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I heard a song but i dont know what its called!
please help me out?!
some of the lyrics are "and the sun was shining" and "shes the prettiest girl georgias ever seen" and "who wouldnt want to be me!"
anyone recognize it???? im pretty sure its a country song.
thanks for any help!

The song is called 'Who Wouldn't Want To Be Me' and it's by Keith Urban.

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what does it mean when a guy says "i would give it to you good"?

It usually means if you were to have sex with him, he'd give you really great sex.

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theres this song that goes "shake your body like a bellydancer." it was really popular. i looked up bellydancer, like a bellydancer, and shake your body on itunes but it wasnt this. anyway, have the title, artist, or album. anything will help...

The song is called 'Bananza' and it's by Akon.

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my boyfriend and i had a fight last night- i was mad at him and this morning i got a text asking: is this it? is this over? wat should i say? i dunno if he wants to im so confuzed plz help!

Since he texted messaged you asking if it was over and if this was it, he's probably just scared and worried that you're going to break up with him. If he did want to break up with you, he would have told you and he for sure wouldn't be writing you a text message like that if he didn't want to be with you anymore. It sounds like he is just worried. I think you should just talk to him about this and explain your thoughts on it. Explain to him that he means a lot to you and you don't want to break up with him over a silly fight and you DO still want to be with him, than take the converstation from there.

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I was wondering what peoples opinions are on telling a guy you like him. If you like a guy that you're fairly close to, do you tell him or not?

I'd probably end up telling him how I was feeling about him. I wouldn't be able not to. I mean, what if this guy was the one for you? You'd not say anything just because you're scared of the out come? I'd totally go for it. I wouldn't want to pass up a guy, when he could be the perfect guy for me; the one I'd spend the rest of my life with. You got to at least give it a try, it could turn into something really special.

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hey, i love your advice and your very pretty!! i was wondering, how many songs can you put on an ipod nano? which type of ipod do you think is the best, and which holds the most songs? thanks in advance♥

Hello. Thank you very much, hun. :]


You can hold 500 songs on your Ipod Nano, give or take a few, depending on how long your songs are. I think the best Ipod is the Ipod 30GB model. It holds up to 20000 songs. As for which one holds the most songs, I believe the Ipod 30GB model holds the most songs.

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what is the name of weird al's version of sexy bqck by justin timberlake?
p.s. i dont need lyrics just the name of the song
thanks

It's called 'Hairy Back.'

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i was juss wondering. can ou sleep with tampons in?

Yes, you can. Just make sure you change your tampon right before you go to bed and change it again when you wake up in the morning.

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how can i get over my boyfriend "verbally" cheating on me
he told another girl he loved her but they never hung out
or hooked up .. i ALWAYS think about and i cant get it out
of my head PLEASE HELP ME

Did he say he loved her as a friend, or something more? Because sometimes friends tell one another they love eachother, but they only mean it in a friendly way. If he meant it in a friendly way, just forget about it because he probably didn't mean to hurt you. Talk to him about it and explain to him how you're feeling. If he said it and didn't mean it in a friendly way, I suggest forgetting about him. Someone that tells someone they love them while they have a girlfriend can't be trusted. If he's SAYING these things behind your back, what could he be DOING behind your back? I'm sure you're an amazing person and you deserve so much better than this jerk. Forget about him and move on. There's so many other nice guys out there, you just have to keep searching.

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I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?



18, Female

There's nothing wrong with YOU. A lot of people think when they don't have a boyfriend, or haven't had their first kiss yet that there is something wrong with them. And sweetie, that is not the case at all. I'm sure you're a wonderful and beautiful girl, inside and out. Sometimes it just takes longer for some people to get their first boyfriend/first kiss. It has nothing to do with you. It's just how everything is planned out.


Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend/first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 16, 8un. You have tons of time for boyfriends, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.

