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Ok everyone, I am a 16/f. I just found out Saturday that a friend of mine that I have known since middle school died. Then Sunday I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me and he is now denying it. Let alone Wednesday being the anniversary of my grampas death.
And I don't know what to do. Its so hard to hold on. I need some advice on what to do.
And on top ok everything my cousin who says shes my bestfriend is trashing my life. What do I do??
Please someone help me!
aww im sorry. you can talk to me if you want but i dont know if itl help! fuck the boyfriend (not literally, like, FUCK YOU more sort of fuck) its not worth it. go to the friends funeral to pay the respect, go put some flowers on your g-pas grave or something, and talk to your cousin about this!! sorry im not much of a help giver but....good luck!
im 13 and think of sicide a lot i have cut my veins already in dec and dont wanna do it again is their someone i can talk to about it so when i need help they will be their my s c r e e n name is bucsbaby6969 on aol instant messanger
im slippingawayx96, sometimes im not happy and we could talk or whatnot. i dont know if itl help but maybe.......okidokie
This is crazy cause I've been cool with this character for some time now. we started off as cool friends, then we realized that we had a lot in common and also thought the same and finished off eachother sentences. After a while, we realized that we both liked eachother alot but decided to stay friends because we both still talked to other people and wasn't really ready for a relationship. even though we agreed all that, he still kept giving me mixed signals, all the time! we went out a couple of times and when we did he would hold my hand and things like that. when we kissed, i felt butterflies in my stomach. i really began to like him because i thought that he was different from all the other guys i talked to. we talked every night on the phone for like 3 hours. everything seemed so right, so i decided to take it to the next level cause i was curious. something happened. everything seemed right. he told me he ain't never felt like how he do for me so fast. well, the next day he didn't call. the following day i called him, he didn't answer. he did return my call like 20 minutes later and it sounded like he was in his car. i was talking to my friend so i told him i'll call back later. i called back and he said he was busy so i said call me back. well, to make a long story short, it seems like he's very different in the past 2 days. my question is, do you think he's acting this was because he's confused, or was he a jerk all along and i was just blind and i should 4get him!? help me please cause i'm so confused!!! i also feel used and betrayed.
hmm, i would just takl to him, and be like whats up man? anything wrong or..are you upset or something. you know..the talking stuff. maybe you should just stop talking to him for a while, and when he finally calls you (because you shouldnt be wasting your time on someones whos doing this to you), so when he calls you ask him what happened and whats going on. just a suggestion though! GOOD LUCK!
I have a long haired domestic black cat. I also have beige carpeting throuout my home. He leaves clipms of hair all over the house and not even vacuming seems to work in pickking it up. I am sick of spending hours on my hands and knees trying to get it off of the floor. Any suggestions?
its a sign of love from him to you!! hehee, hmm, try brushing like alot of other people say. also having a good coat deals with their diet so..always keep fresh water for them which is crucial to their nourishment and nutricion. if the cat is healthy and well-groomed it will be happy and maybe it will shed less. just dont hit it because its not his fault and that makes me sad! ^-^...im a cat person. :) (hope i help)
hey im a good writer and all but im havin trouble writing a poem to my friend. I wrote it out in a paragraph saying
"I've been doing some thinking. This may sound a little akward but I'm sorry I know your right. I guess I haven't been using my head so greatly these past few weeks. I'm happy to finally know I actually have someone who will give me helpful advice and a shoulder to cry on. When I need it. I guess we can thank those summer night chats with out those I guess we really wouldn't have all those memories and inside jokes made.
Thanks for being there for me"
I know if I work for hours I can get it but I can't seem to get it out. Can someone write a poem for me? or should I just leave it as it is and explain that in a paragraph form and not make any changes. I'm not sure what to do... thanks for helping if you do.
(P.S. he writes as well)
hmm, if i were you i would just think of the memories you and him have had together. like say just doing something simple like going to the mall, write something like, "youre always by my side, and most of the time that you are -we're having alot of fun!" just write you know what comes best. i wouldnt take other poeples poems because it didnt come from you but thats just my opinion. you could also take lyrics from a song and put them on there, like "aint no mmmountain high enouuughhh ainttt no riva widee enouigh, aint no...and so on" or something. just appreciate what a good friend he is and write how much he means to you and stuff.
try here for friendship quotes:
http://firehotquotes.bolt.com/friendship/
*good luck!
Happy Valentines Everyone!!
OK...well here is my question...i like this boy ok...and he is my ex but i fell for him again and all of my friends say that he flirts with me every day. I dont know what to think and what does a guy do if he likes someone? thanks a bunch...I RATE HIGH!!
