Hello, call me Abby =] I'm eighteen and a senior in high school this year. I've always had great advice, I'm just not so great at following it =P Feel free to ask me anything, I'll do my best to give you an answer.
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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.
So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.
So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.
I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK. (link)
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A big reason he was voted for was because of President Bush. He left us in a bit of a mess and people thought McCain was too similar to Bush as a republican. A party switch in the seat seemed hopeful.
I don't like the color opinion either. If black people just voted for him because he is black, that dissapoints me. I don't even like that he is considered the first "black" president. He's partially white, too. Color is too much of a stereotype in the world. People are labeled as certain things because of their race but it isn't fair.
However, african american is still technically a minority in the US, so even if all black people voted for Obama just for that reason and all white people voted for McCain, McCain would win. And besides, what is black and white? If your more dark are you a black voter and if your very light your a white voter? It's annoying in my opinion. In the future there will be very few people who are one race. Most people will be so mixed you won't have any idea what they are. Then what will people pride themselves on, and use as grounds to stereotype others?
And another thing, not every American votes in the election. So who knows how many people of each race voted.
It's easy to point out the flaws of people, but running a country isn't easy. I wouldn't know how to fix an economy among other things. At least give him some credit.
-Abby
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I write songs. They are mostly about experiences kids have like quitting and losing friends because they side with the enemy. If you know a singer that MAY be interested, let me know! (link)
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If you want a singer to meet in person then more info ( like where you live in general) would be helpful. You could search people on youtube and send them your lyrics and see if their interested in singing them for you.
-Abby
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Hey im 15 years old always wanted to know how sex would feel so i had fingered myself the first time i did it it hurt but i kept going it started to feel good. I did it again a few more time it went in and out more and it felt good..
so one day i decided to look in the mirror to see was my cherry popped..
it was open does this mean when i go to the doctor for a physical would it look like i lost my virginity when i didnt?
because i really didn't plan to pop it i was just skeptical about it my mom would kill me if she would think that because i just turned 15 and is a freshman...
im scared should i lie and tell her that i used a tampon and i guess it popped...
help me out your advice is needed and may you feel much better and okay :) (link)
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Your hymen can break in many ways. Sports, inserting tampons, intercourse/masturbation, etc. Some people are born without it. Some people have it completely covering the vagina that it needs to be cut so menstrual fluid can escape. Doctors don't have a sure fire way to prove virginity because of this.
I don't see why you have to tell your mom about this anyway. These things can be private if you want them to be.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Thats right, you read it. I found my dad (who is married-but its a complicated relationship with him and my mom) on a dating site.
he has two children, me (16) and my older sister (21). Hes been married for many years. him (53) and my mom (48) (i dont exactly know how long theyve been married, but its up there).
Lets start out with the relationship between him and my mom-they went to vegas together a long time ago.. maybe 4 years ago or more, my dad left before my mom and my mom left a day after him because she had work, my mom was only going for the weekend so she had to leave sunday night, as she was leaving she asked my mom to leave with her, my dad still had 3 more days there (he went with his sister, his sisters husband, and his brother) my dad said no because he still had two more nights left and a whole day. he never gets to see his sister brother and his sisters husband that much and he was having so much fun, and this is his only time off. (he owns a store about 2 hours away from my house so you can only imagine his hours, and the amount of work he still does at home). my mom begged him to come with her, she still said no. she got extremely pissed off and didnt kiss him bye.
i remember my mom coming home that night all mad, throwing her bags into her room and throwing her dirty clothes into the laundry room. i remember she wouldnt tell my sister and i how her trip was. she was being a huge bitch.
my dad gets home 3 days later, he went to my mom to say hello to her and she screamed at him.
since that day, our family has never been the same. we used to all be together on every holiday, that hasnt happened since. my mom doesnt allow my dad to sit at the table for christmas dinner, my birthday dinners are extemely awkward because they dont talk. its getting to the point where i dont wanna talk to my mom anymore because shes holding a stupid grudge.
their still married, but dont wear their rings. so i guess you can call it complicated? all they do is fight now.
so yesterday, my laptop wasnt turning on for some reason and i had to get someones phone number, i went downstairs to see if my dads laptop was on or didnt have a password, wednesdays are his only days off.. i go to his computer, its on, he had AOL open, i clicked on internet explorer... and a page came up.. "tagged.com" and his name, with an account, he didnt log out of close the window. he was out for a while and he didnt tell me where he was going.