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can someone please tell me the name of this song and/or who is sings it?

your everything i want
your everyhting i need
your everything inside of me that
i wish i could beyou say all the right things at exaclty the right time ..

please help if you can, sorry it's a kind of old song

It's called 'Eveything You Want' and it's by Vertical Horizon; such a cute song!

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Happy 19th birthday krissy =]] ♥ ♥

Thank you, hun! ♥ :]

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just stopping by to wish you a very happy birthday!
i hope you have a good one
you deserve it.

Thank you, hun! ♥ :]

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There is a Taking back Sunday song that i wanna know what it is...
Here are some of the lyrics...

the truth is that you could slit my throat and with my last gasping breath id apologize for bleeding on your shirt

It's called 'You're So Last Summer.'

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This question needs some explanation, i hope it's ok... I really like a guy in my class, and a week ago we had a class trip to another country, my crush couldn't go, but his best friend did (we sort of dated at the beginning of the year). One night we were in a party at one of my friend's hotel room, and we got a little drunk, and we get along pretty well, so we started making out. You see the problem is that he has a girlfriend, but i know things are a little distant between them. So two days after we made out, he sent me a text message that said, you make me nervous, you keep me awake, you make me sigh... i dunno if he broke up with his gf, but i think we're both a little confussed about what happened...what should I do?? What about my crush...I dunno how to treat him either... Please help!!!

Do you still like your crush, or are you leading more towards the guy you made out with? If you are, I suggest just being friendly with your crush since you don't want to give him mixed signals. If your thinking that this other guy broke up with his girlfriend, ask him. Explain to him that you have feelings for him and you realize he does have a girlfriend, but you want to start a relationship with him, (if that's what you want.) If you're confused about this just make a pros' and cons' about the two boys. Whoever has more pros' should be the guy you go for, since you like more about him.

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i have a guy friend who wants me to dye his hair for him. i just don't know is it ok to just use one of those boxes that are like meant for girls? or are there specific dyes that you are supposed to use for guys hair? thanks!

It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, the dye is going to go on their hair just the same. My boyfriend dyes his hair with girl dye and his hair comes out good.

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Where do people get that Pink and yellow Fall Out Boy tee-shirt that says "Break Dance, Not Hearts". Thanks a lot :)

I know you're able to get them at Music Dick. However, I'm not sure if you have that store where you live or not. I'm sure any music store would have them or at least they should.

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13/f. is it totally weird i get "urges" a lot. i'm only 13 but i always feel kinda "sexual". like, this might weird but i have this little stress ball and sometimes i use it as a sex toy. is this really bad? i'm gonna wait till i get married of course. but sometimes i feel bad cause i do that, or think about sex. i need some advice guys! thanks!

A lot of people are doing what you're doing. You aren't a bad person because you do this. Everyone goes through this stage where they experiment with stuff, such as masturbating and thinking about sex all the time. That's what happens when your hormones are going out of control. But you have nothing to worry about. This is completely normal and healthy.

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ok, you see i went out with one of my best friends and things just werent going the way i wanted them to, so i dumped him. Now i regret that even though it was like 6 months ago and ive gone out with other guys. Me and my ex are still friends and i kinda know that he still likes me but im wondering should i ask him out?? Im like just so confused on what to do.

I think you should ask him out. You said he still has feelings for you and you still have feelings for him, so what do you have to loose? Honestly nothing. Of course he's going to say yes if he has feelings for you. So, just ask him out and tell him how you feel about him. Explain that over the last 6 months you were still crushing on him and you can't get him out of your mind. Tell him that if you guys do start a relationship again, that you want this relationship to be much better than the last. You want your relationship to last because you think he's amazing guy. So go for it and ask him out.

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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to)

I agree with you. Being on the bottom your first time is the right position. It's might be weird and uncomfortable being on top, especially if its your first time. Since you're comfortable with your boyfriend, just explain this to him. Tell him that you won't be comfortable with being on top. You'd like it much more if you were on the bottom. I'm sure if you explain to him how you're feeling, he'll understand and will go on top. You just have to talk to him about this.

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