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What is rug-hooking? I know it's some type of sexual thing...but WHAT IS IT!
I've never actually herd this in a sexual context, but its probably another name for sex. When one makes a rug out of wool, one has to put the tool through these holes to fix the wool in place. I'll leave the implications to your imagination ;)
you said it was the fathers neglect but he only weighed 65lbs when he was with his dad and now that he is with his mom he weighs 134lbs.wouldn't that be neglect on her part not his then?
You added that information after I wrote my answer. If she doesn't bother to care for him properly by just giving him fatty snacks and junk foods [like take out], then yes I would have said it was neglect on the part of the mother. Really thought I would need to know more about the kids situation, but I am by no means an expert on this sort of thing. If you are concerned fro the childs wellfare then I suggest you contact social services or other child crulty prevention organisation.
me and my best freind are more than friends! the otherday we were in the skool bathroom and were fingering, and licking each other! i really love her A LOT!!! tonight we r going to go to her house and have sex. we already have 4 dlidos and 2 vibrators. are we wrong? we have lots of fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lezbo lezlie
Its is not wrong to be a lesbian, no matter what the norm of scocity tells you. Just remember to always practice safe sex, and take it at a pace you are both comfortable with.
am i weird? i masterbate with anything and everything i can. ( and electric toothbrush, stuffed animals, my dog, ext.) heve i crossed the line?
I would have said that you just have some odd fetishes. Try not to perfom beastiality to much, and don't use and electric toothbrush thatisn't yours, thats just sick.
Maybe you should try to tone it down a little.
I can sing, dance, model, and act (and much more, not to brag) and i've been dancing and singing all my life and i modeled when i was little and i've done litteraly 28 musicals/plays. And I think it's time to move on. And when i saw Peter Pan, Pirates of the Carribean, and Haunted Mansion...that's when I decided that I wanted to become a REAL actress...A Movie Star! But how do I get there? You see the problem is that I don't live in Califonia which is the hottest spot if your looking for Stardom. I live in stupid old CO. So, how can I get my taste of fame? I've looked for months on the Internet trying to find auditions for young teens, but so far nothing! 1) What should I do?
2) If you find NE film/movie auditions for young teens PLEASE tell me!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
Given that my knowlage of geographic locations in the US is scketchy, i would say maybe you can take a day/ weekend trip down to California? That or look up acting agencies, and ask them if they will take you on.
Thats the best things I can suggest.
OK. To get to the point my friend *billy* asked me what I would do if he died. i told him I would cry (I wasn't really sure what he meant) and I asked him what he would do if I died. He said he would kill himself. But, he also said he would kill himself even if I didn't die. I am 12...he is only 11. His mom used to beat him and he never sees her. HIs dad lives in Alaska and he goes up every once and awhile. He isn't that great of a student and he doesn't think he is cute or anything. So basically he hates his life. He said he won't do it now but maybe when he is older. If he did kill himself I would probably blame it on myself because he really liked me and i sorta liked him and then I stopped liking him and it made him really lonely because he is new and doesn't have that many friends. I'm really scared that he is serious and one day will actually do something. I don't want to like refer him to counseling or anything. What should I say/do?
Well, given that life sorta sucks for everyone untill they can get into the 'real world' and start living for themselves I don't think he will do anything, and he will probably find that life gets better. Personaly I would be very carefull that he isn't 'attention whoring' and trying to force to you to stay with him through manipulating you, so if you do think he might try somthing you need to tell an adult that you trust like a teacher, so they can maybe get him counceling. Of course the teacher might blow you off, then tell your parents. Who ever you tell, you need to tell someone.
I know of an 8 year old boy who is getting allergy shots for his allergies. I would like to know why he would still have to be taking azmacort, zyrtec, singulair, and flonase for his allergies or would he have to keep taking these?
I would expect that after a while the kid will be given antihistamines, but that might not happen untill he is 16+. I suggest you talk to the boy's doctor if you are concerned.
i know a 8 year old boy who is overweight. He weighs 134lbs. Just a year and a half ago he only weighed 65lbs when he lived with his dad. Would this be considered neglect or abuse that he gained so much? What could some causes be? What can be done?
what is your relationship to the perent and the child? if youare in a situation where you can controll his food on a day-to-day basis then I suggest you try to wean him off 'junk' foods, such as fast food meals, and crisps, and try and give him sandwiches and cooked meals. Also encorage him to go to a play park for excersise.
