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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something?

tell him about him and ask him.. because if you never ask .. then you'll never find out for yourself =/

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My thighs are really muscular, and i know your probably thinking, well thats a good thing. but my thighs are WAYYYYY too muscular, like huge! and i hate it! is there anything i can do to "slim" them down and make them thin instead of so bulky?

ughh this is hard because it's prolly in your genes.. and if you work them out then they will get even bigger.. but what i'm thinking is that maybe if you do some lower body tapes them maybe it will thin them out =/ idk hope that works out for youuu =]

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I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away
I keep your photograph; I know it serves me well
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain..what song is this and who is it by?

i ddin't even have to look this one up =] yay

its called broken by amy lee from evenesence and seether ;]

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i wanna get my belly pierced but my parentals won't let me. my questions is how do i persuade them ?

write them a letter to persuade them and tell them why you want it and why you should get it.. it works for me ALL the time ;]

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I like this guy who is kind of a teacher at my college. Is there a rule against dating the staff?

not dating staff.. but dating students.. because there was this movie that i saw and it was about that.. and a women got put in jail for dating her student =/ sorryy sweetie

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i think that i'm kind of self conscious .. i didn't know where to put this under but i think im really self conscious about my body and my looks and stuff. so i dont know. but anyway .. how could i get rid of some of my self consciousness?

thanksss

excercise!! it can make you feel better about yourself.. it will make you feel healthier and stuff ;] and maybe go shopping and buy some new cloths that make you feel beautiful.. =] hope i helped hunnn

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ok..so I want to get my hair done and my freind told me i should get mini highlights.
But i dont know what they are...so does anyone know?


thanks xo

little skinny highlight .. not big and full ;]

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Are the Oscars and the Academy Awards the same thing?

yuppp ;]

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is it okay to have your period and go in the ocean wearing one of those wet suits and you DONT have a tampon on? or can you wear a napkin under the wet suit because i really like to swim in the ocean but i tampons. please help ill rate you high!

you will bleed into the suit if you don't wear anything.. but you can't wear a pad/napkin because it can actually cause reproducing problems and you could have complications having a baby.. =/ the only other choice really is a tampon.. but you could wear the wet suit but you would just have to wash it real good to get the blood out.. but being in the water doesn't stop the blood flow

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I'm thinking about getting my hair thinned. But, I have one question. What exactly do they do?

they use these scissor looking things and pretty much just like give you layers.. =] hope i helped

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My mom has a drinking problem. She has gotten drunk at least 3 or 4 times. I hate it when she gets drunk. My sister and I told her to not buy wine again and she promised she wouldn't, but tonight she was got drunk because she has been hiding wine from us. The next day she ALWAYS denies it. What should I do to make her admit that she lied and to make her stop??

hunny... if shes hiding the wine from you then she has a serious problem and needs professional help.. if you mean 3 or 4 times a week then that's bad.. but if it's only 3 or 4 times ever.. then thats not bad at all... theres lots of places that she could go to like alcoholics annoynomas.. etc. i think you should write her a letter and stuff.. but idk ? i hope everythign works out for the better =/

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i was wonder what plan,phone company or whatever has like long distance free ?

thank you

well when you have free minutes on any wireless plan you can call long distance for free.. but with like at home services.. then you would have to get a calling card.. and then it's free =]

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I want to know how I can loose weight with out being hungry, what foods will keep me full for a longer period of time. I know water and salads are good but what else can I do to help me loose weight the proper way.

anything with high proteins or fats for example peanut butter... cheese.. meats.. eggs.. protein bars. etc.

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hey does anyone know if hollister sells jeans in the size double 0? thanks!

no they don't =/ sorry but their 0 run small so you might be able to fit into one of their regular 0's.. =]

credit to sara =] she helped me out on this one

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so does anybody know where i can make my own layouts? like.. i don't mean just colors, i mean like nice pictures and stuff.
also, does anyone know what program i could use to make banners for people.

anything would help, and i'll be sure to rate you well. thanks in advance

www.jasc.com/products/paintshoppro/ that's usually what people use to make their layouts, grafics.. banners etc. it's really sweet but it's expencive

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well right now my hair is short and blonde heres the pic: http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/121212.jpg but it has more blodn highlites in it now

would it look bad this color? :http://photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/?action=view¤t=yuvthishaircolor.jpg

with maybe bleach blonde highlites over it or underneath? orrr dark brown underneath? thankss

no way i think it would look EXTREMELY extremely cute! ;]

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There's this guy calling me and he knows my name..and he's like haressing me! It's scary..the thing is, he's hiding his number...and it's so freaky because he keeps calling back. He's also using this voice changer thing so he sounds like a robot...aah iddk! Is there anyway I can find out who he is? My cellphone says it's "private caller". Ughhh I mean this guy obviously is someone who knows me..but who?? It's weeirdd

if your really worried about it you need to call the police and they will put a tracer on your phone to trace where the call is coming from.. i'm thinking it's might just be one of your guy friends prank calling you just trying to play a joke.. i get them all the time.. but play it safe and tell the cops hope everythign works out alright

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I am a dancer and i have developed so much muscle. My arms and shoulders are very muscular and every time people see me without a shirt on they go "are you a swimmer?" My thighs are also pretty muscular. Do guys mind this?

they don't care =] don't worry .. only if your like extremely over the limit muscular ;]

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I have a friend who's family is a friend of my family and they lost their dad today. The doctors gave him 2 hours-2 days on Monday. He died this afternoon.


My parents are over at their house right now and they told me to come when they call. That sould be in like an hour or so.


Well, I'm not sure what I should talk to my friend about. Should I talk about her dad or not?

just tell her "im sorry for your loss" sometimes that's all people need to hear to let them know that your hear for them.. hope i helpedd =/

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ive thought about this for awhile...when guys like skaters and hardcore guys wear extremely tight girl pants. what do they do with thier thing? theres no space for it in the pants...
anyone know?

lol your too cute ;] ... i believe that there is still room.. i mean unless they get like an errection that might be a problem.. but it just kinda.. well dangles there lol and the pants don't really effect it ;] hope i helped

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