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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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hey you asked me a question and i answered it but your question was a little confusing. if you want a certain picture up on your site i'll give you step by step instructions on how to do it..just ask me again.thanx
That'd be really helpful if you were to give me instructions because, I really am confused about this stuff myself, and I'm normally good with technology . Um, could you also give me instructions on how to post this back ground(/img/bg/bg1 88.jpg) on my advice column. I tried the instructions but I'm still confused . I absolutely love your column because, I think you keep things real and I like that . I also saw the great design and all so that's why I'm asking you to help me. Well this is Courtney and thanks for taking the time of your day to read and answer my question which may be stupid or confusing . By and have a nice day .
i dont like my bro he is soo annoying.I love him but he always wants to copy me.He steals my cds and everything else of mine. PLease don't tell me he is looking up to me because I've heard that advice before. When we're in the car he'll do anything he can to annoy me i hate it. Please help me get this kid under control!
Well, I can only give you a natural answer because, this is a natural question which is a good thing. Naturally, brothers and sisters will annoy each other and naturally brothers and sisters will take things without asking the others permission . You know that when he annoys you that it really bugs you, but you have to above that . You're the oldest, and he probably wants to have a little fun . Ignore him , and I KNOW you've done this before. Be above him, and YOU'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO GET YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER UNDER CONTROL . Thats just the way it is and the way it's always been . One day, you'll be glad and proud that that kid is your brother . Trust me on this you don't want to loose him .
ok..my friends that I sit with at lunch I'm starting not to like..I was invited to sit with my best friend Amanda and her friends..but like I'm really good friends with some of them..like theres about 16 people there and I'm close with like 8 of them so that would be ok but I dunno how to break it to my other friends and I'm scared that I'm not gonna fit in that much at the new table..there all saying yeah I want you to sit with us and stuff but I dont wanna be like an intruder..what should I do? -rate high-
K e l l e y
Kelley, be You . They might not like you , but heck this is school and THESE ARE GIRLS . There's someone or some people in that group who don't like you because, maybe they're jealous e.t.c. Not everyone's going to like you and you know this and YOU'RE NO BEING A INTRUDER . If they aren't being content with theirself that they don't want you to sit with them, then that's there problem not your's . YOU work on what you need to work on and let them work on what they need to be . If you want to sit with them , then sit with them . If you don't want to sit with them then don't . These are choices that we all have to make and this choice is up to you . Remember this is just my advice . I hope I was some help and peace . Have a nice day !!!
my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
I'll rate high..
Honey, I know you don't want to risk your friendship but if your friend is making the move on your man , then do something about it . This could lead to major trust issues in your friendship and you really can't call it friendship without the not-all-the-time-so-perfect-trust . In friendships , trust isn't perfect, but it's a good factor to know that you actually have it . Talk to her and if she comtinues then do what you have to do and you're the only one who knows whats best to do . ONLY YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS WHATS BEST TO DO . Well I hope I was some help and peace . Have a nice day .
Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!
When you are online and chatting , ask him if he wants to go out on the town if you're allowed to go on dates . Talk get to know each other a little better and keep having these meetings but don't let it get where it's too obvious that he knows you like him . Just get him to open up . You're going to have to get over the fear of shyness because, you'll acomplish nothing by being shy . But it's 100% being shy because, it's natural . Just get a grip on it and you should do just fine . Well I hope I was some help and have a nice day .
i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do?
Tell your parents then alert the police . Stalkers aren't to be taken lightly and even if there isn't proof of you being stalked, alert the school officials and you might want to save the emails he sends you . For evidence . You should tell someone as quickly as you can because, you might think it's not that serious now but it could be some sick freak trying to have a joke; having too much of a fun time . Stop it while you can or get a grasp on things while you can . Well I hope this sick freak leaves you alone and I hope I was some help .
Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............
Nikki
Tell him that you think that the break up was stupid . Tell him what your heart desires are . That's the only way really, and there's always a risk of not getting the answer that you always want as you and I both know . Just try . Tell him how you feel and ask him how he'd feel about giving it another shot . I'm no guaranteeing that he'll except, but I think he'll contemplate it more than you know . Well I hope I was some help . Peace ,and would you leave me a rating ?Thanks again, and have a nice day .
