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just wait till he is alone for a little.. or if he is like those guys who are never alone.. just go up and talk to him.. who cares about his friends.. just bring up a easy convo topic that his friends could get in on to.. like the class your in.. your the teacher .. or w/e else..
but dont worrie about his friends..
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okay i really think this kid is hott but i dont even know him...i see him in the halls alot but i smile and he smiles back but i want him to notice me what do i do???? should i wear something differnt put heavy makeup on? i know it seems really stubid because of a guy but i dont even know him!!! (link)
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fall in front of him.. just kidding.
just got up to him and start talking .. maybe say .. hey, whats up.. or i see your coming out of ___ class. or . yo hottie.. whats your name
best of luck
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Well, I am going out with this guy named Tim and I like him ALOT. He isn't allowed to have a girlfriend because his mom won't let him. (I guess she just doesn't know about me.) My problem is that I'm really worried he might break up with me before Summer because I wouldn't really see him, and his mom wouldn't be cooperative. I don't know what to do because it just kills me to think about losing him. Should I talk to him about it? And if so, what should I say? Your advice is much appreciated. (link)
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i would talk to him. .. maybe ask him to talk to his mom. and let her know that he is a teenage boy, and can take care of things like this.
and if his mom makes him break up w. you .. just let him know you will be here for him still.
when is he alowed to have a g/f? maybe you should just tell him "hey, i really do like you. but so you dont get introuble do you want to save our relationship until ___"
or you could just go behind his mothers back
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lets call my friend, kara.
my friend kara, seems to be depressed a lot lately, and she thinks that her friends dont care about her, and she basicly despises herself, i've been talking to her and everything, but it still doesnt seem to work.
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well, you really cant do anything to that.. just try to make her happy.. and let her see how great she is
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I'm 15/f, and I want a job. I can't really get a job right now because I'm only 15 and most places hire when you're 16. I don't turn 16 until August, but I wanted to go ahead and get one so I can have money to go towards getting a car and other stuff. So, does anyone have ideas for what I could do or any places that hire at 15?
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lol.
you could do the whole lawn thingg.. not really that much fun!
or you could help around the house.
or i think food stores hire 15 year old baggers, you could try that.
or maybe you could go help the old people
or walk doggs.
thats all i can think of. i would go around and see how old stores higher.
or search on the internet.
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i am a 15 year old female and,there are these prople that say that my boyfriend
is cheating on me but, i know that he is not because he talks about me all the time . He tells every one that he loves me. and he gets mad when other boys look at me . so please help me i am going crazy .
Love always barby......
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well just ask him .. be like hey , there has been some talk . are you cheating on me. and what ever he says.. believe him.
thats all you really can do.
best of luck
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I really appreciate anyone who decides to read this and help me, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
I've been in a relationship, on and off with a boy for two years now - I'm just about to turn 18, while he's just about to turn twenty. For most of our being together our relationship has been really unstable, him always unsure if he wanted to be with me. I look back at myself and wonder why I spent so many nights worrying and letting myself become so attached.
We had what was supposed to be our 'final breakup' right around New Year's eve. I was hurt, and we were split for a little over a month, and started talking again. Not too long after, we started actually becoming connected in all of the ways we hadn't been before. To be honest, right now I'd have to say that he's probably my best friend, and we share everything with eachother. This is probably the best our relationship has ever been, and I should be loving every minute of it.
The problem? While we were split, I got to know a friend of his, *Jeffery, really well. This is someone who has betrayed my boyfriend in the past, there are shaky feelings between them although they still see eachother occasionally. I got to know Jefferey better and better and really began to like him, and him me. I stopped talking to him for the most part because I was afraid that it would hurt my boyfriend, although we were not together at the time. After a short time I thought that I made a mistake, but by then me and my (then ex-)boyfriend had started to talk again. My boyfriend and I have been together since.