me, being a curious person as i am, went through it. i saw him mesasging girls, calling them cute. i went through his email, i saw him talking to alot of people on there.
alright daddy, i understand that your relationship with mom is fucked up, but when you told my sister and i about you and mom fighting, we were extremely upset. shouldnt you consider how upset we would be if we found out about this dating site your on? one way or another we would find out....
i honestly think im beginning to hate him. i understand my dad pays for ALL the bills in the house, and my mom only pays her american express bill, my sister and i appreciate him for that, he even hands us money when we ask for it. but doing this? wow.
he has dozens of girls as his friends, he writes on the pics calling them cute, etc. i dont wanna even know what else.
me being the bitch i am, i made a fake "tagged" account. i got a hott girls picture off google. i added my dad as a friend. ...he sent me a message "hey sexy, how are you?" he sent me "luv" and a "wink". i got so grossed out that i cancelled the account.
in his about me, he didnt even mention he has two kids. his relatinosihp status says "its complicated", in his dreams he wants "to live life to the fullest because you dont know when your life will be over".
i wanna say something to him, but i dont have that great of a relationship with him. hed be extremely embarrassed. but he has it coming at him.. you know?
what should i do? i cant even look at him without thinking about how much of an asshole he is.. im beginning to hate him.
HELP (link)
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Your mother and your father's relationship is theirs to work out, not your problem. I know you want them to have a happy life together, but it might not be meant to be. Really, this isn't a place for meddling. You could tell your mother about the site but that's all the interference I see appropiate.
Your father's behavior may seem odd, but think about it. He's a man, and he isn't happy with his marriage. As a woman you probably like having fun and interactiong with men and flirting. How do you think your dad had you? He's human after all. Don't lose respect for him because he's trying to find some happiness.
You can help or you can just be another roadblock. Being angry and causing more arguments is not helping. Suggest couples therapy to your parents. If you told them how much it would mean to you and your sister sincerely, I think they might consider it.
If you aren't comfortable with your dad talking about the dating site, you could write him a letter about how his relationship with your mom is hurting you and you just want things to be better. Communication is key. You can't not talk and then have sudden arguments and go back to not talking. Too many things are left unsaid. It builds up.
Your father isn't an asshole, and it's disrespectful to call him that. Like you said, he takes care of you, and he also loves you. You live under his roof, so you really can't criticise his life.
I know you want things resolved and that is noble, so try to be mature and help instead of harm. And if the marriage can't be saved, let it go. They can work on a friendship or partnership as single parents. Do you want to waste the years with your family in this way? Cherish the time you have and find a way to make the most of it.
Good luck,
-Abby
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I am a 15 year old female, and I am on a diet. I just started a couple days ago. My goal is to loose 50 pounds in a year. I was wondering what are some exercises that will be easy for me since i am now back to school. I am usually really tired and don't want to do anything. I get home at about 5:30
ALSO by loosing 50 will it get rid of love handles? (link)
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I don't know anything specific about your body so it's hard to give exact answers.
Do you even need to lose 50? Check your bmi. http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
To lose weight you need to change the way you eat permanantly, not just diet. Diets are usually impossible to keep up with. I suggest slowly making changes and incorporating healthy foods and trading out the bad ones.
Replace those junk food snacks with fruit. There are so many brand name products that have reduced sugar, fat, or sodium contents. Welchs reduced sugar Jelly is good, wheat bread is a great trade in for white, organic heinz ketchup, etc.
I eat when I'm bored, so when you want to eat something drink some water and wait 10 minutes. If I'm not hungry I find the craving will go away by then. Some studies show that smelling the good food is satisfying enough, but for me that would make me more enticed to eat it, so see what works for you. Some people need something to chew on, so try carrying almonds or carrot sticks or gum to munch on when you have that need.
I would try to get in a lot of cardio. That's the most important exercise. Walk, run, dance, jog, bike, jump rope, jump on a trampoline, get that heart rate up. 30 minutes a day is reccomended, and thats hard. I come home from school super tired and don't want to do anything.
I get more energy late at night so sometimes I go on the treadmill at 9 pm. You could wake up a half an hour earlier and take a walk.
You can find a lot of great videos online for training muscle groups, like abs, legs, arms, etc. That will help you tone up.
It's hard work but it's a good pay off, so keep going. Don't focus on the number on the scale, because that doesn't mean much. Two people can be 120 pounds and look completely different. Fit girls weigh more then you would think because they have a lot of muscle.
