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My parents just told me they might be getting a divorce. I'm devistated. If they got a divorce, nothing would ever be the same again. Help!

I know so many ppl who parents are divorce..eeh...I know how you feel...when I was around 6 and 7..my parents were seprated (not divorce but seprated)..and it was a bit hell for me..but I still got to see my dad on the weekends..so yeah, although it wasnt really the same but atleast he didnt moved to a different state..at the time only 10 mins away..and on the other hand..before I was born...my mom married someone else..and then got divorced..so the way I see it..my mom and my sister's dad are still friends and all..and he is over here almost day..takin my sister to work and takin her to the doctor and etc..I mean he still does his part of being both of my sister's father..the only thing that changed is that he doesnt live here..but almost everything is the same..and all..he still comes over, on holidays and all..he isnt like my friends dad who moved to a totally different state and all.. try talkin to your parents..if they havent seprated..try askin them to be seprated or whatever so there still married and all..and see what happens..(I know its a bit confusin sry..) - hope I helped

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hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!

depends on the age

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Ok lets see.I have a seven year old sister and a 4 year old brother and they are way out of control!I know kids are wild and everything but these two are beyond wild!They destroy everything and do whatever they want and i mean anything and have completely ruined my life and has turned my mom almost nuts.Shes not the same as she use to be and its been bugging me alot more lately.And im 8 months pregnant and i dont want her around these two kids acting the way they do and everytime i try and talk to my mom about it she gets mad at me and flips out.And no matter how much she yells at them or punishs them they still dont listen and just keep on doing the same shit.Its gotten out of control to where i dont know what to do anymore!Help!! :-(

talk to your sibs about how they act...try promisin them that every week there good you'll take them out somewhere or do something with them..and if they dont behave dont give them anything or do anything with them - hope I helped

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Hey! I was just wondering if there is anything that I can do on my trampoline (Jump King 14') to maybe loose weight, lol or like to increase my verticle jump maybe? or anything that has to do with fitness on it? thanks!

run around the edge of the trampoline (not the edge edge but you know what i mean)..or run in place on it and do jumping jacks...idk lol -hope I helped

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wut can you do to make your butt bigger..im 13 and i want to make my but bigger im 100 pounds and i got a nice butt, but it can be bigger..plz help..i rate..and i dont want andy bullshit about how i dont need it to be bigger i'll just give u a 0!..haha

i rate!

just do squats..but y do you want a bigger ass anywayz..?? ur only 13...ur still young

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

"oral" sex...using your mouth..aka oral sex is giving head to a guy, and a guy eating u out. if ur not clear on what that stuff is either drop one in my inbox..and ill explain that in other words -hope I helped

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hey im 13/f, and i really want to get a second hole in my ear. My dad told me he would convince mi mom i could after mi bat mitzvah, but he didnt. mi mom said it would be mutilating my body(even tho i already hav 1st holes). what should i do? i mean, im a "teenager" and i feel i have the right to get my ears pierced(again). please help! what should i do? signed,
::need.help::

well one..everyone has ONE hole..so thats normal to have 1 in each ear..your 13..you dont have the "right" to pierced anything with out a parent..inless your 18..my mom said the same thing im just a year older then you and I just got my 1st hole re-done (as of let them close up and get them re-done in the same spot)..my mom doesnt like have both my sisters have 3 holes in each ear..it just sicken's her..and she also doesnt like 1 of my sister havin her belly button pierced..so sry to say..but thats just life hun..try mayb askin her to just get another hole right above the one on your left ear..- hope I helped

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which works better to lose weight
yoga
pilates
aerobics
running


thanks!!

running!! "Run like the wind!!" lol

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Hey LostAngel. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:

I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.

wow..thats a tuff one..but I have to say..I would do the same thing if I was you..and not talk to the jerk...I say..maybe not talk to him..but atleast let him talk and you just listen and see what he has to say..if he promises he'll change then give him another chance, but tell him you'll hurt him if you catch him cheating..if you catch him cheating again then just kick his ass for what he did and tell him its over for good..on the side of forgetting about him...its kind of hard for me to forget about guys and all..but the best thing is to do..is to hang out with friends who care about and also love you..or be around family or join a sport..just please dont seat around the house on the couch all day in your pajamas watchin sad depressing movies all day..it will just make you feel worse...-hope I helped
-Tell me what happens between you 2 and all keep me updated- and -good luck too-

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i have acne...more then most of my friends...but not ALOT of acne...i want to try proactive but im not sure if i have bad enough acne...is there any other tricks to ged rid of them fast and make your face look clear and smooth?
(i get it around my nose and on my chin every once in a while)
Thanks for the help!!!

i have it as well..and so do some of my friends..like about 6 or 7 of them or w.e anywayz..try washin your face like 3 to 4 times a day...(when you get up in the morning..when you come home from school..after dinner....then right before you go to bed...) and same for the weekends..it really clears up fast if you do it 3 to 4 times a day..on really hot days I do 5 or 6..lol - hope I helped

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Whts ur cherry and where is it?

