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Hi I'm just about ready to suicide
Hello, I'm fat, I weight 330 pouds roughly and like hm...
I have acne, but I'm pretty sure I can fix that with some facial hygiene and working out(after all, I'm only 18).
I wanted to know if it's still worth living, because I quit scroll and I'm about 4 years late on high school now, I should've been in college.
I deeply wish I could change all of that, but it gradually accumulatyed/piled up, now my life is a bad bad mess and it's going to take a GREAT effort to recover everything.
It sorta kills all my motivation to take it back when I think of how much it will be hard to heal, so I just sit and wait for my death to happen.
Is there anything I can do to decide to change? Because by sheer self esteem is impossible, I find myself worthless and unloved.
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Don't commit suicide. When you're older, you'll realise (realize if you're American, I'm guessing you are) how easy you got over this. Acne is easily fixed, there are lots of treatments for that. You're age doesn't create a barrier for your schooling. You can still go back. Exercise is really important. Start slowly, go for half hour walks or something, cut back on junk food (maybe not all of it at once, you're body probably couldn't cope). Set yourself goals, weekly, and check up on your progress regularly. Unfortunately, you have no one to blame except yourself, and only you can fix your mistakes. I don't know exactly how much 330 pounds is, you Americans are still using the old imperial system (suits your government, bastards) so I don't know how many kilograms you are, but it sounds like a lot, and you should have realised that you were getting fatter before this stage. It's your own fault, and you need to change your life. Don't throw your life away.
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why the hell would you quit school for?ok is there anychance you can go back to school?it doesnt matter that your older ok well about your weight and acne life didnt do this to you YOU did this to yourself you HAVE to lose weight its extreemly dangerous especially at your age and why the hell commit suicide life gives ppl a second chance if you look for it.ok this is what you do to lose weight just walk like a half hour a day ok and eat NO JUNK AT ALLLLLL and more vegetables and less rice and cut down on the nuts(all of them) and anything fatty start now or you never will
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It will get better.
& then you'll back on this, & say.. "Thank God I didn't commit suicide"
Trust meeee.
I knew someone that lived through suicide, & they said.. there glad they did, because they realized that it wasn't worth it.
You need to get healthey for one.
Work out.
Theres a diet.. that makes you lose, like 10 pounds in 2 day, & then you have to keep at it for like 2 weeks. Its thee atkins diet.
All you do is eat protein, & vegetables. & drink plenty of water & take walks. No bread, junk food, or fruit. Just protein & vegetables.
.. Can't you also like get some thing, surgery wise, to lose weight? I forget what its called, but you probaly know.
Acne wise.
Proactiv is the best.
..Once, you just start to get a little skinnier, & your face clears up.. you'll already start to get happy, & hopefully that will motivate you.
Now why would you quit school? School is such a wonderful thing. What gave you the idea to quit?
You're quite deep in a hole.. but that doesn't mean, you can't dig yourself out.
A therapist, is a great person to see. Have you talked to your parents about this? About how you feel? Please do so. I promise everything will get better!
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ok well first of all you need to think about the positive things in your life, for example you don't have cancer, you aren't battling life and death everyday, and also you are only 18 so you have a long life to live and only you can make it better. it may seem like you life is useless but it could be worse. so i think you need to think about everything that you won't be able to do if you kill yourself. you won't be able to hold your first baby and watch it grow up, you won't be able to sit down with your family when you are old, and remember things you did to better yourselves. i don't know if you are religious but it may help to start thinking about religion, that will make your days brighter. even though you quit school you can still go back, take your GED, or take it online. it's not the end, you still could have a wonderful life, it is what you make of it. take each day at a time so you don't get overwhelmed. and talk with your family, they might help you out. and please if you want someone to talk to let me know ok? i would love to talk with you and help you out. take care.
my email is zainab16_89@yahoo.com
*~Zainab~*
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go to your doctor or therapist, and tell them right away. if you're even wondering if your life is worth living, you need someone to help you through this. find something to motivate you, something you're passionate about. no crazy diets, no whack exercise regimes...talk to your doctor. everything about yourself that you mentioned can be fixed. maybe think about going to adult high or something....good luck!
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Don't think about dealth there's many things you can do, you can go a diet and watch what you eat. Dont eat late, eat alot of chicken and salads. Dont have more 3 meals a day and 2 snacks. Dont eat fast food, just basically watch what you eat. To lose more weight just walk for about an hour or two a day and then when you feel it's time you can run, run for an hour a day. It actually helps you just need the right motivation. Do as many sports as you can and just dont be lazy and sleep all day be active. And just start studying for school and re-join because its normal alot of people drop out and for the acne you can get pro-active it works very well and make sure to wash your face in the mornind and night. But dont consider dealth because dealth doesn"t solve your problems and think about all the people that will miss you, you'll just be making their life misserable.
Hope this helped :]
♥ Ariell
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hey, don't be too hard on yourself. And please don't think about death! thats one of the worst things you could do! All you need to do is start working out more, and eating healthier! really push yourself to reach your goals! You'll feel so much better! Also, start up at school again! Hit the books and study real hard! Don't give up! And don't think that your worthless or unloved! You are greatly loved by those who really care for you! And you are not worthless! I have so much faith in you! I beleive you can do this! Just believe in yourself, everything will be ok! ^__^
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