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My best friend and Ex
Hi.. I have asked a few questions before. I am a teen and pregnant, I have almost no friends now. Nobody really talks to me, I have a best friend and She did not try to help at all after I told her I was pregant, but she had been way out of it for a bit but I don't know what is up with her. Then I had a boyfriend. The baby is not his but he said he would be there and then got really obssesive and controling so I told him let's just chill for a bit.
he got together with my friend after that.
How am I supposed to stay friends with them and talk to them and help her if she is pregnant?
They mean the world to me but they really broke my heart... but I don't know if I can give them up. They are the only two people who really talk to me still. Do I drop my social life because they did something I find unforgivable, or keep them around becuase they have been good to me in the past? Even if they hurt me now?
Seeing as she is my best friend I know that I should help her with the baby because I am already pregnant I know everything she would need, but it would be my boyfriend well ex now's baby. How do I manage that?
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i would say screw your best friend and your ex for hurting you like that. but as a cool person that you sound like, you should help her as much as she needs. she will definitely remember you after this and would never think of hurting you like that ever again.
btw, you should expand your horizons and widen your social circle. dont get stuck and dependent on a friend you cannot count on. stay positive in finding new friends. good friends are those who dont judge you by your past, so those 'friends' who ditched you in the past are clearly not friends at all. good for you for being rid of them! be happy and do what you think is right and nice :)
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well shes now pregnantand she cant go back. she did wrong by sleeping with your ex boyfriend but people do wrong. to it seems like she wasnt really there for you in the past and wasnt there for you when you were pregnant so how will she be there for you now that shes pregnant?
Its really up to you if your able to forgive her and put the past behind you. everyone makes mistakes and if she knows what shes done is soo bad and feel horrible about it and hes begged you to forgive her then you should because you had a chance with her boyfriend and he wasnt ment for you, maybe hes ment for her?
right now she needs you and you should be the bigger person, the more mature one out of them because to em it sounds like you are and sounds like your a loving person who can forgive people even if they dont deserve it. shes all you got so think carefully..:) goodluck
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