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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!

~queencece~

Omg yea you should really go for it. Don't let this kiss be the thing you regret. It will seriously leave her thinking & maybe you guys will go out later on. It's cute & you should do it.


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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx

Tell 'em to fuck off! Your happy with the guy and you shouldn't care about what they say. They aren't your friends. So don't even sweat it. Just ignore them. As long as you like the guy. It's good! =)


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Does anyone know some really cute quotes or song lyrics that I can put in my info on IM cause I have a bunch but I either dont wanna use them or have already used them. Im looking for something like ""Only believe the things I wrote
I'll put it in a note, yeah
I'll cross my t's and dot my i's
Better say hello, don't you dare say goodbye *
I'll write sincerely yours and sign my name
P.s. I love you forever & today"
[AllAmericanRejects]" --that or "All a girl really wants is someone to want her back -one tree hill" --or that. song lyrics or cute quotes from tv shows like the oc or one tree hill or just cute quotes in general. thankss. Ill give feedback=]

http://www.xanga.com/xQU0TESz

http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/




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well when i was 13 i lost my virginety now im 14 because my birthday was in sep. i lost it in june, but anyways i need help i lost my virginty by an aciddent and it was so not ment to happen and now i think im pg but i have my period every month but my belly is looking pg but i took a pg test and it said negitive, so what is happening to my body i think my mom knows sum thing so what is wrong????
please answer me!!!!
~*~ Michelle ~*~

Nooo way are you pregnant. I mean..you have your period every month. And you took a test and it came out negative. So no..your not pregnant.


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what does menage a trois mean?


ménage à trois

NOUN:

A relationship in which three people, such as a married couple and a lover, live together and have sexual relations.





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ok well i actually really enjoy doing musicals and this year our school is doing annie. but they always perform a little part of it in front of the whole school just to give them a little taste of it. well lots of people, including a guy who i like, don't exactly enjoy these. but i don't know should i do it? i really want to but i don't want people to think i'm a loser. Also, if i do try out, what are some good audition songs? thanks a bunch! i rate

Lol omg annie! I love annie! Yea you should really do it. Just blow their minds. Who cares if they think your a loser. Your friends will still like you no matter what. I really think you should do it if you want to so bad. =)..Shiiit i`ll do it because it'll probably be fun =P


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HI melissa i know it may be weird but im always insecure about myself. I think im ugly and guys never like me at all. I super skinny i hate that. I have a lot of hair on my body aka stomach and back. I don't have big enough boobies and I have excima which pretty much sucks because its like no one even has it but me. I don't know what to do. I want to be at a normal weight like 105 or something but i weigh 93 specifically. Im armenian so I have a lot of body hair and when I look at people on magazines or tv i don't see any body hair and it makes me feel like crap. my mom, aunt and grandma got their puberty at the age of 17 and I can't wait that long because im short 5'1 and I have no boobies okay im a 32A but still thats nothing and I have no buttt. I hate my body it sucks ass. Last but not least i have excima and it really takes over my life really. Please will you help me get through with this stuff. Im really desperate. by the way im 13 4 months till im 14. I have dark brown hair too. if that helps.

Well it's good that your skinny. But if you want to get a little bit bigger, than eat a little bit more. You can always shave your stomach and back lol. And your personality..YOU HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT! Don't let these things bring you down. My friend Katie has small boobs, but no one even notices how small they are because of her awesome personality. She's really skinny also because she diabetic. But she has this personality that's soo cute and guys like her. And um..what's excima? Sorry i don't know what that means. But you should probably eat more. And don't have a bad personality. Be outgoing and funny and nice. Maybe change up your style and make-up a little bit. If you don't wear make-up. TRY SOME! It'll probably help. Do whatever it takes for you to be confident. =)


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hey i think you have a really good taste in music. i was wondering if you knew any really good songs and artists that werent too well known one time i saw you knew one by five times august and yeah. well if you have any ideas please let me know!
thanks!

Lol i only know a few..soo..sorry if it isn't much. =(



Iron & Wine-Naked As We Came
Aqualung- Brighter Than Sunshine
Aqualung-Strange & Beautiful
Bloc Party-Blue Light
Doves-Caught by the River
Elliot Smith-Angeles
Five Times August- Up To Me
Frou Frou- It's good to be in love
HelloGoodBye- Bonnie Taylor Shakedown
HelloGoodBye-Dear Jamie
HelloGoodBye-Shimmy Shimmy Quarter Turn
Hollywood Undead- No.5
Iron & Wine- The Trapeze Swinger
Jack's Mannequin - Bruised
Jack's Mannequin- Dark Blue
Minus The Bear - Pachuca Sunrise
The Bravery- An Honest Mistake
Joseph Arthur- Honey & The Moon
Sufjan Stevens- To Be Alone With You
The Scene Aesthetic- Beauty In The Breakdown
The Scene Aesthetic-The Alamo is no place for dancing
South- Paint The Silence
Spoon- The Way We Get By
The Dandy Warhols- We Used To Be Friends



Haha..lol it isn't really much. And some of those might already be known..sorry!

