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Question Posted Friday August 27 2004, 9:13 pm

my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs i have one and she doesnt even let me hardly so its ruining our relationship all becuz i did this thing with him that she found out so she thinks he pressurs me. he does not..it was my decision. then she tells me how i am out of control and "going down the wrong road" i cant take it!! my life is scrrwed up enough and i am suffering thru depresiion she just makes it all harder. i cant take it its my life i want to do what i want and she holds me back on anything. wheneevr i talk i seem to get in trouble so i keep my mouth shut and my whole family cant stand it. all they do is yell at me, i think im gonna run away.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Monday August 30 2004, 5:29 pm:
dont run away tell ur family how u feel and how depressed u r and ur thinkin bout running away. good luc

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smart_boy answered Saturday August 28 2004, 10:31 pm:
maybe you should say a prayer about what happend. god will help you through any cisis that you go through.put your faith in god.if you trust him you will sucseed. but before you say a prayer talk to you mom and tell her about how you feel. talk about you feelings and hopefuly you can work it out. no matter what you need to keep a good relation ship with your mom. preten that your mom would die tomorow. i know that i would be crushed if my mom or dad died right after a big fight. work it out today. thats the way that i live my life, and i couldnt be any happier.


P.S. parents are ussually right.they could have gone through what you are going through. keep that in mind.

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advicemaster answered Saturday August 28 2004, 6:22 pm:
just sit down with you mother and talk too her if she starts yelling ask her why are you yelling? What have i done? then get the whole family to sit down and talk

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xohiddenkissox answered Saturday August 28 2004, 1:23 pm:
Listen...My aunt has a trust issue with me got the same reason, I say what the fuck sneak around, But the good side of me says your ma cares about you and doesn't want you to get hurt. If you feel that your doing the right thing then keep on truckin babe!
~!*(DaNi)*!~
If you more help e-mail me...djchandler2003@yahoo.com

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sexiiKt answered Friday August 27 2004, 11:00 pm:
I totally can relate my mom never trusts me and i always have to build muh trust wif her....I understand how you feel becuz i have simi depression and i hate it when i have to go through that wif muh mom i think you should just tell her how you feel about the situation and tell her that it was your decision ya no thats wat i had to do cuz i was in your postion one time and yeah o ignore the chick who said that "she knows people who haas had it harder" cuz thats stupid she dont no what you been through! i hope i helped babe! e~mail me sumtime scbabe124@yahoo.com tell me if i helped

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LostAngel answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:16 pm:
1st off I hate it when ppl on this site say something along the line as "my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs"...well I got news for ya hun..im 14 and im not allowed to have a bf or date till im 16..so how the hell do you think I feel when ppl say sumthin like "my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs" it just pisses me off..and till your 18 you have to listen to your mother..she knows whats right and whats wrong...when you become 18 you can move out and do whatever you want..at 18 you have freedom for whatever to do..example if you wanna have sex with every guy you meet and screw your life then fine then go screw up your life..and what im about to say you may not like but at 14 and for the next 4 years your in the hands of your mother and you have to listen to her and all..and when you say "my life is scrrwed up enough and i am suffering thru depresiion she just makes it all harder." what do you mean your suffering threw depression? I know more ppl who are going threw a harder time then when you stated right there..I know for a fact with out having to know why your "suffering threw depression" - hope I helped

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