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how to get a boyfriend


Question Posted Monday September 20 2004, 4:42 pm

okay well i think im popular at my school..I have a lot of friends that are boys and a ton of friends that are girls..I just cant get a boyfriend..Im not pretty..but I flirt a lot and boys flirt with me a little too..but nobody will ask me out or anything..and if i ask someone out they will say no..and i guess the other boys do to but there is this girl who is really not attractive..i mean people call her Shrek and stuff! She always is going out with someone!! I dont get how she gets boys!! How can I get a boyfriend?! I dont know what Im doing wrong!

please help..


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Additional info, added Monday September 20 2004, 4:59 pm:
there is a dance this friday and i have nobody to dance with..while my friends are dancing with their bfs...=(.

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Crystal_0408 answered Monday September 20 2004, 8:04 pm:
If you want my opinion, I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Boys can be boys... and If they can't see what kind of person you are, then something must me wrong. I don't know about this other girl they're calling shrek, but I'm pretty sure she isn't that bad, right? I mean I'm sure youre not that bad either. Don't tell yourself you're not pretty. Everyone is pretty inside. You shouldnt worry about having a boyfrind anyway... You're still too young. Heck, I'm a freshman and I'm still too young. Flirting is okay, until it gets too serious, but everyone flirts all the time... I think you should just stick with your friends, hanging out.. and flirting more, im sure someone will soon realize you like them and they might like you back, give it time trust me... your still a child. Hope this helps.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:25 pm:
You don't absolutely HAVE to have a boyfriend. There's probably a guy out there who really likes you, but is afraid to ask you out. Just wait until the right guy comes your way. You'll know when it happens. I really hope I helped you!

-casey<33

PS. I don't have a boyfriend either..and I have a dance Friday also! Just hang out with your friends, forget about having a boyfriend, and enjoy your dance! :D Have Fun!

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XxRockon answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:20 pm:
well, it might not be anyhing personal with you. No matter how popular you are doesn't determine wheter you get a boyfriend or not, sometimes its does but rarley. Maybe the guys that u flirt with just think of u as a friend or don't want relationshops now. Maybe you can broaden your horizen of guys and see what other ones are out there. As for this girl, maybe she has a different aproach with guys or something..just czu she isnt that attrative dopesn't mean she can't get boyfriends..and as for ur dance maybe u could just ask a good guy friend to go wit u so u have someone to dance wit..hope i helped :)

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sugercake answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:02 pm:
What i do when i like a guy i act like i dont like him....get to kno him as a friend and act yourself...i have never asked a guy out but with my trick most of the guys ask me out...hope this will help..

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Courtney answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:53 pm:
I really don't want to be a downer or anything , but you really don't need a guy unless you really really want a guy . Let me give you the low down on how it is when you have a boyfriend . Well , sometimes they like to tell you what to do but not all of them . I really think you should be yourself because, you seem like a cool person . There's probably someone who likes you and haven't plucked up enough courage to ask you . If you see what you want , go for it . Even if you might not get it , don't give up and never doubt your instincts unless you have a great enough reason to doubt them . You see what you want and you go for . You see what you want and you take it, but if that person doesn't want to be taken then so... move on . Trust me . Been there and kind of done that . Well, I hope I was some help . Have a nice day and do you think you could leave me a rating ? Thanks that'd be really nice of you .

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