about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !

iiF Y0U DONT THINK THAT THEN ii THINK THAT YOU NEED T0 TALK T0 THIS GUY AND TELL HIM THAT HE D0ES N0T GET ON YOUR NERVES! IF Y0U WANT HIM TO ASK YOU OUT AND EVERYTHING YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE T0 TELL HIM THE TRUTH. EATHER YOU OR A FRIEND CAN TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM AND THAT HE DOESNT GET ON Y0UR NERVES! IT WOULD BUILD CONFINDENCE IN HIM AND THEN HE WOULD ASK YOU T0 BE HIS GIRLFRIEND! ♥//

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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

Its oral sex to a girl. Which mean.. sucking,nibbling or doing whatever to the girls vigina! ♥//

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is it just me, or have some of the questions lately been seeming fake, made-up, and unrealistic? i have no desire to answer some lately because they seem like they`re put up on advicenators to get laughs.

I agree!!

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i noe this is reely wierd but i think im bi and i want to see some action like porno but im too scared my older brother will catch me and find it, what do i do?

Just because you look at porn doesnt mean you're bi. Just watch it while you are alone and if you dont want him to find out the websites then just clear your history.. which would get rid of all the websites you've been on. Or you could just say that you got a lot of porn popups!! Gosh! Just calm down lol!! Nothing wrong with porn! ♥//

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i think a guy i noe likes me and hes tried to get close to me bout i have just tried to ignore him bcs im scared he doesnt really like me nd i reely do like him!

So what your question? If you think he is trying to get close to you then let him. He probablly is. Maybe later on you will find out if he really does. You could just ask him tho. ♥//

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i want to use a tampon but i want to stay a virgin. is this possible? can i lose my virginity being fingered?

No.. the only way you can loose your virginity is by having sex. No other. ♥//

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ok i dont really know what this would go under but i want to start wearing make-up but i dont know how to like put it on or w/e pLz hELp mE !!

Well I`m not exacly sure what all you want to apply but I`ll just tell you everything!

Face:

Wash your face with soap or something then apply face lotion. If you want to use foundation then get eather Revlon or Covergirl. I suggest Revlon tho. Fing the tone that matches your skin. Then make sure you get powder and apply it after the foundation. Make sure when you are putting on the foundation you put it on your neck a little so there isnt a huge line under your chin.

Eyes:

Never wear eyeshadow that mathes your outfit. It just doesnt look really cute. if you have brown eyes then just go with the brown,tan,gold eyeshdow. If you have blue then go with lighter colors. Wear eyeliner and mascara and it will make your eyes look bigger!

Lips: If you put a little bit of foundation on your lips and then chapstick and then lipgloss it makes it stay on longer. Go with the glossy ones!

See its not so hard to apply make up! Its just like art! l0l ♥

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Heyy! I rate high! I was jus wondering if any one will give me any tips to giving good advice!Please and thanks!

There is no tip. Just say what you think and give your opinion. Be honest and friendly. ♥

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Lately me and my mom have been fighting about EVERYTHING. We cant even tlak to each other without getting into an arguement. But a few days ago, she found out im more than likely clinically depressed. Now shes being all sympathetic towards me and i dont like it. She is never sympathetic towards me for anything until she found out about my depression. I wish we could stop fighting, but not because of depression, because i dont wanna keep keep fighting after im treated. We have already tried a psychologist person, but she doesnt listen so does anyone have any ideas on what i could do get along better?

I rate!

Instead of fighting about every little thing with her I think that you should just sit down with her and take the time to talk to her about it. If she starts yelling at your for something unreasonable dont fight back. I know that could be hard at times but just go back to your room and dont talk to her for a while. Both of you should just calm down. ♥//

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so people have told me that a blow job is sucking a guys penis, but i always thought head was. is there a difference? and what does oral mean? like when you get it in the ass?

Head and a blowjob are basiclly the same thing and its a term for oral sex. It can be done to eather a male or female. The difference between head && a blowjob is that when you give someone a blowjob you are just sucking a guys penis but head is sucking the penis and the balls. =/ ♥

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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size?

No there isnt! I hate my size too. L0L. The only way you could is surgery and just dont do that!! Be happy with the size you have! Most girls would want a bigger size! Just dont hide under baggy tee shirts. =) ♥

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It seems that now my friends are friends with this girl cait that im going to be left out. There all gunna be tight and im just..there. I think im the least outgoing one there and that makes me sad. Cait it just going to have fun with them and im going to be all left out and stuff. Cait changed and now its like she fits in so perfectly and i just cant. Im trying to fit it,be loud,nice,awesome..but im just a small girl. Befor i moved here i was outgoing,popular,nice,and cool. Now that i live here i changed and i wish i didnt. I REALLY wish i didnt change. I wish i never moved. And why? All because this one person is friends with my other friends now.
I missed out and im miserable. How can i get through this? I just want to be outgoing nice loud and cool again. I dont know why but not that Cait is friends with Taylor and Carry its like there going to be calling people,going to the movies,all this with out me..and i get sad. I think of Cait as a threat and i wish i didnt. How can i just not think about Cait as a threat? and How can i deal with this situation?
[[how do i become loud,outgoing,cool,and nice again?]] Please help.
Signed,
Miserable. :( :'(

