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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) !

First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



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Well we were really close friends and we always slept over each others houses. and one night when he slept over i wanted to go to bed and he wouldn't let me soo i started dancing on him and he left me alone. and then he started feeling me up. and now it's really wierd. we never really talk anymore and it hurts. i use to tell him everything. and now he doesn't act the same anymore. should i talk to him about it or just drop it?

you should talking to him about it because maybe he possibly liked you and then when you showed him that it was weird, he maybe backed away from you.
Hope this helped :]
♥Ariell

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why does everyone always say "this one time,at band camp.." i dont get it. is it from a movie or something?

It's from the American Pie movie's. If you watch them then you will get the praise. Their funny movies.

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Whats the code to change the font size on myspace to make the letters it smaller or bigger?

There's many so if you want to i.m. me at VINTAGE L0VEE X and i can tell you them, because i cant write the codes on here with out them activating and that wouldnt help you.
Hope this helped:]
♥ Ariell

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i have only made out with one person and im not sure if im good or not, im really self concious about that kind of stuff and like i dont want him to say "you suck" but like anyone have anytips that can help me be a better kisser?

well here's a site that has tips.
http://sextutor.com/kissing.shtml
It should be helpful.
Hope this helped :]
♥ ariell

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okay. so the first time my dad stuck it in was when i was 5 and it hurt. and he continues to do it. what should i do. my mom & family don't believe me soo what should i do?
♥ thanks.

Try to stick up to him if you can, because what he's doing isnt right and your family should believe you. Try telling consoulers about it at school or something.You can i.m. me if you want to talk about it at VINTAGE L0VEE X, if you'd like.
Hope this helped :]
♥ Ariell

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Hello, I'm fat, I weight 330 pouds roughly and like hm...

I have acne, but I'm pretty sure I can fix that with some facial hygiene and working out(after all, I'm only 18).

I wanted to know if it's still worth living, because I quit scroll and I'm about 4 years late on high school now, I should've been in college.

I deeply wish I could change all of that, but it gradually accumulatyed/piled up, now my life is a bad bad mess and it's going to take a GREAT effort to recover everything.

It sorta kills all my motivation to take it back when I think of how much it will be hard to heal, so I just sit and wait for my death to happen.

Is there anything I can do to decide to change? Because by sheer self esteem is impossible, I find myself worthless and unloved.

Don't think about dealth there's many things you can do, you can go a diet and watch what you eat. Dont eat late, eat alot of chicken and salads. Dont have more 3 meals a day and 2 snacks. Dont eat fast food, just basically watch what you eat. To lose more weight just walk for about an hour or two a day and then when you feel it's time you can run, run for an hour a day. It actually helps you just need the right motivation. Do as many sports as you can and just dont be lazy and sleep all day be active. And just start studying for school and re-join because its normal alot of people drop out and for the acne you can get pro-active it works very well and make sure to wash your face in the mornind and night. But dont consider dealth because dealth doesn"t solve your problems and think about all the people that will miss you, you'll just be making their life misserable.

Hope this helped :]
♥ Ariell

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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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1. Either talk to him and say either you break it off with the other girl or im leaving you because it isnt right for you or the other girl, he's cheating on both of you.

2. Just break up with him he obviously doesnt care about you as much as you do him because he was cheating on you in the for place and he was cheating on you for a year and he told you he wasnt ending it with the other girl that obviously shows he doesnt respect you.

And saying you could share him shows hes cocky.
Sometimes you have to do things that you dont like doing but it will help you in the longrun:]

Hope this helped
♥ Ariell

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ok so i like to masterbate. a lot. a little to much i would say. wat makes me masterbate is looking at girls and watch them kiss and make out. even rub. Am i lesbian? or is this normal?

I would think you would be a lesbian. Usually girls masterbate to guys not girls, it's not mormal.
Hope this helped :]
♥ Ariell

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i dont know but i alwayz wantt 2 hav sex its lk i cant controll myself or somethin i think & talk abuot it all da time even when i know i shouldnt lk wit guy friends or somethin do u think i hav problem?