Find that motivation to work out. Some people can get into the zone when they run. Some people repeat a mantra in their head to keep them going. I really need my ipod and good music to keep moving.
Best of luck and don't give up!
-Abby
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OK, so Ive been looking for a website like this,and Im so glad I finally found it.
Anyway,so I have self esteem issues.
And I have a step dad who's making it worse and doesnt realize.
He thinks I cant do anything wrong,and that Im some kinda "geek" and a "wannabe".
I want to prove him wrong,but I dont know what to change. I mean,I dont want to try to be all "cautious and perfect" around him,but how can I NOT be a geek and flip out so easy. (link)
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Your step dad isn't a person that you should have to change for. He seems like he's the one who needs to make a change. Your family should accept you the way you are. Your step father should not be judging you in that way.
I think you should talk to him. If he thinks your dramatic don't talk to him during an outburst. Tell him how you feel, that some things are hard for you and you wish he would just support you. Maybe he really doesn't feel the way you think he does. If he has a bad attitude about it, speak with your mom.
If you can't change the way he speaks to you, then learn to ignore disparaging comments. If he can't be a mature parent figure and learn to encourage you with his words then he obviously isn't a role model or anyone to say things that make you feel bad. It sounds funny, but the only one who can hurt you is YOU. You decide if what people say and or do are hurtful. You decide if they're worth your time. So talk to your step dad and decide if it's really worth it to change for him.
Good luck,
-Abby
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sooo ok dont judge me because im asking this. im completely normal, i just love my boyfriend so much. weve been dating for 2 years and he suffers from schitzophrenia and he refuses to take medication because he hates the way it makes him feel. i feel so horrible 4 him because he is in so much pain and its just getting so much worse. i know he doesnt want to live anymore. yesterday he asked me to kill him and at first i didnt think he was serious but we talked for a while and he said it was the only way or he would do it himself. i dont want him to go to hell for committing suicide so i told him i would kill him so id go to hell instead. i havnt decided if im going to kill myself yet because my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do that. but i dont know if i could deal with the fact i killed the boy im in love with. but what happens if a 16 year old kills another 16 year old who asked her to do it? jail? death penalty? psychiatric center forever? im not crazy im just putting the one i love out of his misery because i cant stand him being in pain any longer. id rather be in pain for him. just wanna know what would happen. dont try to do all that talking out of it and stuff either. wont work. thanks (link)
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Ending your life or his life is a waste of what God gave you. Tell your boyfriend that. Tell him that he will still go to hell for letting you kill him, because he is willingly letting God's plan change.
Have you considered going to therapy together? It's a way of feeling better without medication, so side effects or feeling un-like yourself.
You need to remember he has a disease and is NOT thinking clearly.
Being a minor, you will probably go to a juvenile center til you are old enough and be transfered to an adult prision. It depends on your state laws if you will face the death penalty, life in prison, or so many years. No matter which sentence, you are WASTING two lives. Two GOD GIVEN lives. If you care so much about pleasing GOD and your boyfriend, you will do what's best for both and try to help in a positive way.
If your boyfriend is seriously going to commit suicide, you need to call the police or a hot line.
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/?gclid=CNflvZa895wCFRBM5QodqlJ9bw
Why don't you write him a heartfelt letter to look at whenver he feels low? You could tell him how important he is to you and God, and how the world would be different with out him. Instill hope in him. Let him know that death is easy, but living is a challenge that he is prepared for.
Considering he is mentally ill, you might need to do things in a less conventional way. There are euthanasia clinics in other countries (Sweden, I believe.) that are assisted suicides. Neither of you would be the one to do it. I in no way condone this, but maybe if you told him that he could do this in so many years when he's 18, he'll be willing to wait longer. Then you have time to work things out. Whatever you need to tell him to keep him going.
I believe the best thing is to tell his parents. The hardest decisions are usually the right ones.
Good luck and God Bless,
-Abby
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17/male im gay ive been with my boyfriend almost 18 months we love each other a lot we came out awhile back and a lot of people were happy for us although a couple of people seem to think its abnormal they called us freaks and well we love each other why should it matter my bf has been a bit distant lately i tried to talk to him but he doesnt say much this has seem to uspset him im worried i might lose him i really love him what else can i do? (link)
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First off, congrats on having a long lasting relationship. That takes hard work.
