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Im in a long distance relationship, its going well. I went to see him yesterday and it was great, but everyone knows him so we could barley hold hands and things - all of his girl mates like him and if they found out...well then...rumours about us would be flying everywhere.
He is coming down to see me soon and where i live is fine , we can kiss, hold hands, do whatever really. But I really want to make the day special for him, so he knows there's a reason why we're together and why me make an effort to come up/down to eachother. He is a ladies man, he has girls all over him, I know him, but not that well enough to know when he's going to lose feelings for me.
I just want to make the day special....not in sexual terms, in a nice, romantic way.
He wants to meet my friends and family, so I've said yes. He's obviously keen if he wants to know about my life, right? I pretty much have EVERYTHING wherei live (cinemas,bowling,ice skating,river sides, shops etc) So please suggest anything tht made you have such a good time with someone!!! (link)
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for me i would surprise him on a field next to the water..bring alittle blanket with some food while watching the sunset together. that would be very romantic. after all your there for the company so go somewhere quiet somewhere where its calm and relaxing. it could even been on the beach or on an open field but itd be soo romatic to watch the sunset together
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iv been smiling like a giddy idiot all through work today haha
(i posted this question a couple of days ago)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=570025
its the same girl, except after a few hours today i finnaly grew a pair of nuts sucked up my shyness and tried to talk to her. it went great! her personality is as beutiful as her style.
her slightly aussie accent is really cute too
i dont think any one knows that i like her im trying to hide it a bit so i can get to know her better. thing is though iv been thinking out a long term (sort of) plan to get to know her a bit better
after we'v talked in work and if all goes well then how do i think of a cute way to give her my number so that it makes it really obvious or slightly obvious that i like her. im not affraid of rejection .. at least i hope im not.. iv been alone for 6 years and am really rusty at this :s
any advice on anything else you can think of would be appreiciated.
thanks again all of you (link)
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heeeeey haha its me the one that gave you advice on your last question!1im so proud that you finally grew some balls and talked to her..aww if she knew you were asking advice on impressing her she would melt!
well make sure youv spoken to her a few times before trying to get her number, just be natural about it. ask her what she likes to do eg lets say she likes to watch DVD's then say oh man i love watching dvd'd have you watched bla bla and shell b like no and you can be like well maybe sometime we can watch it together and just give her a cute smile at the end. shell say eah sure then you can be like oh by sorry i dont have your number do you mind giving it to me?and then shell give it to yu and you can be like well ill keep intouch then and smile...hope this helps, this might be random but you dont live in New Zealand do you?lol only asking because that where i live and shes got an aussie accent and oz is close by lol..ok going now lol..good luck!!
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So, my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and saw each other for the first time in a long time this weekend. We had sex, and usually I am very stern about wearing a condom, but we didn't have one, and we were both being stupid. Obviously I pulled out, but I know that is still not a great idea. This was this weekend (saturday night, sunday morning) and now it is monday, and we got into a fight. She said she is feeling all hormonal, and freaking out. I am trying to calm her down and tell her that its too early to be feeling anything due to pregnancy. Also, she is supposed to be getting her period soon, so it could be that as well. Either way, I just need reassurance for myself. (link)
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what the other person said is all good..i can also reassure you that she is not pregnant she is most likely getting her period. takes 2weeks after sex for her to get all hormonal if she is pregnant..dont worry
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I have a job of 2 years...i make a decent amount of money, but i would really like to earn some more cash. I really need it right now, cause i just got out of high school. if anyone has any good ideas, hit me up and let me know. (link)
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you can even seel your clothes online or jewlery etc on trademe or ebay
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does constantly being unhappy and lovesick increase the chance of having a heartattack or something?
