Oh, I definitely think you should stop dating at ten or so.

Oh wait. I read this again and actually got it.

Um...if I was fourteen...I guess, the oldest I would date would be a seventeen year old. But I don't know, it depends on the person, really.

uh...didn't happen to me...

Why is it important anyway? Are you too small?

If you want to make a guy crazy, play a lot of tricks on him! Like, steal random objects when he's not looking (like a pen or notebook or something). And sneak into his room at night, and say things in his ear. "The shephards are coming to get you", is always a good one, but try to think of a few of your own. What's really fun is you could go up to him and start talking about something that happened, as if he was there and experienced it with you. Or IM him and say "yeah, we met at that party. there was a guy there in a chicken suit, and we played D&D". Keep this kind of stuff up for a while, and you'll have him in a straight jacket in no time.

Or you could just flirt with him. Physical touch is important, and say his name a lot. Eye contact too. And give him homemade brownies.

Don't change yourself to make eveybody else happy. They will never be satisfied, no matter what people will always try to find something wrong with you. You're not anorexic and you know that, and anybody that knows you well enough knows that. Those people are the only ones who matter, phbt to everybody else!

That is not fat. Believe me, that's fine! The reason you feel fat is because all teenage girls hate their bodies. You see other girls and you think "why can't I be that thing/pretty?" But in reality, they are looking at you and thinking the same thing.

But drinking a lot of water, walking every day, and not eating things like poptarts, cookies, candy, non-diet soda, etc. can help you lose weight. Though you really don't need it.

That's very normal.

Sleep. And maybe a masque.

Don't go out with a guy who has a girlfriend. He'll dump her for you, sure, but what do you think is gonna happen when another pretty girl comes along? He will dump you to go out with her. He probably doesn't think he's ugly, he just wants your pity. Forget about that jerk!

You face each other and press your lips together. Then go on from there.

It's normal to be a little off, don't worry about it.

I've heard of people who have gotten pregnant during their period. I suggest birth control pills, because they actually stop your period. Thus, you will have nothing to worry about.

Dress how you want. And find new friends. And try a little bit of color, because if you wear a little bit of neon green or pink with a lot of black it looks really good.

Are you asking for a list of what you should do? Should I say, "Well, it's okay to give him head as long as you don't have sex!"?

I'm sorry, but the only answer is "do what you're comfortable with".

He's just being friendly. If you don't like him, then it doesn't matter if he feels that way about you. Just be his friend for now.

You know, I really hate it when people do that to me, and I can't imagine it being my own parents! Unfortunately, my parents are the ones I turn to when I have this kind of trouble. Do you have any atheist friends? Any supportive teachers? It's terrible to face this kind of thing in the home. If they are abusing you, you need to get out of there.

I hope it works out.

You're embarassed to tell your mom? That's kind of silly, isn't it? She's been through it before, she is the only one who can help you! She'll tell you how to use the pads, and she'll give you painkiller for the cramps. And if you're hiding it from her...you must be pretty good. I don't know how I would explain blood-stained panties to my parents.

Don't stand around waiting for him! Boys are just like girls, they also have insecurities, and thye're probably looking at you and thinking, "why, God, WHY won't she be my girlfriend?" You need to make the first move.

When you reach the peak of sexual satisfaction.

You could look that up in a dictionary, you know, as well as handjob, blowjob, erection, and tons of other dirty words you're too embarassed to ask about!

It's natural for you to think about sex. Physically, you are ready to start making babies! But in our society, girls aren't just married off and used for reproduction. We get education and jobs now. This has sort of been imprinted on our brains so much, that at fourteen you are not EMOTIONALLY ready to handle sex, even though your body is more developed. Also, consider that as a girl, you are more devloped than boys of your age. Either way, fourteen is far too young to have sex, but it's fine to think about. It's okay to try masturbation, though. In fact, that's quite healthy because you get a sense of what sex feels like and you learn more about your body. It also helps release the sexual pressure you are feeling, and best of all--you can't get pregnant! How sweet is that? If you do masturbate, though, be careful. Don't use pencils or knives, that's dangerous!

Two months isn't that big a deal. If you celebrate your anniversary every month, it will get boring and soon the relationship will get boring. Do it every six months or every year, but every month is just ridiculous.

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