As always check with a doctor or nutriounist that you are giving the kid all he needs to grow, and that the kid doesn't have any gland problems causing him to be overweight.
I'm not sure this can be considered abuse, but maybe neglect that the father didn't bother to feed the kid properly and just gave him junk foods. [assuming of course that this is the case]
I'm 22 with 2 kids, my boyfriend of almost a year is 24. He's never been in love and has not developed any strong feelings for me. I don't know what to do, I really care for this guy. Can you give some advice?
I don't quite understand your problem. Is it that you are afraid of him leaving you with no support of somthing?
I think what it will come down to is the b/f evauating his priorities [the kids you or having a life of his own] and the two of you wokring out some sort of support stystem for the children. A long talk is in order here.
If you ever want to talk, my contact details are over there *points left*
ok i have been playing soccer for 7 years is there a chance my hymen could have torn already because i was reading a sex questions and one person answered that if you are active in sports that your hymen has already torn? ALSO WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE AFTER THE HYMEN HAS TORN? i want to know if mine has torn or not
I have to say I think koshii is wrong. It doesn't grow all the time, and yes it can be broken by strenious activities other than sex. I broke mine when horse riding, and I always get some very odd looks when I say I lost my virginity to a horse... I would have said that only sports which requier you to be moving you legs wide apart, like horse riding or swiming, can break it, but anything is possible.
But anyway, for me, it felt a little sore, and blead all over my knickers so that when I looked, it was as thought I has started my period early. The soreness didn't last that long for me, and I was hurting all over [from the ride] anyway so I didn't really notice.
Whats a hand job?
When a girl masturbates a boy or vice versa.
Hey, i'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I'm an 18 year old female, and for 18 of those years, me and my mum were really close - like best friends. But since around the time of my eighteenth birthday, she's been like a rollercoaster ride of emotions. I wont bore you with the details of our arguments, but one day she'll be screaming in my face, and the next she'll be suffocating me and being all lovey dovey with me. I'm thinking that because i'm 18 now she's struggling to find a balance between letting me have my independence and still acting like we're family.
Right now she's not speaking to me, and when she does speak to be she'll snipe at me so there's no talking to her. I don't want to be her emotional doormat, so she can just throw any old emotion at me that she likes when she likes - I'm still a person too. I just don't know what to do right now, please, if you have any ideas, let me know. Thanks x
I'm gonna make a huge assumption here and say maybe she is going through her menopause? Yes what you suggested is quite possible, but is she is around 45+ and she is going through the menopause her emotions will be alover the place, and having to cope with the fact that your aren't completly her baby anymore. To be honest I'm not sure what you can do, except tip-toe around her, and wait for things to settle down *hug*
me and my m8 are both meeting up wt our bfz on Friday nite and they wanna finger us. this is our 1st time bein fingered. How is it menna b down below, hair,shaved!? AND wot are you menna do wen they r doin it 2 u? pull/make noises??? is it menna b wet or dry plz help !!!!
b4 friday!!!! thanx xxx
I would have you fur down there trimmed so to alow for easy access and less pain from notted fur.
you can do whatever you like! if you don't like it or it hurts or whatever say 'stop, *reson*', if you like it, moan, groan, whatever you feel like! You can rub a little but be careful of fingernails! They hurt!
Its probably better to have it a little moist, as it can get uncomfortable if its to dry. I expect you will lubricate yourse [part of the bodys whole 'oo, gonna have sex' routine is issuing fluids to lube yourself up]
Voice of experience, cheach your partners fingers aren't to dry/peeling/scratcy and their fingernails are short and not jagged, and your pubs are tangle free other wise it will hurt.
And last but not least, have fun!
What do you do if you know a family member is having an affair and the wife has no idea why he is ending a 30 year marriage. Do you tell her or do you keep your mouth shut and let him hang himself?
