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bj/hj


Question Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 6:56 am

whats the difference between a blowjob and a handjob?
and do you think that 13 is to young to give either?

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KaladaLeigh answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 4:01 pm:
13 is way too young
so is 14 and 15


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Bucket answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 3:21 pm:
A blowjob is where you use your mouth to get a guy to orgasm. A handjob is using your hands to bring him to orgasm. Same goal, different methods.

Yes, I think 13 is too young. You can get diseases from performing sex acts, and if you do one thing with a guy, you'll be more likely to do other things with him too -- risking more STDs and pregnancy, not to mention ruining your reputation. Please wait a while.

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 1:26 pm:
well a bj is using your mouth
and a hj is using your hands

i would say that yes, 13 is too young to give either.. especially since you didnt even know the difference between the two. no offense or anything. i was 14 when i gave my first hj but i was in a really long relationship.

i would wait until youre in a relationship where you really like and trust the guy. and if youre gonna give a guy a bj make sure he wears a condom because you dont know what kind of diseases/STDs he might have.

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thelaura answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 10:39 am:
bj = using your mouth
hj = using your hands
In my opinion, yes. 13 is too young. Lets face it, there aren't many 13 year olds who are clued up about sex are there? Sure, it all might seem like a lot of fun but the risks are too great. I'm talking about pregnancy and STI's - what most teens don't seem to worry about these days.
Most young teens that get intimate at a young age later regret what they've done. Eg) If word gets out around the school, they'll be labelled "slut" etc and could be given a reputation.. Or they wish they would have waited to do it with the right person when they get a little older.. Or they may feel used straight after doing the deed. The list is pretty endless.
There's alot to think about, not just physically, but emotionally too.

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katie_babey answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 10:23 am:
The difference between a bj and a hj is a bj is when you suck on a guys penis you basically use our mouth. A hj is when you use your hand and rub a guys penis its basically how a guy masturbates but your doing it for him. I think that 13 is too young to be doing that kind of stuff. 14/15 i think isnt a bad age to be doing that kind of stuff. But if you feel tha your ready to do sexual things like that then go for it. But if you have doubts about anything then i wouldnt try to do anything right now. Im 15 and i havent even done anything yet so its really up to you and how you feel about doing that kind of stuff. Ok well i hope i helped out and if you have anymore questions you can write me in my inbox!
-katelyn

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solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 10:17 am:
The first one is oral sex and the second is where you stimulate the other person's genitals. I think 13 is young in both cases but it's not really about age it's all about whether you both are mature enough to handle it.

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Xenolan answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 10:17 am:
With a blowjob, one uses the mouth.

A handjob, as the name says, is done only with the hand.

And yes, 13 is too young to do either of these things. For proof, look over this website and see all the 13 or 14-year-olds who are now panicked about their reputation since they did it. Boys in your age group are not known for being able to keep secrets of that nature.

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