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I wanna know if I fingered myself and I popped my cherry not


Question Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 4:05 pm

Hey im 15 years old always wanted to know how sex would feel so i had fingered myself the first time i did it it hurt but i kept going it started to feel good. I did it again a few more time it went in and out more and it felt good..

so one day i decided to look in the mirror to see was my cherry popped..

it was open does this mean when i go to the doctor for a physical would it look like i lost my virginity when i didnt?

because i really didn't plan to pop it i was just skeptical about it my mom would kill me if she would think that because i just turned 15 and is a freshman...

im scared should i lie and tell her that i used a tampon and i guess it popped...

help me out your advice is needed and may you feel much better and okay :)


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DearAbby92 answered Thursday September 17 2009, 11:30 pm:
Your hymen can break in many ways. Sports, inserting tampons, intercourse/masturbation, etc. Some people are born without it. Some people have it completely covering the vagina that it needs to be cut so menstrual fluid can escape. Doctors don't have a sure fire way to prove virginity because of this.

I don't see why you have to tell your mom about this anyway. These things can be private if you want them to be.

Good luck,

-Abby

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JustJessOx answered Thursday September 17 2009, 5:46 pm:
Hey there, :)
okay honestly your cherry can pop in so many different ways other then fingering yourself it may have already been before you started.
one theroy people have is that it can happen when riding horses or a bike or anything simple and harmless like that.
it wont mean youve lost your virginity at all, doctors have other ways of determining that and they will know if you have or not trust me.
so you have absolutely nothing to worry about the doctor and your mom will know that the reason for your cherry popping isnt always intercourse
hope i helped anymore questions please feel free to inbox me
much <3
Jess.16/f
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