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feelings
I'm 22 with 2 kids, my boyfriend of almost a year is 24. He's never been in love and has not developed any strong feelings for me. I don't know what to do, I really care for this guy. Can you give some advice?
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First off you cannot make someone love you. That is the only human (if you can call it human) factor that only the person has power over. As I saw from what you said, that you "care for" him it shows me you may not love him either. My advice is to seperate for a while and let a friedship begin while you explore the outside sepratly. If its loveless you have for you and your kids, a bad outcome is at stake.
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You can't make someone love you. If you don't see this relationship going anywhere, maybe you should call it off. Especially if you have kids. You need a guy who loves you and your kids and is dedicated to having a family.
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Love HAS to be a two-way thing. I'll assume that this guy isn't the father of your children (as you have 2 kids and you've been going out with him for a year), and my advice to you is to move on. You can still be friends, there's nothing wrong with that, but you can't develop a relationship with someone who hasn't got the same kinds of feelings toward you. Good luck, hope all works out x
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I don't quite understand your problem. Is it that you are afraid of him leaving you with no support of somthing?
I think what it will come down to is the b/f evauating his priorities [the kids you or having a life of his own] and the two of you wokring out some sort of support stystem for the children. A long talk is in order here.
If you ever want to talk, my contact details are over there *points left*
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