Hey LostAngel. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LostAngel answered Saturday August 28 2004, 6:24 pm: wow..thats a tuff one..but I have to say..I would do the same thing if I was you..and not talk to the jerk...I say..maybe not talk to him..but atleast let him talk and you just listen and see what he has to say..if he promises he'll change then give him another chance, but tell him you'll hurt him if you catch him cheating..if you catch him cheating again then just kick his ass for what he did and tell him its over for good..on the side of forgetting about him...its kind of hard for me to forget about guys and all..but the best thing is to do..is to hang out with friends who care about and also love you..or be around family or join a sport..just please dont seat around the house on the couch all day in your pajamas watchin sad depressing movies all day..it will just make you feel worse...-hope I helped
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