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*gary* likes 2 wrestle but i dont
my guy friend...lets call him gary...he likes to wrestle with me but i dont like it cuz i get hurt most the time and im really bad at it. everytime i finally sit down he tells me 2 get up or he pulls me up and keeps wrestling with me. how can i tell him i dont wanna wrestle without him getting mad or pulling me up and doing it anyway?
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Ouch:
Sounds like your friend has some problems with knowing who can take a bit of hard playing.
This can be really dangerous for both of you both physically and emotionally.
Before either of you get hurt you have to lay down the line, if he continues I think seperating until he gets the point.
Friends are hard to find but they are supposed to help more than point.
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My brother used to do the same thing next time he tries do it outside. When you two start try and get his eyes into the sun then u will win after awhile he will get mad and stop
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I don't think there is any easy way to tell him, so I would suggest just telling him next time he tries to pull you up, 'No! I don't like doing this, and so I'm not going to anymore!' Hopefully he will be understanding and take no for an answer, but if he doesn't then you just need to walk away from him.
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beat him. beat him with a stick.
seriously, the easiest way to repel a wrestler of any kind is swift beating that isn't really within the rules. go along with it, but when he hurts u or u get sick of it, kick or hit him HARD. pain is usually a good attention-getter. it is up to u where to hit him, but stay within reason according to his actions.
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