Lately, me and Jefferey have been seeing a lot of eachother through mutual friends. We still have feelings for eachother, and it has been driving me crazy. While things are going really well in my relationship with my boyfriend, I feel like I will always have this question in the back of my mind, "what if". Recently me and Jeffery were hanging out together, and he tried to kiss me. I didn't let him, and told him we shouldn't hang out anymore unless I break it off with my boyfriend. I feel like this was a horrible mistake, but I feel very insecure about breaking things off with my boyfriend, who has been so great to me during all of this. We have no secrets from eachother, and I did not cheat on him. I think that Jeffery might have 'given up' on trying to be with me, and I feel a little defeated and negative about myself. I feel like I should have been more decisive, but I don't know what to think. I wish I had gotten to know Jeffery more while I was single.
Thanks to anyone who read this long thing, and thanks doubly to anyone who offers advice. My mind is a mess over this.
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do you like the relation ship that you are in now? like .. is he giving you all you need .. and making you happy.. if yes, then dont worrie about Jeffery . because you are happy with what you have now.
if no, reconsider jeffery.. maybe you should ask your b/f for a break .. and talk to Mister Jeffery more.. and maybe try to work up a relation ship again with him.
best of luck
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I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
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if he is true, he wont get mad.
just tell him.. hey , i dont like (love) you but i think we are moving to fast.. and then let him know how much you do like (love) him still.
i really dont know what you could do but talk to him .. tell him how you think your moving to fast, and you miss all the talks you guys used to have,
justine
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female,16....Hi im elena and i was woundering, My friend and i were in the park one day and we ended up making out.. The next day at school he didn't talk to me or even look at me.. He told his cousin that he liked me and he liked what happend but he wont talk to me. IS there something wrong or am i just freeking out? (link)
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maybe he is shy? like .. he doesnt think you have feelings.. i would go up to him one day at school and be like hye .. whats up? and if you like him.. tell him.
i dont think there is something wrong with it. and no, your not freaking out.
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My boyfriend and me live right down the street from each other and we spend ALOT of time together. Well all of a sudden thier MOVING 35 to 40 minutes away! OMG im freaking out and i dont know if i should stay with him and see how things go or what?!?! (link)
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well if he is only moving 40 min. away you could still see eachother. so i would stay with him.. if you think you can. things could still work out. i mean.. you just wont see him everyday, but that would make seeing him 10x better. right?
so i would most deff. stay with him!
relax, it will be fine.
Justine
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Me and my friend want to give my REALLY nerdy other friend a makeover at my house. She's the sensitive type, so how do I approach it? She has a unibrow, HIDEOUS nails, she wears pokemon shirts and granny jeans, her hair is frizzy, heavy, and waist length, and she desperately needs makeup. She desperately needs a new look, so how do my best friend and i approach her and give it to her? What things do I need to change to make her not-so-nerdy (nothing like cutting her hair)? I rate 5's (link)
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maybe you can just ask her over for a sleep over .. and then when you get there be like .. hey i have always wanted to do your hair! then go on to do her make up .. and have your other friend do he nails and maybe take her shopping after that.
and make sure you keep saying "wow you look great!" and stuff like that so she will want to keep the look.
do you have school dances? maybe you could do it on the night of that? so everyone could see her?
best of luck!
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ok i have some acne. not a lot but some. and my friend will sometimes make fun of it. i dont think she realizes it, but she still does it. then when i ask her not to say it she just goes, "gosh i was just kidding!" now this girl is flat chested, and if i ever make a joke about that she completely refuses to talk to me for like a day. today something happened and i apologized to her 3 times but she wont forgive me! ive known this girl since second grade and i really dont want to lose a friend. help please!
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does she know that when she says that it hurts you? because i think she does. and she doesnt seem very friendly. if you know what i mean. but i think that is also rude of you to comment on her flat chest. i know you were kidding. but you know how it feels. and it doesn't feel good, does it?
i would just wait for her to come around .. maybe go tell her how much she means to you .. and tel her how you dont want to lose her.
best of luck
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so lets call her summer.
me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
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no.. no silent treatment. you want to tell her in a nice way.
i would just take her aside one day and tell her . hey, you and i are very diffrent.. and our friend ship really isnt working out.
after that . i would still say a friendly hey. but you dont have to talk to her.
but dont say that in a mean way ..