Hey everyone! It's fabolouzxkay8! Ok I need help finding subliminal messages in songs. If you don't know what a subliminal message is, well its a message in songs, tv, and media that make you wanna buy or get something. Does anyone know any songs that have subliminal messages? I don't want songs from Britney Spears or Slipknot. If you do find a song that has a subliminal message in it, can you tell me where it is in the song when I play it? Thanks
Well it depends on what kind of subliminal message you're going for . I'd say Maroon 5 ,"She Will Be loved" from the album " Songs About Jane" . That's a song that'll make you want to buy or purchase it . Well I hope I was some help although I don't think I was . This is Courtney, and I got your nice message you left in my inbox . Thanks soo much and have a nice day .
heyy .. i like this guy alot , buhh how do u know if there just tryin to get shyt frum and use u? some of themm seem like they want a realtionship to0 buhh they juss all confusing.. i dunt kno! andd how do u kno if they want a commitmentt? [ i kno most dont buhh?! ]* ill ratee ya xo
Only one way to be sure . You want to know the truth then go straight to the sources mouth . Ask him if he's using you and ask him anything that may be bothering you . This is important and if he doesn't understand it, then to hell with him . You need to know if he's ready for a committment and communication is the only way( 100% way you'll know the truth) you'll know the truth . Talk to him and if he doesn't like it , he isn't really going to last that long in a relationship with you if you're actually looking for a commitment . Well I hope I was some help and I'd appreciate if you left me a rating . That'd be really great of you . Thanks .
okay well i think im popular at my school..I have a lot of friends that are boys and a ton of friends that are girls..I just cant get a boyfriend..Im not pretty..but I flirt a lot and boys flirt with me a little too..but nobody will ask me out or anything..and if i ask someone out they will say no..and i guess the other boys do to but there is this girl who is really not attractive..i mean people call her Shrek and stuff! She always is going out with someone!! I dont get how she gets boys!! How can I get a boyfriend?! I dont know what Im doing wrong!
please help..
I really don't want to be a downer or anything , but you really don't need a guy unless you really really want a guy . Let me give you the low down on how it is when you have a boyfriend . Well , sometimes they like to tell you what to do but not all of them . I really think you should be yourself because, you seem like a cool person . There's probably someone who likes you and haven't plucked up enough courage to ask you . If you see what you want , go for it . Even if you might not get it , don't give up and never doubt your instincts unless you have a great enough reason to doubt them . You see what you want and you go for . You see what you want and you take it, but if that person doesn't want to be taken then so... move on . Trust me . Been there and kind of done that . Well, I hope I was some help . Have a nice day and do you think you could leave me a rating ? Thanks that'd be really nice of you .
Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE
Just wait a day or two . If your period isn't on then go buy a pregnancy test or go see the doctor . If ther's signs of blood , I wouldn't worry that much because, it could be that your body is getting used to you have sex because, I think you said you and your boyfriend have been doing it for weeks . Well, if the test proves that you aren't pregnant , then go on with your life . But if and your boyfriend continue to have sex there's a pill that'll guarantee you a possibility of not getting pregnant . There even isn't a possibility of getting pregnant, and you've probably heard of it . It's called the 24 hour pill . Go to any clinic or doctors and take the pill within 24 hours . Well good luck and I hope your period comes on .
This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out
No talk to him not his friend . Ask him how he feels about kissing and he doesn't feel comftorable with it then it's up to you if you want to leave him or stay . You wouldn't want to push him into anything he doesn't want to do because, that wouldn't be fair to him . If he isn't comftorable with it , then wait a while . Don't get the friend involved in this because, you wouldn't want to compromise his friendship with that friend would you ? And another reason is that it's none of his friends buisness what you two do . Well I hope I was some help and peace .
I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help
Yeah I know how you feel . Your mind want's to give it a shot because, your heart feels that it's true love. Your heart want's to take that risk because, you feel it's right . Your heart doesn't want to give it a shot because, your heart knows it's a possibility of getting hurt . Well , whenever dealing with a relationship , you'll have to deal with compromise . I think you should tell Drew how you feel and ask him how he feels about you . Ask yourself," Is Drew the kind of guy who settles for one girl ? Can he be trusted ? Do I trust Drew ? Why do I feel this way for him?" . Take time before you ask him the question I told you to ask him . You need a little time to get things straight in your mind . You need time to get content with yourself about a possibility of a relationship and the possibility of a rejection . I don't know what'll happen . Think and trust your instincts . Don't rush this because , if he cares he wouldn't rush you . Don't be mad with him about the girl . You should really use that incident though to see if you could actually trust him . Trust your instincts and be strong . Only use the incident with the girl if Drew actually knew how you felt about him . Well, I hope I was some help .
hey, okay hes the scoop,
My friend brittany likes this guy, and then my other " friend " is a slut, they have been hangin out alot and she had sex with this guy that brittany likes,then they stopped hanging out and everything, i don't balme her, brittany came to me and started saying shit about her, this girl ( the slut ) before she had sex with him didn't like this guy now she says she has feelings for him, and my firend brittany, shes always been betrayed by the slut, and the guy lieks the slut, how do i drive this guy away from the slut, and try to get him intested in brittany,
Well , like we all know is that the guy must of got it from the "slut" easily because, you mentioned that the girl didn't even have feelings for the guy before she slept with him but now she does . Anyway, I think that you really should tell your friend to talk to this guy about her feelings . Wasting time on pursueing him while the "slut" is useless because, we all know that he'll have the slute because she's easy . If guys can have it easy , they will . It depends on whether he likes a girl that is a challenge or not . Once Brittany talks to this guy and tells her how she feels about him, then it's really up to her . I mean does she like his reaction . It's really up to your friend . Tell her to talk to him . See how she likes his reaction and if he doesn't like her, then tell her to move on . There are plenty of more finer men out there .