Its your hymen and it's about 7 inches up in you..once you pop it durin sex you arent a virgin anymore..(you'll bleed if you pop it..) - hope I helped

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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year?

dont pay attention to then and also dont listen to them..it will just make matters worse..act like they're not there..and if they do this..is probably means they like you or they're just jackasses! - hope I helped

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To everyone that has answered my question I would like to say thank you and I now have my own column thanks again.

hello...uh..um i dont know if i answered ur questions bc it doesnt say who lists the questions..but if so...ur welcome!!! whats ur advicnators name thingy...ill check it out 4 ya.. :-)

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Hey. Well I've just completed my first week of school and happy to know that I have 6 new friends. Well making new friends has always been a big issue because I don't seem to make them a lot. I want to many friends, so can you please tell me how to get more friends. I usually wait for the people to come to me but I want that to change. I want to have the bravery to walk up to someone and start a conversation and become friends with that person and do the same with many more people. I just wanna be able to have a lot of friends, so could you please help me into getting many more friends. I would really appreciate it if you answered my question. Thanx!

the count of friends you have doesnt matter..it may seem to you..that you should have half of the school of friends or half of the half of the school your friends..but you only really need is 20 close friends who are always there and all no matter what..
I know it sounds a bit confusin but its true -hope I helped

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my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs i have one and she doesnt even let me hardly so its ruining our relationship all becuz i did this thing with him that she found out so she thinks he pressurs me. he does not..it was my decision. then she tells me how i am out of control and "going down the wrong road" i cant take it!! my life is scrrwed up enough and i am suffering thru depresiion she just makes it all harder. i cant take it its my life i want to do what i want and she holds me back on anything. wheneevr i talk i seem to get in trouble so i keep my mouth shut and my whole family cant stand it. all they do is yell at me, i think im gonna run away.

1st off I hate it when ppl on this site say something along the line as "my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs"...well I got news for ya hun..im 14 and im not allowed to have a bf or date till im 16..so how the hell do you think I feel when ppl say sumthin like "my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs" it just pisses me off..and till your 18 you have to listen to your mother..she knows whats right and whats wrong...when you become 18 you can move out and do whatever you want..at 18 you have freedom for whatever to do..example if you wanna have sex with every guy you meet and screw your life then fine then go screw up your life..and what im about to say you may not like but at 14 and for the next 4 years your in the hands of your mother and you have to listen to her and all..and when you say "my life is scrrwed up enough and i am suffering thru depresiion she just makes it all harder." what do you mean your suffering threw depression? I know more ppl who are going threw a harder time then when you stated right there..I know for a fact with out having to know why your "suffering threw depression" - hope I helped

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hey...ok im gona be a freshmen in hs. and ive played soccer ALL of my life. and im having a hard time deciding wherther or not i wanna play for my hs team. i mean soccers ok. im good at it and everything but its just getting old...and lyk i went to tryouts this past week and lyk all the freshmen kno eachother and i dont kno ANYONE and i feel soo stupid...and lyk the other thing ive been wanting to cheerlead all of my life. and i have all the abilities to do cheerleading cept im not flexible. and im short and i weigh 85 pounds so i think if by a chance i did make the cheerleading team i think i would def. be a flyer. and if i would have to choose between cheerleading and soccer i would definitly choose cheerleading. but im so much better at soccer. so my ? is...if i did try out for cheerleading do u think i would make the jv squad? and do you thnik i should still play soccer.? help!!

cant you do both??..i know some girls are on cheerleading and a sport at my school..

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what are some good deoderents that dont leave white marks on ur clothes ANND work well to stop sweating???
thanks, Manda

secret platinum, degree, dove..look for anything that says "Drys clear, No White Marks"..Everytime I use the gel ones..I heard the gel ones seems not to work oh so great, some people say their under arms still feel sweating and all..idk I never really used the gel ones before -hope I helped

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look theres this guy at my school and he goes to my church. well i like him a lot and no lie i think of him 24/7 i really like him he's one of my friends and hes really sweet but he doesnt like me. he likes his ex. i know yall cant help me with love well maybe not this question/ prblem. but i know he's the one and i dont know what to do.

ha..oops...idk...I seriously have the same problem..lol..no joke at all either...I met this guy at my church and we became friends and all..and he goes to my school..and I only known his since January so it havent even been a year yet! lol..anywayz since of wat he helped me threw in the past..I developed those *feelings* for him and all..and I cant really seem to get him off my mind..he is on my mind like 24/7 as well..I dk what I would do if I ever lost him as a best friend.. :( ..if I can think of something to tell you...i'll tell you..for now I seriously have no clue..sry hun

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OK got a Terrior Mix puppy about a month ago. We've been training it to go outside the entire time. But it seems like at night he still has problems. When he potties in the floor, we spank him with a newspaper, and then take him straight outside. When hes good and potties outside, we give him a treat. But he still has accidents. Any suggestions on this? ty much.

ehh...my dog does that alot..we will let her out and she does her busy...and either comes back in or stays outside for an hour and comes back in..and she still has those "accidents" at night...even if she is outside all day..usually dogs learn by the fear of the newspaper..make him do his business one spot of the yard..so he gets the idea that he is suppose to go outside in that spot instead of the house...- hope I helped

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Well...I met this girl name Jenni and we started talking and then my brother was single so I started to get them to talk since she's one of m oldest friends and I thought they'd hit it off... suprisingly they did...well a few months later...after they started going out...Jenni told me that she cheated on my brother...with one of her friends Roxie's brother Chad...and I know them too...Jenni swore up and down that they only made out...and I trust her...but I also promised I wouldn't tell my brother...well one night my sister was saying how my brother and Jenni made a pact that they could do whatever whenever with whoever and I was like Wut the heck...so me and my sister confronted my brother and told him about her cheating on my brother...the pact was made after she cheated on him...turned out my sister heard wrong...and they never made a pact...like that...should I have told my brother...or should I have not told my brother to keep Jenni's trust with me?

you should have told you brother...he has a right to know the truth and why they made that "pact"..and all in the 1st place -hope I helped

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