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pleasure seeking problem
my partner and i love our sex life, but she won't give me head like she used to. before she would try to deepthroat all the time and now she only sucks enough of it to shut me up. how can i bring out the animal that she usd to be?
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well have you eaten her out? if so try a new style . spice it up a lil try a new style! n ask her to try n deep throat it again
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i used to be just like your girlfriend, i used to hate giving my boyfriend head,however now when it gets to sex we add more forplay and he does alot to satisfy me, so its only fair to do the same for him cus it actually gets me in the mood. try doing giving her a bit of oral pleasure and she'll almost want to suck the life outta you, but if not and she's still uncomfortable then try and live without for a bit there may be something else she can do for you that brings on as much pleasure.
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Giving head is not the most fun thing in the world for a girl to do. The best part of it is knowing your partner is loving it. Otherwise, it really is hard work. The best way to get her to do it more often and show more enthusiasm, is to make her feel really loved and appreciated the best you can.
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Maybe she's just not comfortable with the idea. But then again, I couldn't really tell you, as I can't read minds. Have you actually asked her why she "won't give you head like she used to"? If you haven't, you should. Miscommunication is a good way to kill relationships. Trust me on this and communicate with her. =)
-Siren
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Don't always EXPECT things...
And respect her a little...give her time. A relationship isnt all about that crap.
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Have you asked her the reasoning behind this and if so, what is it? It may be that she feels slighted in some way and feels that she is giving more than shye is getting. This may lead to resenment on her behalf. Ask her if there's anything you could do to make the entire lovemaking experience better for her. Once she feels that she's just as important, then maybe she'll gladly return to the "animal" that she used to be.
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Maybe she is feeling uncomfortable with it, or has decided that she doesn't like doing it any more. You can't force the girl to do it if she doesn't want to. I suggest that you try talking to her about why she has stopped and try and work through any problems she has with it in a mature and sensible manner.
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