cause for example when i'm lovesick i still have the butterflies in my stomach and my heart racing but not in a happy/jumpy way but in a painful way. and it's really getting to me because whatever i do, i cant get rid of it. sports sometimes help but only for an hour or so. (link)
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i would say it could because it stressess you out and if your already having heart problems it will make your heart weaker. if you have a healthy heart then theres nothing to worry about but depends how much pain your in and how lovesick you are. if your verrry lovesick then this can definitly triger a heart attack
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I got my braces off almost 3 1/2 years go and they gave me reatainers to wear daily, then after a while only at night, then after a while only 2 nights a week. I lost my top retainer and haven't worn it in over a month. My teeth haven't seem to have shifted but I'm scared they will? Should I try to get a new one as soon as possible? or should I not bother and i'll still be ok? cuz they're really expensive!! (link)
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heeyy i might be giving you bad advice but i had to once wear retainers and i accedently threw them in the bin within the first week of wearing them. i never bought another pair and my teeth havent shifted. its just up to you if you want to risk it
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when my boyfriend fingers me he uses 1 finger...im a virgin and hes the first guy whos fingered me so i'm guessing that was a smart move to start things. but i don't orgasm from being fingered...even when he rubs my clit...so my questions are
1.) if he uses 2 fingers would that make a difference? in a good way?
2.) is there anything besides rubbing the clit that will give me an orgasm? he tells me to lead him but i honestly don't even know myself. (link)
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yeah poking doesnt do much for me either..get him to eat you out its alot more orgasmic
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i gave someone head for the first time ever on saturday night. durring the middle of the day on sunday my throat started hurting and it's still bothering me . i took a tylenol yesterday and it felt a little better. idk if i should be too concerned about it? idk if it was cause of my gag reflexes cause i gagged a few times when i was giving him head. i'm pretty sure i'm the first girl who's ever given him head , but not that suure. advice? .. 17/F (link)
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has he had sex before? if not then i wouldnt be too concerned. it is most likely because you were gaging. its not common but since the tylenol is helping then keep taking it but if it doesnt help see a doctor.
dont worry i dout its something to be concerned of you could even be getting a cold and probibly has nothing to do with the bj
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im 15/m
my parents divorced about 3 years ago.
ever since then, me and my older brother had been living with my mom. my dad moved into a condo 5 minutes away.
but not i just started living with my dad while my brother is still living with my mom. but my dad has a new gf that my mom doesnt know about. me and my brother know, but my mom never knew. its almost been a year already.
then yesterday, my bro and my dad had an argument and my bro told my mom everything about my dads gf and how shes been living with us.
she was crushed. everybodys crying especially my mom and i dont know what to do. my dad and bro hate each other and now my mom hates me because she feels like i betrayed her by not telling her all this time. my dad is quiet right now. also me and my bro arent speaking either. everythings going to shit and i dont know what to do.
Please help me. (link)
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what your dad and mum having going on has nothing to do with you. you should be having fun with your friends not dealing with this.
your mum doesnt mean the things she says to you. she speaks out of anger. she was married to the love of her life and now shes crushed because that man she loved so much is loving someone else so please please understand where shes coming from.
id start with an apology. right now your all shes has. your brother must of blew the situation waaay out of proportion and made it sound worse than it already is. your father didnt want to hurt your mother so please dont blame him either.
again begin with an apology, buy her some flowers because mothers love that sort of stuff even take her out to breakfast ask her to hang out with you, go watch a movie. she reaaallly needs you right now more than you think. even if shes mad at you its only because your weaker and its easy to be angry at you.
bond with her shes lonely and just found out the man she once wanted to spend the rest of her life with has devorced her and is living with someone else. he moved on a long time ago while she was still holding back...dont blame her for her anger instead join her and try helping her overcome it
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I am a freshman a big state school, over 40,000 people.
But the problem is that i cant seem to find friends.
I read the book "the naked roommate" and i have read many tips and i have tried them.
During the first couple of days it was extremely easy to follow those tips, simply because everyone was in the same situation- no friends. I met a lot of new people, and i was very open minded, i would start a conversation with anyone in range, and would sit with random people to eat with.
But now it has been over a week and things seem to be changing.
Groups are being formed, close friendships are starting to develop, relationships and so on...
But yet i still feel like im on the same boat as i was the first day; no friends.
And its worse now, because everyone has friends, so its harder to strive new conversations, and to sit with random people.
At first, we would have a lot of activities where i would meet a lot of people, and now my floor/hall barely does anything, so the opportunities are narrowed down.
The first couple of days i would meet a lot of new people, and even got some of their numbers, but when i saw them later they wouldnt even say hello or acknowledge that i was there.
