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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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Yeah this is the usal weight question.
But hear me through this
Over the summer last summer, i weighed 102 lbs and i was 12 years old.
Im 13 now and now i weigh 113.
I dont like the fact i have gained 11 lbs over a year.
What can i do to loose around 3 pounds, for summer and stuff.
Like eating whise.
I Eat alot, and im not sure how to slim it down.
pleasee give advice
that happened to me when i was around your age.
that probably means that you got your period this year.. or youre going to be getting it very soon. just try exercising more and eating lots of fruits and vegetables. try to drink lots of water. dont drink any pop.
Okay so I'm 13/f and I haven't gotten my period yet. My mom said she got hers when she was 13 too so she thinks I should get it soon. I've been getting a few pimples but not many like one or two.
Can anyone estimate the time I'll be getting it?
...yeah. I'm afraid I'll get it during school and it'll go through my pants and grrrr. D:
you should probably get it around the time your mom did. i wouldnt worry that much about getting it at school because the first time you get it.. its usually a really really light flow like maybe a few little dots of blood. but it definetly wont go through your pants or anything.
whats a really good foundation? that stays on for a long time? i had clinique.. but i didn't like it. what other kinds are there?
i really like bare minerals.
its loose powder and it makes your skin look REALLY good. and its all natural so it wont make you break out if you sleep with it on.
Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??
yes most girls do like it and think about it a lot. but most girls wont admit to that because they are worried about their reputations. for guys it is socially acceptable for them to think about sex like 24/7.
13/f
in my grade im like in the middle in popularity. this year i started becoming really close friends with a girl in a popular group. her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party with her and just her group. there are 6 of them and including her, i'm friends/aquaintances with 4 of them. she said she would understand because it would be awkward. i'm not sure if i want to go. should i go and risk it being awkward? and what are some ways to make it less awkward and uncomfortable for me?
help is appreciated!!
you should go!!
if youre close friends with her then hang out with her a lot and talk to the other 4 girls a lot. this is a good chance to make new friends!!
The usual weight question..I know but this is very important...
I HAVE 1 MONTH!!!!!!
...to lose weight. Im talking 20 pounds..Im very determined and will anything to get to that goal.Theres going to be a very special occasion..therefore this is important. Anyway, right now i eat healthy and not past 7:00 pm. I eat small amounts but still fill my self up. I then ran on the treadmill for 10 min everyday then do about 100 crunches. I know thats not enough but the Treadmill gets broing after a while. I heard skipping is more effective so im going to do that instead. Do you think i should stop the treadmill entirly? Im not shure how to reach my goal in that little time. Also, are there any good exercise videos i could just download off the internet and put it on a dvd? That would be much funner and effective.
...im in desperate need...Please, any help is apreciated.
(14/f)
maybe you should try to run on the treadmill and watch tv at the same time? that way you wont get bored. or you could try jogging around your neighborhood and listening to music or something to help keep you occupied.
running is really good and it works your entire body so i wouldnt stop doing that.
is it absolutely necessary to give my boyfriend head before we can have sex? i just hate the whole idea of it and really would rather skip it.. we've done everything else, but does anyone have any experience with just skipping that? or do i just have to suck it up? (i feel like once i do it, then im required to do it again)
any opinions would be nice
if you really dont want to.. then no you dont have to. its not necessary. just tell him you dont want to. if hes not okay with that then hes not a very good boyfriend.
Why doesnt my friend hug me back? or/and why doesnt she hug me? i remember in high school we all gave each other hello and goodbye hugs, we dont do it any more. i only do it when someone leaves far away on a trip and when they gave me a gift. but my friend victoria hugs me when we gave each other giftsof a thank you hug but Jane doesnt. i hug her for giving me a gift but she doesnt do it back, and when i give her a gift for her brithday she didnt hug me thank you like she use to in high school. does she hate me? or what?
i doubt she hates you. some girls just arent as clingy/touchy as others. maybe she feels weird giving you hugs.
im 14, neerly 15 nad a girl and was jst wanting to ask if i am a slut. coz a few gurls in my school keep callin my that, and a few boys. well a few months ago i had my first experiance with sex. i was at a boys house with two of his mates and we started messing around, and i gave my first blowjobs to them. and cuple of weeks later i had sex with one of them and now were going out as a cuple, but still hanging out with his mates. some of d gurls in ma school hav had sex too but they r callin me a slut, n ma bf ses it sumtyms when im going down on him. i dont get it coz ppl dont call those girls sluts. am i really a slut?
im guessing that theyre calling you a slut because you gave bjs to 3 different guys all in a row. you werent going out with any of them at the time or anything. if you had just done it to one guy they probably wouldnt be calling you that.
now that youre actually going out with one of the guys.. that makes it more socially acceptable to have sex with him.
so dont worry about what anyone says and just be comfortable with who you are.
and next time--- dont do anything you dont want everyone to find out about.
whats the difference between a blowjob and a handjob?
and do you think that 13 is to young to give either?
thanks
well a bj is using your mouth
and a hj is using your hands
i would say that yes, 13 is too young to give either.. especially since you didnt even know the difference between the two. no offense or anything. i was 14 when i gave my first hj but i was in a really long relationship.
i would wait until youre in a relationship where you really like and trust the guy. and if youre gonna give a guy a bj make sure he wears a condom because you dont know what kind of diseases/STDs he might have.
if you have dry sex, are you still considered a virgin?
yes you are.