There will always be people who discriminate against you. No one, gay, straight or anything in between is safe from it. Some people just have to let their views be known even if it hurts someone. Just think how lucky you are, years ago you wouldn't even be able to bring your relationship into the public. African Americans went from slaves to being equal in todays society, and slowly but surely, discrimination becomes less and less. I know over time things will get better, so just hold on and don't let people put you down. Following what people say you should do won't make you happy, now will it? If having a boyfriend makes you happy, then thats exactly what you should do.
Do you think your boyfriend is distant because he's having a hard time with the way people treat him for being gay? I think you need to talk to him. Things can be hard to talk about or some people feel like their being interrogated, so try to make it feel low stress. Tell him you've noticed he's seemed a bit down lately, and if theres anything you can do to help. You could let him know that what people say hurts you too, but it doesn't matter because you have each other. It could be another matter entirely, so don't assume and try to have an open conversation. Let him know that he can tell you anything and make him comfortable, and he'll share. Sometimes I feel weird sharing things that make me feel vulnerable or awkward etc, so don't push anything. But if it becomes a roadblock, tell him that you really need to talk about it to stay strong as a couple. If he knows that he is your top priority and you just want to keep him happy, he will appreciate it.
Good luck and let me know how it goes,
-Abby
(If you ever need to talk my email is maura1292@yahoo.com, I'm always here for advice or just to chat =] )
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Hey i am turning 13 on the 28th of september i am very tall for my age last time i measured i was about 5 feet 6.5 inches so i'm probbly 5 feet 7 inches now i weigh around 118pounds is that a normal weight for someone of my age and height? (link)
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The person below me gave a good answer. Girls going through puberty are always awkward looking at some stages, so if you feel that way, don't worry. You will even out soon enough.
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/ Check your BMI. That will tell you if you are at a healthy weight.
If it puts some things in perspective, I am about 5'3 and 132-133 pounds and no one considers me fat.
Good luck,
-Abby
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I'm a 20 year old transexual FtM[female to male]. I met this boy, whom I've seem to have fallen for. The only problem is, he thinks I'm a boy. Worst part is, he's gay. He likes me a lot, but I'm too scared to tell him the truth. He has no interest in females, what-so-ever. I don't know what to do. I know I need to tell him, but how do I do it? How do I tell him that I'm not that amazing guy he thinks I am? I'm worried. He hurts himself; cuts himself. He injured himself because he has a boyfriend and can't be with me. I'm afraid that he'll do a lot worse if I tell him I'm not a boy. What do I do? (link)
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You deffinitely need to tell him. Think how betrayed he would feel if you let things go forward, and he became more attatched to you and then all of a sudden you "changed" to him. Not only would it be a shock but he would feel like you were hiding huge parts of your life from him. The most honest and right way to do this is to find a way to reveal it. If he really cares for you, he will accept it. It will hurt if he can't accept it, but you really couldn't have a long term relationship with him if he didn't know. One day he would find out.
I suggest dropping some hints first, to ease it. Find a quiet moment to tell him you have a secret you're afraid to tell, but you are trying hard to find the right time. Let him have a few guesses.
Wait a while. Find one of those times where you can have a heart to heart. Tell him how you love him for who he is, despite his problems, and hopes he can do the same. I suggest doing this after him and his boyfriend break up, it sounds like an added drama.
All you can do is tell him and hope for the best. If he doesn't accept it, then it was not meant to be. You need people in your life who love all of you, and there are those special people out there.
Good luck,
-Abby
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When, during a woman's menstrual cycle, is it easiest to get pregnant? Like right after her period, or during ovulation? (link)
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Deffinitely during ovulation, but like the person below me said, you can get pregnant at any time.
I know people who got pregnant while on their period, right before their period, right after, so protection is always neccesary if you don't want to get pregnant.
If your trying to have a baby, you or the woman can track their ovulation with a calendar and find out the most fertile days.
Good luck,
-Abby
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My advanced biology teacher wants to do a project with us where we will go out into the slough behind our high school and take a population count of the frogs there. He said the best way to mark the little guys is to clip one of their back toes off... I personally dont have a big problem with this as it appears to be the standard way to mark frogs for a population count, but a lot of the girls in the class didnt want to because it was inhumane to the frogs. the class came to a conclusion that we probably shouldnt be cutting the toes off of the frogs just for a class project.
Now the problem is that we have no idea how else we would mark the frogs... we thought of dental floss tied around one leg, or some kind of paint or marking them with a permanent marker. we dont want to hurt them any worse than cutting a toe off, so we're not really sure about the marker choice because that stuff is pretty toxic and frogs can absorb chemicals through their skin... and we dont want to change the frogs color because that could make them easier to catch by predators...