Aww... okay well instead of feeling sad most of the time I think that you should also start being friends with Cait. She isnt a threat and its fine that you think that because you probablly feel like she is taking your friends away from you and thats not true. I think that you should invite her and your other friends to your house or to go to the movies or something. Start talking to Cait and maybe once you get to know her you would probablly think that she is really cool and stuff. You wont be left out but just all of you should really hang out together. You will make a strong friendship and no one would end up feeling left out or jelous of the other friends. I think that you seem really cool and nice right now but if you want to prove it to everyone else just try to make friends with a lot of other people. Have fun and just joke around with everyone!!! Once you get used to and more comftrable with your friends and Cait you will start being more outgoing! Just dont worry ang you will go back to your normal self soon. You dont have to deal with this situation .. but yes you can fix it. Like I said.. try to make friends with Cait. Your friends probablly like her because she is nice and you should really give her a chance. Maybe later you will relize that it wasnt such a bad idea. If you want to go back to being popular,cool,nice,loud && outgoing then you have to be nice to a lot of people. I mean just because someone doesnt fit in your own group of friends be friendly. More people will notice that you are a great person and everyone will like you. When you go out with your friends like movies mall and stuff go up to some people and talk to them. Its a good way to build confidence in yourself and to make new friends! Good luck babe! ♥

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what is a boner???

Haha! Well a boner is when a guys penis gets hard and it just stands up straight. ♥

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Ok, I want to try tampons and me period should come in the next couple days, but my mom doesnt use them either... so, I have a few questions:

1. How do I tell me mom that i want to use tampons?

2. What is the best brand out there and the most comfortable?

3. Even though its the first time, should I still use the lowest Absorbancy, because me period is really heavy?!

4. When did you start using them and do you ifnd them more comfortable than pads?

5. Does it hurt when you use them the first time? Ive gotten fingered before so would that make a difference?

1. Just tell her that when you go swimming that you would like to use a tampon instead of a pad and that tampons aren't bad at all. Your mom should let you tho so just ask her to go to out and buy some.

2. The brand that I use is Tampax Pearl and that is really comftrable.

3.I think that you should use a smaller size at first just so you can get used to how they feel and everything. Once you get used to it you can swich to the bigger size.

4. I started using them in the begging of 7th grade and I do think they are more comftrable then pads. I mean when you have a pad on it feels like a little diper.

5. It doesnt hurt the first time but it might feel a little different. Since you got fingerd before that makes a little differece because you are used to have something up your vigina lol.

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i have aids now i had sex and im pregnent wat do i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

=O 0h my!!! Well there's nothing you can go. AIDS can be treatable and everything but now that you are pregnant you cant do anything about that. Just carry the baby I guess. ♥//

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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first?

Yes things would be a little weird at first but if you ever start feeling a little uncomftrable and stuff dont break up with him! Most people do that and then they end up regreting it! Once you start going out it will be weird but if you give it a month or so both of you would be comftrable and get used to that you are going out. I dont really know the best way to explain. There's not much things you should expect from a relationshp its just that normal boyfriend and girlfriend things. ♥//

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I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!

Not to be rude or anything but to me and probablly to other people.. you just want to change to fit in with other people. Thats fine but if you want everyone to like you and be described as "aswesome" then you have to be yourself. Most of the teenagers are loud and boycrazy. If you are'nt then thats just not you. If you want to be more outgoing go out with your friends to the movies or the mall and just go up to some people and say hi. Dont be shy about it or you'll just never learn. If you want to be loud then just have fun! Make jokes, and just laugh! Good luck with that! ♥//

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ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it.

You just seem way jelous but thats fine. Just dont like Tiana take her away from you and stuff. Do you even like that girl? Well I think that all 4 of you should be friends and hang out and you just wanting her for yourself. Stop being bitchy and stuff and just try to get along.But if you guys were close before then Jill will still always be your best friend its just that she can be close friends with some people also. So you all should just hang out and stuff! Talk to Jill about it tho. ♥//

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I have a friend and he is a marker this is the same person from the marker one the one when I said he died well his color came back and I just tried writing with him and he ran out again I have had this marker since I just started writing I mean I try to write a letter like h and it would come out like n I dont want to throw him away because I want to keep him for ever what should I do

Keep the poor marker! Just dont write with it anymore because it wont have like any color at all! *TEAR* Just get yourself a new friend I guess. Haha! ♥//

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hey i have a ?.. what does it mean when someone eats u up .. like .. sex n shit.. sorry if this is kinda nasty but i was just wondering..

You mean eat out? It means when a guy kinda just suck your vagina and licks it and stuff. L0L ♥//

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