But you can ask Krissyxx9 . She's really good with songs. Ask her for some =) . She'll give you a TON!


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13/f

Ok theres this guy who is my friend, we hang out alot, and i REALLY like him, i mean more than ive ever liked any one in my whole life! Im fairly shure he likes me 2, but he has a g/f, and is happy with her, i mean im really happy for him, but what do i do? (oh and he knows i like him...) i rate 5's!

Just keep on staying friends. Don't try and break them up. Being friends is probably the best thing you can do right now. You're happy for him. So just stay friends. Just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. He'll probably end up going out with you.


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Do dogs have lips? Sorry but I've always wondered that...
♥Sammm

Lol, yes they do. =P



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okay well my mom just bought crest white strips and i was wondering do they work better on dirty or clean teeth? my mom said she heard they work better on dirty but i wasnt sure

They work better when they are dirty. Use those and brush your teeth after you finished using them. =D




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My boyfriends staying the night tonight, and we're exchanging Christmas gifts, I'm extremely scared, because what if I don't like something he gets me? How am I supposed to react? Thanks. ♥

Well you probably already know that if you don't like it, then don't tell him..Sooo! Once you open it, just have this really happy face. Open your mouth and gasps and say "Omg i love it!!". I know it's a little over the top, but you don't want to hurt his feelings.



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is there a way to get tan without going tanning, self tanner or going out in the sun?

No


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Does anyone know any websites or can anyone give me any mean girl icons?

http://www.xanga.com/meangirlsicons25

http://www.xanga.com/mean_girls_mean_girls


Those are like..the ones that i found. =) And for your second question. Sorry i don't. =\


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Wait. Im soo confused. Are you talking about icons to use on aim? lol..well than here


http://iconator.com/search.php?query=mean+girls&catid=all-12

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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?

When people say that, it basically means that a girl and a boy are completely different. Like, a guy can love comic books and a girl can hate it, they both like different colors, different food, different styles of clothing, etc. I think it is partly true, because people who like the same thing, it kind of gets boring. And people who don't like the same thing have a more interesting relationship. But in some cases people who like the same thing can be easier. Just depends on the people. =)



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I just got my braces off last week..and I received my retainer (It's the metal/wire kind)..besides gagging, is the wire suppose to be poking you in between your teeth? Is it suppose to hurt? Help!

Maybe you just have to get used to them. How long did you have them? If its over 3 days and they still hurt, call your ortho. Tell him to fix it. I don't think its suppose to be killing your mouth. =P



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hey soooo im 14 years old and a pretty shy girl with people that i dont think will except me ( the popular kids have labled mea0 and im not like desprate to be popular but it would be nice to know they except me u noo ( i have a disability) i think this holds me back because im an awesome person with lots to give to friends and stuff i love all the normalthings teen girls do im not bookish or ne like that i mean im not in a wheelchair i just walk differently then everyone else which is mostly fine with me. any comment would be awesome!!!

Some popular kids can be really cruel. They should accept you no matter what. If they tease you about it, then don't even bother to show them what kind of person you are. But if your really desperate to show them what kind of person you are, then act more outgoing in front of them and make jokes and stuff. Be funny in front of them to get their attention. But not at the point where its like your trying too hard. Try making some other friends beside them. Kids who show respect towards you and stuff. You don't always have to be popular. =). You can't be shy! Because than people won't talk to you as much. Be really confident and outgoing. You can practice over break on how to act. =)


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Do you think a 13 year old, 5ft 3in, female who weighs 140lbs is fat? Pleas be honest and do NOT sugar coat it!

*BEING HONEST!*

Kind of chubby. Not at the point where your totally fat though.



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im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. we have been going out for 4 months. she told me that she wants to make out with me. part of me wants too but the other part says no because we kissed for the first time last night at a dance. do you think i should make out with her now or not? if not how long should i wait?

Yea make out with her. Lol you shouldn't wait. Just kiss if she wants to. Nothings wrong with kissing. Make out with her =)


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i went to the pet store to buy some things for my dog, and when i went to the cashregister i donated a dollar to a pet fund. well then the girl asked me to write my pets name on the paper that they hang up, so i did. however about 15 minutes later i realized i wrote my other dogs name on the paper, who died last year! now i know that's not a crime or anything but i felt really weird because it's like i still thought he was my dog & i feel guilty. am i a bad person?!

Lol no your not a bad person. It's actually really cute how you were thinking of your dog though. Go to the pet store and make another one for your other dog. Like Hearts,Lies,Friends said, it can be a tribute to both. =)


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