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Do some guys..?
Do some guys get emotionally attached after having sex for the first time? Or any time? Like, do they feel any different towards the person?
I don't mean like clingy (but if they do, then okay) but I mean, would they love you more or something? Like would they feel any different?
I heard that for guys, sex is just sex, but for girls it's like a connection.. But it sounds like just a stereotype. So, if you're a guy, did you feel different in any way? Like, in your heart or towards the person? Or was it just like, anything?
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it really depends on the guy.
if hes the emotional type of guy or if hes sensitive like that. for some guys, sex is just sex. but for others it is like a connection. sometimes they love you more.. sometimes they love you less. it really all depends on the guy.
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Talking from experience I think it works both ways for both sexes. Some girls and guys are only after sex whereas others may want to wait for that special person (this was the same in my case which is why I remained a virgin for so long).
It can happen though where someone may have gone out with the intention of just a one night stand but they form a bond. I wouldn't say it's love though - love is all too often confused with lust. It can be hard to determine the difference sometimes but after a session of sex with someone I fail to see how that would make one or the other fall in love with who they are with. Love needs time to develop as well as understanding and knowing the other person. For example, falling in love with someone because they look hot or they have huge big breasts... this is not love, this is lust. I have always made it a rule to never have sex with anyone unless there are some feelings there. I don't go for one nighters and find them a pointless.
Also, the thing that you said about would they love you more. If a guy told his gf they should sleep together because it would make him love her more - to me that would be a guy that's doing nothing but using mind tactics against the girl just to get her into bed. :| I find any guy who uses a line like that to be nothing more than scum. :]
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if the guy likes the sex, he will want more sex, it probably wont change how he feels emotionally,If sex is used to try to keep a boy, when the newness of sex wears off(and it always does) then he will revert to his previous emotional state, which if it was indiifferent or not serious tends to hurt the girl who usually gets emotionally attached with repeated sexual encounters.
the boy will totally fake emotional attachment for more sex.
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Yes, some guys can get emotionally attached to the girl and it could make him like the girl more. Some guys don't feel anything at all because that's all they wanted but they could also lose respect for the girl. Some girls seem to think that if they sleep with a guy that he will like them more. That isn't the case. A guy should like YOU for you, not for the sex and sex shouldn't change the way a person feels.
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