link)
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Yes, always.
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i want to get my hair cut a little below my shoulders and straight and blonde
can you find me a hair site? (link)
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http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/
http://www.2hairstyles.com/
http://www.beautyriot.com/
These should help you out. =)
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no,lol i dont see that! i dont even have a hood part like people say you have on the top. when i open it i only see something shaped like a seed .
nd they told me that when you dont have a clitoris and your boyfriend sucks on that you aint gonna have pleasure .
sorry for the word . (link)
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Try this one and see if it helps, though it doesn't point it out quite specifically.
http://www.vacadsci.org/jsr/Fexter.jpg
By the way, the last part of your question, that's not true at all. And I would recommend not telling your friends this kind of this, assuming that who you're talking about, because she don't understand and they will make it ten times worse for you when really, nothing is wrong at all.
May I ask how old you are?
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Whats the easiest way to lose all around body fat?
and please don't say diet pills. or plans.
just simple workouts.
and food related things would be n ice.
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Check these Seventeen workouts, each of them work a different part of your body, so you can examine which would be best for you.
http://www.seventeen.com/fun-stuff/video-hub/?c=HealthandFitness
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ok . lol, i looked and i opened it and there is somethinq thats shaped like a seed and it goes all the way to my anus. its also like a little tunnel. (link)
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That may be what you're looking for. Here is the diagram, take a look and see if that helps you.
http://practicalsexadvice.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/dijagram-vagine1.jpg
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i thought i was . sorry :(
is it something that looks like a seed ? is shaped like a seed beacuse thats the only thing i see when i open it . (link)
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I don't know if I'd call it like a seed. Just take a look, don't try to open it anything. You'll see your two lips (the sides), just look at the middle (don't have to look inside, it's right there). If you need some help, I can find you a diagram (just ask me another question, if so).
You're not an alien or anything, I promise. I can assure you that you have one, it's just about exploring your body.
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Hey i was wondering were my clitoris is beacuse i cannot find it. the internet and also my friend told me that when you open your vagina is rignt on top of the vagina but when i open it is not there. am really scared because they told me if i dont have one iam an alien :(
-can some one please help me !?
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First off, you're not an alien, haha.
Secondly, you don't actually have to open it to find it. It's right inbetween you're two lips, it's in the middle. I can assure you that you have one.
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http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=top_casual&product_id=2061106407&Page=2#
I jsut bought a shirt kinda like that where the back is kinda open and I was just wondering what to wear with that...what would look best under it? I dont really know if i should wear a tank top under it or not...help please! (link)
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A tank top would look nice under it, I would also recommend a white tube top. Either one would look great. Or a lace cami underneath would be nice, also.
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How do you make them hearts on display name on my space. (link)
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& hearts ;
Just put those three things all together and you have a cute heart.
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Hey all... well I have pretty bad pours they like absurb everything... mostly when I get dirty... it really sucks my forearms look like crap... I NEED HELP!! (link)
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Try Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne Wash, it's the best I've used and I don't have any problem with my pores now, since I've used it.
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