__ME__
hmm, first ask why did you guys break up? and if youre interested in having a relationship have one of your friends talk to him online and casually bring you up in a conversation. have them say: wow you and Gertrude(or w/e ur name is) look like really good friends, you should ask her out Or..do u like her or blah blah you know, just have a smart friend do this. Or you can talk to him. but try to pay attention to him at all times and see what he does, like if he asks you to go places that a couple would go to or whatever, i dont know. im not good on relationships, sorry :\...well, the best of luck to you!
i dunno wats going on with me...i try to do my best in school and i have lots of friends and all and i had good grades but lately my grades been dropping lower and lower and lower...and my parents are like really strict about that...i feel ike everything is just to much for me and i cant take it anymore...its going over my head...i have a bunch more things to deal with and this school thing makes it even harder...my math teacher is gonna send like a progress report to my mom and im gonna be dead!...i dunno wat to do anymore! please help me!
-confused
Okay, heres what i say. concentrate MORE on school now, friends later. friends wont get you a job, well, techniclly they can but, im getting off track. For your grades, make a schedule for the best homework times. make sure you take notes in class and make sure that you know what the teachers are talking about. because you can be studying something for like an hour and have no idea what it is (trust me, i found that out the hard way) . write down what you have for homework in each class and what materials you need. sometimes it could be distracting when the teachers talking about something important and your friends yelling your name or tapping you on the shoulder to come look out the window at a bird on fire or something. for now you should just ignore him/her and focus on the teacher. if you still find yourself confused, go after class, or after school and ask for help. theyre teachers, theyl help you (i hope). if you feel your parents are being too strict talk to them about it. tell them that it feels like what you do isnt good enough, even if its the best you could do. and if youre having problems paying attention in school you could have a.d.d or something, like me. it sucks. as for the math part, i dont ahve much say on this, for i am getting AN F! in it. talk to your mom and/or teacher about what your having trouble on and see if you can come in for extra help. i did once and it helped for a while until we started talking about Y=mx+b y-intercept =slope which is rise_over run, and so on. crap. think of the progress report as GOOD! you will know how you are doing, where youre going, and if youre improving. plus, you can be slowly improving and i hope/think she'l notice that and shel be like yay heres some cookies. okay and for the other things that are going over your head n stuff, if its a boy or girl dump them or something. if its your friends just be like yo dawg i cant play today im grounded so they wont call or bother you or anything. i know it sounds nerdish that i want you to seclude yourself from all living things but its for the best! you should also be happy your mom cares about your grades. my mom never did, and thats why i dont get very good grades.. :\. well this was longish, so good luck in the future. and theres like a homeworkhelp.com or something like that if you need help. Good luck!
I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??
wait, how do u make urself pass out?? how long does it last for? hah sorry for the bad response but, i just need the "4-11, yo." im so cool.
Ok well i have this really really hot boyfriend and his hottness cannot compare to me. And plus it seems he doesnt really want to get in a big relationgship, and he wants to be more of a friend. WHat shood I do?
ooh hes hott? you should be friends with benefits!! lol no, if he doesnt wanna get into a relationship then you guys should just stay friends. im not sure, sorry. lol "hottness". ahh dont ask i think i am on drugs. what the heck is a relationgship??!?!?
What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas!
maybe a hotel party, you know the hotels with the pools and room service, odering movies!! yay i wanna come!! and take lots of pictures, and you can annoy people and play tricks on them!! lol, thats all i could think of sorry! good luck and i hope you have a good party!
i finally got rid of my acne problem but now its like i have small not even like touchable bumbs and it looks like i still have acne what can i do about this?
sometimes its not always acne. theres this thing called roseacea or something, its the same thing as your describing. well im probably not helping so, good luck! happy v-day!
latley ive been feeling like i cant seem to please ne one. Which shouldnt be a problem, but thats in my personality,to please people. I try todo the right things, and make everyone happy, but then im not happy, so i do wat i want every once n a while, and then everyone gets mad.N ive never had to try to get people to care about me, or get guys, people were always just there for me, and i awlays seemed to have a guy, until about a month ago..erg...wat am i doing wrong??
people pleaser. since this isnt working, please yourself! worry abuot yourself more, if you spend your time worrying about other people, noones gonna worry bout you! im not saying that you should hope everybody dies or whatnot, all im saying is to take some time to care about yourself! good luck! happy valentines day!
i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?
maybe try parting then halfway thats what i do cuz im the same way, or try growing them out and getting wispy ones. do a search on styles of bangs on google or something. hope i help!
So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes
im me on slippingawayx96, il try to help find a way to delete it!! or fix it..somehow!
ok well everytime i shave my lower part afterwards it always itches and gets red. is this normal and what do i do so it doesn't do that anymore???
Ahh...razorburn. theres not much you can do about getting rid of that completely, but you can try bikini-touch instead of a razor. theres also bikini zone shavcing cream and after shave stuff to put ion it. okay well heres some things you can try.