Are there any better ways to do this? (link)
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I don't know any mainly permanant ways to mark the frogs without some how hurting them or damaging them. A permanant marker sounds like a good option because it won't be too noticable for predators to see them. Dental floss can come easily undone. You could use nail polish to paint a part of them, like their back foot. Green spray paint could semi blend in while being noticable. You could get a color that matches them well and just chose a symbol to mark them with.
Good luck and thanks for trying to be as humane as possible to our wild life,
-Abby
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I'm only 18 but I've noticed that I've never had a true close friend. I have had a few casual friends in the past (and currently have quite a few) but no really good friends that truly KNOW me. Some of these friends say they enjoy hanging around me, but no one ever seems to want me as a closer friend.
One friend in particular said I was kind, polite, trustworthy, supportive and understanding, but she's was very open with letting me know that she doesn't consider me a close friend. (She couldn't/wouldn't say why.) Although most people my age are getting married, becoming engaged or dating seriously, everyone else seems to have good friends that are always there for them and know them. Lately I've been trying to get out there and make more friends, but I don't really know what else to do. I'm not mean and I don't think I'm a bad person. I just don't know how to form that CLOSER bond. I don't know what I'm missing, I guess.
I'll admit, It's starting to get a little lonely. Nobody REALLY knows who I am other than me. What can I do? (link)
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My close friends are people who I spend a lot of time with and really got to know them. It really takes effort sometimes. You have to be in contact with people often (not clingy, but if you haven't talked to a person in a few days a text message/email/facebook comment etc would be nice.) I talk to my best friend every day. You really have to find someone who you have a lot in common with and understand each other. Maybe you haven't met people like that yet. Invite friends to do activities you know you'll like. Maybe you could have a throwback slumber party to hang out with the girls like little girls do when there younger. It's a great way to talk and tell secrets and bond.
Doing special things for friends makes them appreciate you more. For a birthday, go out of your way to bring them balloons, make them cupcakes, etc.
People need to know that they can depend on you, so let your friends know you're always there for them. Offer to help with things (like moving out, giving rides, come over early to help set up for a party etc).
Why don't you try joining activities that you can find people who have common interests (sports, dance classes, art classes, theres lots of different clubs or charities.)
If you want this, and put effort into it, I don't see why you can't make close friends. You sound like a caring person and that's the most important quality.
Good luck,
-Abby
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How much weight will i lose if i do crunches for an hour a day for a week? (link)
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That question can't be answered without details such as how is your technique, how many will you do an hour, how much do you weigh now, and what your diet is. Your exercising your muscles, which helps lose weight, but you really need cardio. Combine that with things like crunches, weights, squats, etc. and you will see some results.
If you have an hour of time to devote to exercising, get moving and run, bike, dance, walk, job, just get your heart rate up. That's a greater chance for results.
Good luck,
-Abby
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I need help. Homecoming is a month away for me and everyone is freaking out about dates. Well, only the freshman. But, there's this guy who I heard wants to ask me. And I'm so sure he's going to ask me but he hasn't yet. I mean, I like him and all but our plan was to go as a group with my best friend and his best friend. Should I accept or decline? Would it really make a difference if I declined since we are going as a group? How do I accept/decline when he asks? (link)
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I think it would be fun if you accepted, especially going all together as a group. Then you can hang with your friends and dance with your date. Since its a group it wont be too clingy or intimate, and if you said no, that might make it awkward.
Just do what makes you happy so you have a great time!
Good luck and have fun,
-Abby
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ok, so i have never really been to an eyebrow expert or some expert that does eyebrows, like tweezing and styling and all the necessary eyebrow things.
i live in brisbane, and i was wondering if anyone could help me.. can anyone advice me on a cheap but good eyebrow place to get my eyebrows done? i have heard of the Brow Bar at Paddington, but it is a little pricey and half the things they have in the $60 package is not what i need, for example the tinting and that. i have dark eyebrows and i think i may have tweezed that a little too much than i'm suppose to!
and any little tips i should expect or ask etc.
i dont want really thin eyebrows, do i have to tell the expert or they know because they focus on your natural eyebrows?
thank you. (link)
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I'm pretty sure theres small salons in any area, though I'm not familiar with yours. Don't pay 60$ just for eye brows! I don't spend that on one haircut! They usually do it at nail salons for between 5-20$ If you go to a spa or a nicer place the price will probably be 20$ or so. Nail salons do just fine, you just have to instruct them to do what you want. A lot of nail salon employees are asian, at least in my area. There is sometimes a language barrier so if you feel that the person doesn't understand you and vice versa, don't get it done there. I usually ask for the middle to be completely waxed and to keep them thick but remove stray hairs. It really isn't a hard process, unless you want them to create an arch etc. If your nervous about it, bring in a picture illustrating a natural look. Most definitely describe what you want.
