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what should i do?
ok well this guy friend of myn is really good friends with my brother and he is in my class but anyways this guy frind of myn stayed at my house with my bro and well we messed around a little and well like a month after wards i let him now how i felt about him and he said he just wanted to be friends but he says that he would date me in a heart beet but my brother he dont want to loose are really close friendship. But its been like a week since he told me he wanted to just be friends and three days ago well i stayed at my friends house and we went and hung out with him and someother guys and well we winded up messing around again and i was wondering if he is just using me and what should i do because i am tired of him acting like thier is something their and then breaking my heart to nothin except friends........i am a Sophemore in high school
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okay, what you need to do is tell him that you want to date hime. Talk to your brother about it. ask him what he thinks about it, he should understand. I mean what if it was the other way around and he liked your friend and wanted to date her, but just messed with her. Talk to him about it, or don't let your brother's friend mess around with you anymore. If you need to, try dating other guys and if your brother's friend really cares he'll do something about it. thanks, hope i helped.
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He does like you but cant be with you so instead hes just playing around with you but only because he likes you not because he wants to be with you get me?so in other words this playing around stuff will lead you know where because hes made it clear he doesnt want you two to date because of your brother and now that hes told you this he thinks that you understand and think that its alright to fool around with you. he thinks that your both on the same page as to where you stand. id tell him that you dont want to fool around unless your in a relationship other wise hes taking advantage of your feelings
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I recommend that you just stay friends with him and stand up for yourself. If he really wanted to be with you he would respect you and not want to mess around with you and then tell you he rather be friends. My boyfriend has a little sister and his best friend is her boyfriend. He respected her and went to her brother (my boyfriend) to tell him that he wanted to date his sister. My boyfriend doesn't mind it. Bottom line don't give him the satisfaction of messing with you and then being able to throw you like a rag and pick you up when he feels like it. You deserve so much more from a guy. It just seems like he is trying to have fun and not be stuck in a relationship or at least doesn't like you enough to tell your he will like to date you. I say you tell him you don't want to do anything with him anymore and that you agree that you should just stay friends.
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