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My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again! (link)
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you didn't know. you are only human, and you make mistakes. just let them know this..
and why wouldn't you want to go to the party. it is YOUR friend.
just talk to those 4 girls.. be like guys, i really didnt know. i am sorry. what can i do to make it up to you.
and they might be mad for a while.. but they cant be for ever..
offer to help with the party or something.
did you tell her the date and everything? maybe you guys can change it and have it before/after that date.. or something?
best of luck.
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Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think? (link)
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i know how you feel. i am 13, i dont know about you. but thats how guys are at this age.. all they care about is looks .. its like, they all are playing a game.. who can date the best looking.
but i would forget about them.. dont stress over this.. just keep working for the good grades, and hanging out with your friends.
what ever you do, dont change for them..dont change your style, your friends, your looks, or anything else. that so not worth it.
but guys grow up soon.. in high school.
so just give them some time..
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Ok, so lets call the girl Alicia....
Alicia was getting on my nerves alot. I felt like she thought she was better than be and was ignoring me so I decided to take action. I really regret this now, but I decided to take action. I wrote a mean e*mail to her saying how she was ignoring me and how she didnt match sometimes. There were no curse words and no name-calling, but she got really mad at me. She printed out the email and showed to atleast 10 of my friends. Some people turned against me calling me mean, which was true! I said sorry by leaving e*mails and messages and I even made this card by cutting out letters and pictures from magazines for her but from gossip, i heard she doesnt want to be my friend at all. I miss her alot, and I try my best to be nice and all, but I really wish I didnt send they e*mail. What should I do to try to be her friend again but not seem too clingy and obsessed? Please help.
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thats the thing, next time you have a problem with some one . talk to them no e-mails or notes.
i would just call her .. or talk to her one day and be like hey .. ireally miss you .. you really mean a lot to me. can you please give me another chance? i will never do that to you again.
and then maybe explain the reasons for writting the e-mail.
you cant make her want to be your friends. but what you can do it just ask her to be it .. and tell her how sorry you are.
best of luck for your friendships.
Justine
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I have this friend, and we were really good friends at the beginning of the year. Literally every guy in our school thinks shes hot, and i think its gone to her head. She goes out with people shes not really friends with on friday nights and never invites me and acts like im a total freak all the time. on the other hand, shes always really nice to me and stuff when shes not around those people who think shes so hot, and i like to be around her then. i dont want to tell anyone how shes treating me because theyll tell her because they want to be friends with her. i cant talk to her because shes so mean when shes mad at someone and no one will be on my side of the arguement. (link)
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i think she might be .. playing? you . like .. your just there when she needs some one .. because a true friend wouldn't treat you like this. no.. not at all. i would still talk to her, and if she gets madd, then make new friends. just let her know that you think she is diffrent around people, and she is rude to you.
best of luck
Justine
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Hey guys ok heres the thing. I am constantly being told i am really skinny, i mean im aware of that but its just getting old. I've been trying to gain weight and i just cant!! Does anyone have any ideas on foods to eat that will make you gain weight fast?? Please help!! I rate high (link)
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well you could go to burger king for every meal for 10 days. but that would be gross. you just have a fast motablism, and thats fine. you really cant make it slow down. but i wouldn't eat a ton now, because it does slow down when you get older. so just make sure your eatting the right goods.. and you'll be fine.
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okay so i have like 3 best friends right? okay so the one girl is always mad. or turning small things into major things. and she always says im flipping on her but im not. i am just trying to understand. but there is always something about me that she doesn't like. or something i do. but it's like never the other two. i have been friend's with the other two longer and htey don't get mad at me as much or tell me my flaws.Sometimes she tells me that i even wouldn't like something on me. i mean how the hell would she know. i really need help. so can you help me? thanks. (link)
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well i would just bring it up with your friend. be like .. hey it seems that you are always yelling at me.. and talk to her. if she doesn't respect you doing that, then she really isn't worth it.
or you could have one of your other friends talk to her about it. Justine
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