I suggest waiting a while for the hairs you over tweezed to grow in some (wax can't grasp extra short hairs) and then going. It hurts a little but it's over very fast. If you've been tweezing then your used to the pain and probably won't even feel it too much. Your eye brows will be red after, so don't plan on going anywhere for at least a half an hour. I've heard of people taking advil before to reduce any swelling/pain but I don't find it neccesary. It's really quick and looks better then tweezing in my opinion!
Good luck and enjoy having great brows!
-Abby
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I have a keyboard and the keys are laybled A,B,C,D,E,F,G and stuff because it was part of a starter kit to play piano. I can't read sheet music. Can you teach me how to play "Bella's lullabye" Using the letters on the keyboard? I just need like an ordered pair or somewhere that will teach me to play. Don't say youtube. Have any questions juat ask. (link)
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It's not that easy, Bella's lullabye probably has chords in it and that involves holding multiple keys down at one time, and you can't really label the piano with the chords.
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Alright so last school year a becamse bestfriends with this guy in a grade above me. We did EVERYTHING in school together. Most of the school thought we were dating because we spent all our school time togther. We met during class after and before school.
He told me everything. He told me how his bestfriend became and ass. He told me about his depression from a few years ago. There werent any secrets.
Except my secret of liking him.
But, he wasnt the GREATEST friend. He would do things I'd asked him not to do. (BIG things that culd have ruined a few of my other friendships) Ditch me for stupid reasons. So after about the fifth time I got tired of it. And told him he was dead to me. And I havent really spoken to him since. And this was May of 09.
So now its September of 09 and a new school year. I seee him everyday now. We throw secret glances at eachother in the halls.
I miss the way things used to be. SO much.
But, I REFUSE, absolutley REFUSE to make the first move.
If he still wants to be friends, he will come to me,
Not the other way around.
I think he misses me a bit, from the way we act when we see eachother and the things my friends say he does when he see me or when they talk to him about me.
I want to secretly hint to him. Like give him little secret nudges for him to make the first move.
Help me please. You have no idea how much I miss him.
Also, do NOT tell me to just go talk to him. If thats all you have to say, please, get you'r snobby little nose out of my problem. Thanks. (link)
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Theres no guaranteed way to get him to make the first move, considering you don't know that he wants to talk to you again. If you care about him and miss him, you can be straight forward and ask him if you two can talk some time.
You could leave something of yours behind by "accident" where you know he'll see and hopefully bring it back to you. You could ask a friend to casually mention something to him.
Next time you meet eyes, why not try smiling at him?
Friendship isn't about playing games. If you are ready to forgive him, then you should make the first move. Waiting for him to makes it seem like you aren't ready.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Every time I travel, I buy a souvenir pin. I used to put them on a small canvas tote bag, but the bag got so weighed down by them that it got all droopy. Any ideas as to where I can showcase my pins? Preferably on something useful/wearable, not like a bulletin board.
The pins are, on average, as big as a quarter. I don't want them somewhere where they could easily ge scratched or otherwise damaged.. any ideas? I know I'm being picky. Thanks! (link)
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I've seen people with many pins on fanny packs, visors, and scarves.
http://www.thepinman.com/pinkeep.html
This website has bags that on the inside look somewhat like the pages of a book where your pins can be kept securely.
You could get what the Girl and Boy Scouts wear to display their badges, on a vest or sash.
Good luck,
-Abby
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I was wondering, can i take a fertility test even though im on birth control? Will it affect the results? (link)
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I searched and came up with this answer:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/birth-control-pill/WO00098
You can get accurate results from a pregnancy test while you're on the pill. Pregnancy tests work by measuring a specific pregnancy-related hormone — human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) — in your blood or urine. The active ingredients in birth control pills don't affect how a pregnancy test measures the level of HCG in your system.
I suggest going to a doctor if you get a positive, just to be sure and to get started on pre-natal vitamins.
Good luck,
-Abby
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