*shave with new razor never used
*shaving in the direction of hair growth.
*waxing
*using conditioner instead of shaving cream.
*putting conditioner, special non perfume lotion like cetaphil on after, or dabbing milk on with a cotton ball and wearing boxers
*wear loose clothing after shaving
*get specially formulated shaving cream for razorburn
*put baby oil on when youre done
*donating money to the poor.
Hope i help!!
I have a problem finding jeans that fit me. I am 5'3", and 85 lbs. I have tried many stores, but most of them don't even have any size 0's that fit me. I have to wear juniors b/c my legs are long, but most jeans are too baggy. The only place that I have occasional luck is Kohl's, but most of the time they don't even fit me. Does anyone know a good store for people with skinny, long legs? Or could I get custom made jeans cheaply (i'm guessing not). Please help me, I rate 5's!!!
im 5'9''(about) and 105, i have to go to express. they were around 60 i think 65. but i only have that pair that fit me lol, i hate my shape. well good luck! also try getting pants in long and/or slim.
This is the 4th day of the 4-day flu for me and my respretory is feeling perfectly normal. But throughout the flu I hadn't eaten barely anything. I lost about 5 pounds, but now when I try to eat even the simplest things(bread, crackers) I feel very naucious. Is this normal? How do I get over it? How can I gain that 5 pounds back without eating more then I fell like I can handle?
try eating slowly in smaller portions, carefully making your way back up to how u used to eat. drink lots of water, and make things that you love to eat, i mean like that ur crazy over. pizza bread for me..mm. okay well anywho good luck!
I want to get a doggie this spring! I want a small doggie that I can spend time with. Easy to train, and it likes to play and spend time with me. any ideas?
if you want to get a really smart hyper dog, get a jack russell terrier like me. BUT theyre are EXTREMELY hyper and high strung. they like to chase other animals at times. but tehyre really smart so you can train them. my dogs a years 1/2 and i taught him to sit, stay, down, twirl around, paw, high five, and roll over. everything i taught him to do took less then 10 minutes. except hs sit, he first learned that, awww it was so cute! okay well back to your question, a lot of dogs have different personalities and traits, so try researching them before you get one. for example: you want a dog that is really protectice and will instantly kill anyone who steps foot near you, and you buy a chihuahua and all it does is sleep on a pillow all day and get accidentally stepped on. thats not good, you should know the traits of the dog breed before you buy it. also:::make sure you bring teh puppy out and play with it efore you make the decision. i chose between 2 dogs and i chose the one i have now because the other one was ugly, and i probably shouldve gone with the other one cuz this one wants me dead. and second think if u want a young puppy because youl have to potty train it, and get him to shut the hell up when it cries during the night. hard work man. well, good luck! and purebread good dogs are always the most expensive. mine was 600$. if u want to enter it in shows dont get it fixed
okay, my mom has been going to NY with her boyfriend like every 2 weeks for a month and half..and other times before it. whenever this happens..she says i should watch my brother and sometimes she would sleepover in the city and then it is required that i stay home and watch him. Well, i am getting annoyed with this becuase i want to hang out with my friends..but i can't just tell her to stop gong out, she has a right to also, but i am 16 and i have the right to go out too..How do i talk to her about this and what do I say? PLus..whenver i do get to go out if she is in the city, my friends have to give me rides and they are getting annoyed.
try to figure out a schedule. like, for every day you watch little billy, you get a friends-can-come-over-night or something. tell her what you say, you both deserve a right to do what you want. but you also should try to help her, its bad enough her boyfriend has to live in NY. Plus, for all the nights that you dont watch him, who does? give her a hand and maybe shel give you one back. or something like that. good luck!
My parents are divorced.. my mom's boyfriend proposed to her a few months ago and ever since then they have been having major problems. They never get along, and they're having a lot of money problems too. It's like one day they're all lovey-dovey and flirting and everything, and the next day they're not speaking to eachother. My mom keeps saying that she doesn't know if she wants2 spend the rest of her life with him or not. But i really want them to get married. Is there anything I can do to help them out? I've already suggested couple's therapy but he doesn;t wanna go. Any more suggestions? My mom is always depressed, and its making me depressed and it;s really hard to live like this. plz help!!
sit down and have a talk with both of them. since couples therapy is out of the question, you (secretly) can be like a therapist, and theyl just think its you trying to help them. try to find out the core of their problems and try to figure out ways to deal with them. discuss healthy ways to dissapate anger. tell them how happy they should be to have each other, and how happy you guys could be as a family. but make sure marraige wont be a mistake, because if they dont want to and they do it for you, it wont be very loving, you know? just talk with them and tell them how you feel, making a little tear, or two will make them go "oh honey" or whatever, good luck.