It seems like i get peoples numbers, and meet new people...but they already made friends, and a lot of people that i feel im starting a friendship with i later see walking by with other friends and groups.
I am always alone, walking to class alone, hanging out in my dorm alone, and even eating alone. It is now very hard to sit with random people because they are already with their groups and friends and when i try it, its like i barely get a conversation because the friends or group just talk.
I am getting tired of being alone...and i wasnt always like this.
In highschool i had many friends eventhough i was only at that high school for two years. People would invite me places, and here its like they dont even bother to send a text or invite me anywhere.
I have gone to a couple of frat parties and meet people and later text them/or see them and eat with them...but things just end there.
Its getting kind of depressing to always being alone and seeing so many people being happy with friends and enjoying college.
I have joined two clubs but it isnt helping very much.
What should i do?
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alright, you should just know that theres nothing wrong with you. you not having friends has nothing to do with you or anything you say and do. you seem like a sweet girl its the rest of the world thats being stupid.
what id do is get to know one person who you really click with who you really bond with. its good to know people but its not enough to be moving from person to person.
it would help if you got to know one girl thats in all your classes and start off having lunch with her/him then ask her what shes doing in the weekend and if she wanted to hang out etc. become her friend and then soon friends will come rolling it starts with only one person to have friends.
just be yourself and dont feel shy to not stir up a converstation with her friends, be herlpful and considerate ask them questions because everyone likes to talk about themselves.
just dont loose hope that you wont find friends because you will!keep going
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So... I been talkin to this guy and I think im starting to like him like him. BUT he had to many other girls in the past. He tells me that he changed and that he isnt the same guy he used to be. He's about 40mins aways so we see each other every other weekend. I hope im not just his girl on the side. I dont want to get too attached and get hurt at the end. Should I leave him alone?? :[ (link)
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to be honest personally, i dont believe in change. i dont think hes changed i mean he might say he has and might stop going after a girl but he can always go back to being who he was. what if he gets sick of you or gets into and arguement with you hell probibly go after another girl..i say dont go there hell only hurt you unless hes reaallly proved to you that hes changed but most likely he hasnt. sorryy but i dont want you getting hurt
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Hi.. I have asked a few questions before. I am a teen and pregnant, I have almost no friends now. Nobody really talks to me, I have a best friend and She did not try to help at all after I told her I was pregant, but she had been way out of it for a bit but I don't know what is up with her. Then I had a boyfriend. The baby is not his but he said he would be there and then got really obssesive and controling so I told him let's just chill for a bit.
he got together with my friend after that.
How am I supposed to stay friends with them and talk to them and help her if she is pregnant?
They mean the world to me but they really broke my heart... but I don't know if I can give them up. They are the only two people who really talk to me still. Do I drop my social life because they did something I find unforgivable, or keep them around becuase they have been good to me in the past? Even if they hurt me now?
Seeing as she is my best friend I know that I should help her with the baby because I am already pregnant I know everything she would need, but it would be my boyfriend well ex now's baby. How do I manage that? (link)
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well shes now pregnantand she cant go back. she did wrong by sleeping with your ex boyfriend but people do wrong. to it seems like she wasnt really there for you in the past and wasnt there for you when you were pregnant so how will she be there for you now that shes pregnant?
Its really up to you if your able to forgive her and put the past behind you. everyone makes mistakes and if she knows what shes done is soo bad and feel horrible about it and hes begged you to forgive her then you should because you had a chance with her boyfriend and he wasnt ment for you, maybe hes ment for her?
right now she needs you and you should be the bigger person, the more mature one out of them because to em it sounds like you are and sounds like your a loving person who can forgive people even if they dont deserve it. shes all you got so think carefully..:) goodluck
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Hey everyone, if you go to google and look up "William Suh arrest". Im the victum in that change. I dont know what to do, i still love that man and the people dont even have the facts stright about any of it! they are making himout to be a horrible person and he is NOT. I love him and belive he did nothing wrong, i really want to talk to him, but i cant sit here and listen to the horrible things people are saying about him. They dont know him, I DO!
what do i do T_T (link)
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The media always makes things out bigger than what they are. they make up things along the way. theyve made this guy sound soo horrible and im sorry your in there too. what i dont understand is why you told your father?
