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Should I 4get him?
This is crazy cause I've been cool with this character for some time now. we started off as cool friends, then we realized that we had a lot in common and also thought the same and finished off eachother sentences. After a while, we realized that we both liked eachother alot but decided to stay friends because we both still talked to other people and wasn't really ready for a relationship. even though we agreed all that, he still kept giving me mixed signals, all the time! we went out a couple of times and when we did he would hold my hand and things like that. when we kissed, i felt butterflies in my stomach. i really began to like him because i thought that he was different from all the other guys i talked to. we talked every night on the phone for like 3 hours. everything seemed so right, so i decided to take it to the next level cause i was curious. something happened. everything seemed right. he told me he ain't never felt like how he do for me so fast. well, the next day he didn't call. the following day i called him, he didn't answer. he did return my call like 20 minutes later and it sounded like he was in his car. i was talking to my friend so i told him i'll call back later. i called back and he said he was busy so i said call me back. well, to make a long story short, it seems like he's very different in the past 2 days. my question is, do you think he's acting this was because he's confused, or was he a jerk all along and i was just blind and i should 4get him!? help me please cause i'm so confused!!! i also feel used and betrayed.
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hmm, i would just takl to him, and be like whats up man? anything wrong or..are you upset or something. you know..the talking stuff. maybe you should just stop talking to him for a while, and when he finally calls you (because you shouldnt be wasting your time on someones whos doing this to you), so when he calls you ask him what happened and whats going on. just a suggestion though! GOOD LUCK!
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There really is no way for you to know for sure what he is feeling unless you talk to him. If he is unhappy with the new change in your relationship and/or with what happened between you two he could be scared of sharing that with you and is trying to avoid you to avoid the situation. Or, he could just be really busy with life. Don't drag this out. Tell him that you need to talk to him, that it is very important that the two of you sit down, face to face, and talk. Ask him what is going on. If you have spent a lot of time with him you will know if he is being honest or not. Listen to him then make your decision. If he played you, walk away from him and forget the relationship. If he didn't talk to him about where to go from here.
Don't make any decision until you have talked to him and heard what was going on. Give him a chance to defend himself. If he used you, he is slime and doesn't warrent any more attention from you. If he didn't, see if a relationship is possible.
Best Wishes!
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your, in short, dumb. You take things way too drastically and need to lighten up.
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maybe when you decided to take it to the next level maybe he wasn't fully ready, if you think that is not that problem and he keeps acting like he is now, you should forget him and move on with your life.
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