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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?

ALOT of people are in love with people that are that much or more older then them. Especially my friend Lexy, she is like super super obsessed with Johnny Depp.

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Every time I go to my friend she always jokes with me saying that "Oh here comes lil miss christian girl" and "Oh great your going to preach to us are'nt you." I know she is just playing but I wish I could witness to her without being made fun of.

I am a christian too. Lots of people don't understand what we are saying when we say stuff. They think it is all just a lie and a bunch of non-sense, like a fairy tale. What they don't realize is their life depends on the way they live and what they believe.

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ok...im a 15 year old female and i have a pretty big chest (34 c/d)...everyone calls me a slut cause i have a big chest..i mostly wear sports bras so people dont see exactly how big my chest it, but yesterday was my friends sweet 16, and the dress i wore really showed alot of clevage... all the guys at the party talked about how hott i was and how they wanted to hook up with me...i feel like i cant be myself because of my chest..and the worst thing is... i swim and im in a bathing suit all the time..well my friend told all the guys i was on the school swim team... and my friend came up to me and told me that all of them were gonna be at my next swim meet...is there anything i can do about my chest????HELP

Theres nothing wrong with your chest size. I am only 13, two years younger than you and I am size 38 C/D. If you don't like the size of your cleavage get plastic surgery ((i dont remember the name of this certain plastic surgery)) to remove some or downsize your chest.

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How do you get a new cursor on your column? I have the cursor and links and everything but i don't know where to put the links so the cursor will show up. Also, where do i put the music links? thanks!

Under "Profile Settings" - "More info"

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My friend is a religous Christian, and most of my friends hate him when he goes to into "prophet" mode. Lately they've been extra mean. They threw him out of the group, and swore if any of us talked to him we'd get out of the group. I'm still friends with him, and I talk to him. They havent found out but I'm planning on telling them cause they control my every choice.
But there's one draw back...How can I be friends with him, and like my best friend...(whos a guy)....how can I like a guy who trys to control me?? how can I still be friends with the christian even though I like my best friend?

Someone who tries to control you is not a best friend. Your friend ((the christian)) is just saying what he believes in. Think about it this way say you were that friend and he was you, and you got kicked out of the group for that, and then he was you and he decided not to be your friend, how would you feel if it was you? Like they say put yourself in their shoes and see how you would feel.

XOXO
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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate

Whatever you do DON'T BELIEVE IT!!! I know that seems hard and it is but it doesn't matter what other people think of you, as long as you think good about yourself. But tell them to stop it. You don't want to live down to that repuation. Live up to a good one instead. Do some good deeds or something like that.

XOXO
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how do you change the headings like: ask for advice to something such as: ask me 4 advice!! ??
thanx
~~frenchfries21~~

You have to have a paid account. However my account is an old one it is from July and it is a free account and I am able to. It is under "column settings" - "edit your created styles". Thats pretty much it.

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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

You can only lose your virginity from a penis. By having sex with a guy. It just means that you are BI. ((meaning you like girls and guys)).

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

I dumped my last boyfriend through a note.

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i have a huge zit in between my eyes....is there anything i can do or put on it to make it go away really quick?!?!...like in a day?!?!...thanks so much!!!

Pop it. Or use make-up to cover it.

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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!

Just be like please don't lie to me.

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How do you get over a hangover?

By throwing up alot. Advil. Lots of coffee.

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I wanna get my nose pierced, i haven't asked my mom yet, but when i was 14 she said i could get it done at 15 and im 16 now. so she'll def. say yes. we're not allowed piercings you can see, besides your ears.. but there are a few kids in my school that have their noses pierced, because their like dating the principals sons and stuff, i don't think that should be allowed, its like their getting special treatment or something, right?

Right. They shouldn't be aloud to unless everyone else is aloud to. So if you want to get it done then you should do it. If you get in trouble then be like "But so and so has theirs done".

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

Send it. If every one in the world sent $1.00 or 50 cents there would be enough.

XOXO
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srry to keep asking about the music, but i closed my itunes and everything and it still doesn't work. which code did you use? thanx

I used the first code.

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Hey girlie! totally cute pic! You look so much older than him, like they say girls grow up faster. haha. how pretty do you think you are on a scale of 1-10. 10 being the highest. Just wondering, talk to you later.
XOxo

9 ((my boyfriend put that)) uhh maybe 8.

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i went to www.starlightmks.com and copyed both codes for te music and it won't work. i followed there directions but, it just wont work. how did you get it?

You can't have windows media player or any music player on the computer open.

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this isnt a health question but i didnt know what else to put it under. I got my cartilige peirced back in September and its been 3months so i can change the earing. well the lady told me i couldnt wear hoops for a whole year. why is that? i got hoops for the cartilige for christmas and i really wanna wear them but i dont wanna mess up the peircing.

I wore hoops in mine withing 3-5 months so you are fine go ahead and wear it. Actually the hoops are healthier. Mine got infected with the one that i got it pierced with and I changed my earring to a hoop and it healed.

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hey srry to bug you but omg im retarded! lol. yeah i changed my background for my page a while ago and now i forgot how to change it.. help plz! lol thanx

Column Settings.

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hey i have problems with feeling fat. sometimes i know im not fat but i feel like i need to lose weight when i know that im skinny. its so weird because im like bipolar about it! im 5'6 and weigh about 105. help..

Sweetie you are not fat. Just look at a really fat person then yourself.

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