Yes, I think you have a problem. You possibly could be a sex addict because you want it all the time and just with anyguy then you are probably a sex addict. They have consouling for it :]
Hope this helped.
♥ Ariell

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ive been with this guy for a year, and our relationship has gotten really intimate. i want to have sex with him, but im not sure im ready.what should i do? [im 20 years old]

Well it tell's that he hasn't pressured you to do anything you haven't wanted to do (I dont think) so maybe talk to him about him, ask him if he's ready and ask him if he would wait until you are ready. Try to see if he's loyal to your desicions which im sure he will be understanding since you have been with each other for a year. Just talk to him about it and see if you are ready.
Hope this helped.
♥ Ariell

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so ive been on my period for about..3 days now *first time* and it is getting heavier each day, or it seems to be. and i was wondering if that was normal and if there is anything else i need to know. thnks in advance :]

This is very normal, as you probably know your cycle(period) comes every 28 days. For some it may come a few days earlier or later. So a few days before your supposed to get youre period put a panty liner in. Periods usually last from 3-8 days. Your flow might slow down and you might think your down with your cycle for the month but it might flare up so keep that in mind.
Hope this helps :]
♥ Ariell

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i dont know if this is the right catigory but anyways.
im 13 going on 14 in agust and havnt started my period.

what are some signs of your period starting for the first time?


please help.


X0X0kay

Some signs are cramps, back pain, discharge, and moodswings. Don't worry about not getting your period yet, because I know people who didn't get theirs until they were 18. Usually the more athletic you are the longer it takes for you to get your period. So theres no need to worry.
Hope this helped:]
xox ariell

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Okay, there's this Buy It Now item on Ebay, and it comes with a Slim PS2, 2 controllers, 86 games, and all of the cords and memory cards needed to make it work. It comes with everything and everything is in New condition never tooken out of the box. The Buy it now price is $210.00 and $19 shipping. Is that a good price?

That's a great price because PS2's alone are about $250.00 and games are around $20.00 and more.

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Okay, so my friend just hooked up me and this guy. & I like him, and I'm pretty excited.

But the chances are my parents arn't going to let me date. He want me to go to the movies with him, and personally I don't like going to the movies of first dates. Excpecially when you just turned 13 and have overprotective parents.

I offerered to go to the pool club with him, I don't think he's too crazy about that idea. And he really does like me, alot. I made up the excuse not to go to the movies. I feel bad. What should I do?

There's many things you could do, you could go to the mall, go bowling, go to a waterpark depending on where you live. You could go to his house or he could go to yours. Just think of soem fun things you liek and suggest things to him and see what he thinks after all you both want to be confertable.

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(I'm sorry if this isn't in the right category. I didn't really know what to put it in)

Ive had my period for a little more than a year now, and I got it on sunday, and have had it for about 4 days, and yesterday it stopped. But the thing is, I got it again this morning. Do you think maybe it just wasnt finished yesterday or something? I don't think it will be more than 2 days from now that it will stop, but I'm still kind of scared that something might be wrong. thanks a ton :]

Nothing is wrong with that, thats a normal thing. Your cycle (flow) just slowed down for a bit and then it came back to normal. It's very common it happenes to most girls :]
dont be worried.

Hope this helped :]
xox Ariell

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How long do hangovers last and is there anything I can do to feel better?

Hangover's usually last about a day or so depending on how much you drank. To help with your headache if you have any which usually comes with hangover's take Asprin, it should help. Drink coffee too it also makes you feel more like yourself and helps take away from the hangover.

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i dont really like thongs, but where could i buy underwear that is kind of like a thong, but doesnt go up your but crack. basically like are a bit thicker. any website/stores (NOT victoria's secret, i already know that one)

Anystore that basically sells underwear, but there really isn't any other kind of underwear that's like a thong that doesn't go up your "crack", theres a g-string but it's thinner and probably isn't what your looking for. There isn't really any other type of underwear like a thong. sorry

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which movie will make me cry more the movie Click or the moview The lake house?
thanxx

definatly The Lake House will make you cry more because it's a love story. The movie Click is a comedy and comedys are more funny and make you laugh not cry.

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when you text someone, what do you pay extra? like.. juss for your phone? because i figure its probaly around the same price for every phone. so yep. thankss. bye

It actually costs 10 cents to send texts and another 10 cents when you open and read the new text. So everytime you send or recieve a text it is 10 cents.

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