Normaly I would say keep your nose out of their bussiness, but it seems you are likly to do anything any way so, I would try and lessen the blow to her. Try and get him to tell her, it will probably be better coming from him rather than you [this is no offence to you, just if it where me i don't think i'd want to hear it from an out-side party]. Also I think knowing might give her some closure in the long run.
good luck whatever you do.
i'm a very hard working student who works extra hours from college and do all the work on time and i am so determine to do all of my work. but i have 1 problem that is,1 of my lecturer who is also my tutor, is so annyoing because he doesn't help me when i need it, he only say's i'm coming, but by end he gets to somone else or doesn't bother with me. only this teacher I'm always left as the last person to be looked at, which is so not fair and i had it right up to here! As i alot of work and harder then other student's but that doesn't give my lecturer to ignore me or not bother at all i mean this is soooo UNFAIR!!! and his excuse was today taht he doesn't help as i am the only student who gets more help than other students but that is soooo untrue and biased as he only see's me come and do extra hours etc...
please can u help me and tell me why my lecturer being like this even though he is nice to me but just not doing his job proprely, do u know wat i mean? give me some gd advice and tips thanx!
I think you need to try going over his head an complain to the head of faculty or somthing.
Okay this might sound kinda wierd but here it goes. I have been married for 2 1/2 years and I can't take it any more. I am in love just not with my husband. I still love my ex more than anything in this world and I don't know how to deal with it. We still see eachother all the time. Him and my husband work together. I see him every day. We even had an affair. Mynhusband knew the whole time and now he has found a girkfriend and wants us to stop seing each other. He has been with her for 2 months and I am so jelouse of her. What can I do??
Talk to your husband, figuer out what you want from your relationship with him, and see if you want to try and salvage the marrage, in wich case you could try counceling.
If you don't want to stay with your husband, I think you are going to have to talk to your ex and see how he feels about his new girl compared to you. If he wants to stay with her, then you just have to get over it.
In the end, the call is yours. Good Luck
Hi, im 16 and wear a size 16/ 18, Though out my life i've been bullied and now i want to get my life back on track. I'm getting an exercise bike to use in the house and go to the gym for 2 hours a week. If and hopefully if i lose the wait how much sould i am to lose im a vegan so i ony eat friute and with the size i am it should just fall off so doctors say. But hoq much is dangerous. 10 lbs in a week? i really i want to be a size 8 in 6 montths for when i go to college i am good at exerciseing at the gym. Am i out of my reach????
please help if you've been in my sitionsion the advice is more then welcome. lots of love
If i were you I would just loose as much as you can. This means sticking to whatever diet you put yourself on, lowering your intake of fatty foods and carbohidrate loaded foods, but make sure you still eat enought to keep you going.
This site has lots of useful stuff in regard to veganism: http://www.vegansociety.com/html/
As for the reaching size 8 in 6 months, Its not impossible, but it might be a better idea to take things a little slower. Work out how much you lose in maybe 3 months then see if you think you can reach your target.
good luck :)
my guy friend...lets call him gary...he likes to wrestle with me but i dont like it cuz i get hurt most the time and im really bad at it. everytime i finally sit down he tells me 2 get up or he pulls me up and keeps wrestling with me. how can i tell him i dont wanna wrestle without him getting mad or pulling me up and doing it anyway?
signed,
ouch
I don't think there is any easy way to tell him, so I would suggest just telling him next time he tries to pull you up, 'No! I don't like doing this, and so I'm not going to anymore!' Hopefully he will be understanding and take no for an answer, but if he doesn't then you just need to walk away from him.
my partner and i love our sex life, but she won't give me head like she used to. before she would try to deepthroat all the time and now she only sucks enough of it to shut me up. how can i bring out the animal that she usd to be?
Maybe she is feeling uncomfortable with it, or has decided that she doesn't like doing it any more. You can't force the girl to do it if she doesn't want to. I suggest that you try talking to her about why she has stopped and try and work through any problems she has with it in a mature and sensible manner.
you meant "flirting" instead of "fliting", get your spelling's correct as you are 19 yrs old so don't tell other pupil to sort their grammar's out when u need to check ur's first!!! beforer yu compalin about other's!!!
I'm sorry if my temporary lack of spelling ability has offended you. I am dyslexic, and I do always try my hardest to get it correct the first time round. What I usually take isuse with is not a person's spelling, but their lack of punctuation. Lack of punctuation, in my opinion, makes it far harder to read something.
Besides aren't you being slightly hypocritical yourself? To quote: 'u need to check ur's first!!! beforer yu compalin'