My boyfriend always wants to talk to me but he never calls me he just likes to text and talk on AIM. At first I just thought he was scared but he always does it, and I've nagged him before and I call him but he never answers I don't want to keep nagging, but I don't like wasting my texts when I could just be on the phone!
well thats kinda how it was for me with my ex boyfriend. he always wanted to talk to me on the phone and i didnt want to. i realize now thats because i wasnt as comfortable with him as i should have been and i was nervous to talk to him in case we like didnt have anything to talk about. try calling him. make him feel comfortable like he can talk to you about anything and you wont make fun of him about it.
i want to start using make-up.
well, more make-up, 'cause i already use black eyeliner to line the bottom of my eye.
you can see what i look like here: http://www.myspace.com/dixiencoco
[feel free to add me if you have one yourself]
anyway, in some of those pictures i'm wearing eyeliner, and in others i'm not.
[mostly the older/first ones have me make-up free]
i do have glasses and i'd like to [for now] stay away from things that would make my nose or wear my glasses sit oily, because its hot in florida at school and i tend to sweat a bit making my glasses slide down a bit much.
and um, anything else i'll add later.
'kaythanks.
maybe you should try getting contacts
also, wear some eyeshadow.. mascara.. maybe some bronzer... a light shade of lipgloss
Yesterday i went to a party and i met a girl ahe gave me her number but the problem is i dont know how to talk to a girl over the phone please someone help me?
awww thats so cute!
just call her and talk to her how you would talk to one of your friends i guess.. but try to flirt with her a little.. make fun of her in a joking way.. compliment her..
i was thinking about getting my lower area pierced i was wondering if your clit is the flabby part in between the lips? And if any one has it and if it hurts or not. And if after its done anything could go wrong like maybe an infection. And if you can go to the gyno with it? -- Thanks
honestly, if you dont even know what your clit is... then i really wouldnt suggest getting it pieced. thats kinda gross anyways. a lot of guys dont like that. fyi. in case that was the reason that you wanted to get it done. try a belly button piercing instead.
yes it can get infected. yes you can go to the gyno with it. i dont have one.. but it probably hurts around as much as it hurts to get your ears/bellybutton pierced because it is the same type of skin.
What exactly is considered oral sex? Blow jobs, and eating out? Is titty sucking considered oral sex?
blow jobs and eating out are considered oral sex
Do some guys get emotionally attached after having sex for the first time? Or any time? Like, do they feel any different towards the person?
I don't mean like clingy (but if they do, then okay) but I mean, would they love you more or something? Like would they feel any different?
I heard that for guys, sex is just sex, but for girls it's like a connection.. But it sounds like just a stereotype. So, if you're a guy, did you feel different in any way? Like, in your heart or towards the person? Or was it just like, anything?
it really depends on the guy.
if hes the emotional type of guy or if hes sensitive like that. for some guys, sex is just sex. but for others it is like a connection. sometimes they love you more.. sometimes they love you less. it really all depends on the guy.
Where can I find pics like this:
http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p265/candikissesxo9/cutee.jpg
Xanga sites, myspaces sites, photobuckets, I dunno ANYTHING is good!
go to xanga
go to blogrings
and type in pictures
in my lang. arts class we have to choose a poem that we;re going to recite on the last few days of school. and i cant seem to choose a good one. can someone help me? with links?
fyi. it has to be 20 lines. and HAS to be published. cant be off someones xanga or other personal site.
thanks.
I think this ones good...
Yesterday
By Erin Gerrits
When boys meant "yuck"
and friends were new
dreams were unshattered
and worries few
When recess was too short
and life too long
decisions came easy
without the need to belong
When storks delivered babies
and passions werent so strong
friendships were unbroken
right was right, wrong was wrong
When bad things didnt happen
and only skinned knees brought tears
and the nighlight in its socket
quieted all of our fears
When farewell meant just for summer
and real friends didnt part
and fun went on forever
and never left a broken heart.
hi, what is the average penis size for a 14 year old?
youre still growing so its hard to tell..
there really is no "average" size
just be happy with what you have
because im sure any girl would appreciate it