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Should I keep trying?
Hey Pat. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
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Well, its sounds like you are in kind of a sticky situation. Even though you really like this guy doesnt mean that he will be true to you and you have to go out with him. and most of the time when people say they will change, they are lying...i know it sounds harsh but it is true. but, i think that you can still talk to him, and be freinds. who knows, maybe by the time you get older he will grow up and you will see him as a different person. hope i could help.
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the best thing to do is jus try to forget about him i know it hurts and that u want to keep tryin in hopes that he will change but he won't forget about him and move on right now ur hurtin but in time u won't even remember him! hope this helps =)
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If u really like him, talk to him, set some boundaries. He says that he wants to go out with, so tell him yes, and if he says you have to many rules, get rid of the ones that you can live with out. And if he still disagrees, find someone else.
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I think you should give him a chance..if he can't get over you then you might be the special one he stays with! but if he starts acting weird or different dump him before he can dump you!
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