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same ol same ol
latley ive been feeling like i cant seem to please ne one. Which shouldnt be a problem, but thats in my personality,to please people. I try todo the right things, and make everyone happy, but then im not happy, so i do wat i want every once n a while, and then everyone gets mad.N ive never had to try to get people to care about me, or get guys, people were always just there for me, and i awlays seemed to have a guy, until about a month ago..erg...wat am i doing wrong??
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You're probably not doing anything wrong here. They're probably just use to you doing things for them and when you do something for yourself it just shocks them, and they dislike it, but if they keep getting mad then remind them that you are always doing things for them, and if they're still ungreatful, then I say stop doing things for them. If they don't learn to appreciate your doing, then you should stop until they realize you're a person too!
-TheTeenGirl
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Only care about yourself, who cares what they think about you.
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ya i do that too...but i think u should follow your heart...u should like your self and be there for your self too...people should like you for who you are and not get mad at you for just doing something for yourself...
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I'm the same way! I always keep my grades up and behave myself and in general, I do things to please people. But you can't just hide who you are to make other people happy. Follow your own heart. People may not always like you for it, but I'd rather like myself than be liked by everyone else. I'm around me 24/7. They aren't! I hope I helped you! Please rate; I'm new!
*-*Teen Angel*-*
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people pleaser. since this isnt working, please yourself! worry abuot yourself more, if you spend your time worrying about other people, noones gonna worry bout you! im not saying that you should hope everybody dies or whatnot, all im saying is to take some time to care about yourself! good luck! happy valentines day!
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Doing everything for everyone else is wrong. The reason your not happy is because your spending so much time doing stuff for people, you never have the time to do things for yourself, and make YOU happy. Take a break, relax...have some you time...do something fun..trust me, thats the only way you'll be happy. Because your stressing yourself out by trying to get people to like you.
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