My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to girls..like its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though.
I think you should make it clear to your boyfriend about your concern and if he can't except it, well that's his problem . He should always be able to understand you because, it's basically what's best for the relationship and all. If he can't except that, well forget about him . It's alright if he looks at girls just as long as he doesn't touch and if your instincts tell u that he's lyeing, then trust them . I'm sure you're young and they're plenty of guys out there besides him . lIVE IT UP A LITTLE .
My friends cousin is so hott and i really like him but sadly he has a girlfriend. I am really happy for them but i wish that there was some way i had a chance. We get along and everything what can i do to maybe someday have a chance with him?
Just be a good friend and be yourself . Be someone who he can count on and trust because, one day , he's going to need you . Maybe one day , you'll have a shot .
hey.. this is my 3rd year of cheerleading and.. im 14 and going to be a freshman in high school this year.. now i honestly think that my new coach has no confedence in me!! i mean yeah.. i ask a lot of questions.. just b/c im a perfectionist and i need to.. but i always try my hardest!!! in fact.. i even overheard my coach saying that she doesnt see me moving up to varsity next year!! now that was pretty crotch of her.. lol seeing as im always working hard. any experienced cheerleaders out there who can help me suprise her by actually MAKING and doing varsity material?? HELP!~
sighned,
wow this sucks ass~
Just keep practicing very hard . If that doesn't work maybe you can talk to your coach . Talk to her about all the hard work and dedication you've been devoting to cheerleeding . Tell her that questions keep you informed and that it's good that you ask questions because, questions don't risk the squad being in jeopardy . Just try your best .
I love this guy but my parents say im to young. Im 12 yrs old. And my big brter showed his girlfriend pics with me in it to at my bday. Her bro saw it and said im pretty. My big brother and his girlfriend want me to go to the movies with them and him. My mom told me but I was shy I always am, and I said uhh cuz i was surprised. But he just turned 12 a couple days ago but is in sixth grade i think because he has late bday. Im going to 7th and he's going to the same school as me. Kinda confusing. Can you help. Im shy and mom says im too young. Its my life.
Well I think you should probably go for the kid who's in the 6 th grade . The questions you need to ask yourself is
What does my heart desire ?
Do I really want to go out with this guy ?
What's in my best interest ?
Should I do what my parents tell me to do? Is this guy worth it ?
These are the questions you have to ask yourself so I advise you to ask your self these questions and most importantly listen to your heart's desire . I hope I was some help . By .
i am 16 and me and this guy were talkin for about three weeks well he was gettin jealous of me talkin to his friend but we were just freinds and he started being rly mean and sayin rly mena things to me so i just told him i wanted to be friends well now we are ok and i like him ALOT and he likes me alot but its still hard 4 me to forgive him and i dont kno what i should do if i should go back to him or what anything will help THANX
*MaNdA*
Well tell him how you feel and also notify him that you know how he feel's about you . Don't make it as if you're contradicting his feelings about you because, that would make him angry . Talk about having a relationship , and talk about his jealousy issue's and with that comes trust which is a major factor in relationships . Talk about it all .
theres this guy named anthony that i've been with before and he's a rlly great guy but i've dumped him about 5 times and i think i rlly like him for real this time b/c i always think about him but like he sed he'd go out with me but we've gone out too many times and he thinks im goin to dump him again..idk wat to tell him nemore b/c i rlly like him and he knows that but what should i tell anthony? how can i convince him to be with me again? PLEASE HELP ME! I RLLY LIKE THIS GUY!
Well, I think that you should have a discussion with Anthony. Tell him that you really like him, and express yourself . Also mention that if he would give you another chance that you would not hurt him because, you take in his consideration as well . I know you've probably talked to him and all about this but make sure that at this date, that all issue's, problems, concerns and e.t.c. comes out . Try to fulfill his qualities but not if they are for the worse . Tell him how you feel and tell him that this date or whatever you want to call it , is a chance for the both of you to put the past a little about you . Of course he's not going to forget the past, but it's a d-- good start at having a relationship .