William knew that you were 13 right?or did you tell him you were older?because if you did then police need to know this. this man could be in prison because of nothing.
on the other hand if he knew you were 13 then he took advantage of you. he knew you were well under the legal age and manipulated you. your still young sweety and he used that as a privlage to him. you body is still young for sex you dont understand that if he got you pregnant and either way you had to choose between keeping the baby or not both paths would end badly, he knew all this, he knew your body was not physically ready for sex. even though you love him you both shouldnt of been having sex. he got in trouble because he understood the out come of this. sorry theres nothing you can do but unless he thought you were 16 then you need to tell police this or your father.
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Well I like a couple girls but I like one more but I dont know if they like me a all I can say I'm not the best looking but I'm also not the worst. Any advice. (link)
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get to know her, drop little hints that you like her from time to time like tell her you think shes beautiful ask if she likes anyone and oventually tell her how you feel. right now your only wondering and dont actually know why dont you go and find out. if she likes you then thatd be awesome but if she doesnt then it doesnt matter because your a man for just asking and then you can stop wondering and move on but i hope she likes you back!good luck goo for it!
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ok well this guy friend of myn is really good friends with my brother and he is in my class but anyways this guy frind of myn stayed at my house with my bro and well we messed around a little and well like a month after wards i let him now how i felt about him and he said he just wanted to be friends but he says that he would date me in a heart beet but my brother he dont want to loose are really close friendship. But its been like a week since he told me he wanted to just be friends and three days ago well i stayed at my friends house and we went and hung out with him and someother guys and well we winded up messing around again and i was wondering if he is just using me and what should i do because i am tired of him acting like thier is something their and then breaking my heart to nothin except friends........i am a Sophemore in high school (link)
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He does like you but cant be with you so instead hes just playing around with you but only because he likes you not because he wants to be with you get me?so in other words this playing around stuff will lead you know where because hes made it clear he doesnt want you two to date because of your brother and now that hes told you this he thinks that you understand and think that its alright to fool around with you. he thinks that your both on the same page as to where you stand. id tell him that you dont want to fool around unless your in a relationship other wise hes taking advantage of your feelings
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I'm Longer A Virgin, Bhut when I Had Sex For The Second Time and He Was Telling Mhe That He Could See That I Was Wet.! bhut I Wanna Know What It Looks Like.? I Have An Idea Bhut I'm Not Sure
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it has no colour, its transparent like water
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hey i have this pain under my left rib(as if you were me right if ur looking at me) and its not the rib its right under it right at the bottom in towards the middle of my body. anyone know what this could me? (link)
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its called a muscle spazim..sometimes your muscle gets tangled with a nerve and so you feel that shrp jabbing pain..iv had it before you cant really avoid it im afraid
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My son took a nap he laid on my lay on a chair for a while. when he woke up he was fine besides still a little tired so he laid with me for a while. I then let him go lay on my bed to watch cartoons. He came out crying and I asked whats wrong he keep syaing hes knee hurt so I took him back to the rom and let him lay down and rubbed it. a little bit later he came out again and keep falling down? could it be just a muscle ache? I gave him tylenol and rubbed lotion on his legs. (link)
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he could of had a cramp in his knee..i get that sometimes when iv been stretching or bending my knee for a long time period and when i open my knee out its really sore and i cnt stand on it, it could be that sorry if this isnt helpful enough
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so i have this white stuff coming out of my vagina, is it a good thing or a bad? like it smells really bad. if im in class and i open my legs to sit or something then you smell it. i went on birth control and when you first get it, the girl goes inside your vagina and sees if you have anything wrong, but she said that i dont have anyhting wrong with me but idk how to get rid of the white stuff && the smell..
HELP!
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it could be because you pubic hair is over grown..try to trim the hair or wax it off or cream it off its part of the smell..this usually happens in your young teens dont worry its not a big problem just take the hair off that area and clean the aarea with femini soap wich youll find in the tampon idle
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I sweat a lot during sports and on hot days. what is the best deodorant that is over the counter? are there any other ways to prevent sweating to much? thanks in advance (link)
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use roll on then spray deoderant,umm nivea is good but i herd this helps prevent sweating
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