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I miss him. ):
Alright so last school year a becamse bestfriends with this guy in a grade above me. We did EVERYTHING in school together. Most of the school thought we were dating because we spent all our school time togther. We met during class after and before school.
He told me everything. He told me how his bestfriend became and ass. He told me about his depression from a few years ago. There werent any secrets.
Except my secret of liking him.
But, he wasnt the GREATEST friend. He would do things I'd asked him not to do. (BIG things that culd have ruined a few of my other friendships) Ditch me for stupid reasons. So after about the fifth time I got tired of it. And told him he was dead to me. And I havent really spoken to him since. And this was May of 09.
So now its September of 09 and a new school year. I seee him everyday now. We throw secret glances at eachother in the halls.
I miss the way things used to be. SO much.
But, I REFUSE, absolutley REFUSE to make the first move.
If he still wants to be friends, he will come to me,
Not the other way around.
I think he misses me a bit, from the way we act when we see eachother and the things my friends say he does when he see me or when they talk to him about me.
I want to secretly hint to him. Like give him little secret nudges for him to make the first move.
Help me please. You have no idea how much I miss him.
Also, do NOT tell me to just go talk to him. If thats all you have to say, please, get you'r snobby little nose out of my problem. Thanks.
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I agree he should make the first move only because of how he treated you. I suggest for now, when you see him in the halls give him a little smile. That always gets to them. When i was in high school I'd do the same thing to a friend i lost in middle school and he quickly responded and thought that he could talk to me all of a sudden. So, be yourself and smile at the guy. If no response, maybe try and run into him in the hallways and drop your things. Stuff like that always gets them going. I hope i helped....if none of these things seam to work, i got some more up my sleeves and would love to share them with you.
Your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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Theres no guaranteed way to get him to make the first move, considering you don't know that he wants to talk to you again. If you care about him and miss him, you can be straight forward and ask him if you two can talk some time.
You could leave something of yours behind by "accident" where you know he'll see and hopefully bring it back to you. You could ask a friend to casually mention something to him.
Next time you meet eyes, why not try smiling at him?
Friendship isn't about playing games. If you are ready to forgive him, then you should make the first move. Waiting for him to makes it seem like you aren't ready.
Good luck,
-Abby
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