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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

Hey!! Try going to google.com and typing in baby names or unique baby names. Or you can try going to this website full of names, I don't know if this one will help, but here's the website anyways:

http://www.babynamesearch.com/unique-baby-names.htm

**Hope those help and good luck =D**

xoxo Kourtney

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omg! i got my haircut today after school. ok i told the lady 2 1/2 inches and she turned me from the mirror and all i heard was snip snip and i saw hair falling and i had no clue but she cut off 5 1/2 inches!!!!!!!!! its about to my chin and i absolutely hate it!

OH KNOW!! I had that happen to me too! I had long hair and she left the bottom short and then I had like REALLY short layers, I was crying when I got home! LOL! But, what I did was I looked up some more haircuts and I got it really cute, you could like flip it out or curl it under, but this was a long time ago, I was like in I think 6th grade. So, try looking up some cute hairstyles and then go to a different haircut place and let them fix it. Try like Reese Witherspoons haircut from Sweet Home Alabama, that was an adorable hair cut!! But don't worry, I'm sure it looks great! Don't stress over it, I'm sure you still look pretty!

xoxo Kourtney

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I ask for advice on this a lot and I read other answers to other questions and even tho im not asking them they help out a lot..but i do have a question..my bestfriend moved and I have a thing for him...we have always had "things" for eachother we went out a couple times too. My ex good freind is now goin out with him and I want him back to terribly bad..but what should I do?

Aww. I think you should tell him how you feel! Just be like "I know you have a girlfriend, and we've gone out a couple of times too, but I still have feelings for you..." Just say something like that and just be like "And I also want to know how you feel about me too." Just tell him how you feel and you want to know how he feels about you too. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you still need help on this, just post a message in my inbox =D

xoxo Kourtney

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this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans??

Try Kohls, Forever 21, Target, JCPennys, Ross, or TJ Max... hope those work for you. Good luck on the shopping, have fun =P

xoxo Kourtney

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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?

Hi! I think you should try talking to them and just be like "I like you guys both equally and I wish you guys could just feel the same about each other, I mean we're the 3 muskateers practically! What do you guys have against each other, both of you are awesome, don't just like 1 person more than the other, it has to be equally and I think we need to work this out." And just be calm about it and be serious so they know to be calm and serious also. Hope this works out and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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ok so my best friend is absolutely in love with this guy and a while ago he said he liked me more than a friend...should i keep talkin to him?

He did say he liked you awhile ago. So, try asking him again and just being like "so who do you like?" And if he doesn't like you, then you can continue to talk to him. But, you're friend is like in love with him, and friends always come first before boys. Friends last longer than guys. Just don't talk to him ALL the time, because he may develop a crush on you (if he doesn't already) because that would really hurt your friend and you wouldn't want that (not saying you would). But, just make sure he doesn't like you, but just also make sure you don't talk to him so much. And for your friend, have her tell him how she feels!! =D Hope this helps! If not, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy?

We usually break up with them, some are mean about it some are nice about it. It really depends on the girl, they sometimes ignore them, or give them hints that they dont like them anymore, or they're rude to them, etc.

xoxo Kourtney

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hi. well im skinny and i have long blonde hair and everyone calls my paris hilton. i dont mind it but they say it like its a bad thing. Its constantly too. Everywhere i go "o paris hilton" its so annoying and the way they say it is like its a bad thing. help

Hi!! NOOO!!! Its not a bad thing at all. They're just jealous of you because Paris Hilton is gorgeous, take it as a compliment for people to be calling you that! Just be happy, because people think you look like her meaning they think you're gorgeous. And if they do say it with an attitude or whatever, just ignore it, they're just jealous of you!

xoxo Kourtney

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--
thats the ? thank you so much!!

Sorry, my sister was on the computer, thats why it took awhile to respond. Sorry about that. Okay back to your question. You need to talk to this kid and tell him the truth, so it doesn't get worse. Just be like "I'm sorry if I led you on, I really am, but I'm not looking for a relationship right now, I hope you understand and that you're not mad at me." Just say something like that and just tell him the truth. Hope this one helps, if you still need help, just post another message and I'll try to help you again. Good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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hi you answed my ? earlier and i just wanted to get somemore help cuz i am so confused first of all my name is amnda and i am 16 and he does like me in fact he likes me alot and we talked for three weeks then stuff went wrong anywhoo!!i am so confused can you try to tell em somethin else i mean he tells me he thinks he is fallin in love btu i def dont want that anything will help thank you again!!!!

Hi Amanda! Which question of yours did I try helping you on? Can you try to refresh my memory lol, so I can help you out a little bit more =D sorry! Once I know I'll be glad to help you out =D

xoxo Kourtney

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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what?

Does he give you hints that he likes you? Like always by you, flirting with you, smiling, etc.? If he does, there is a slight chance he may like you. Just try flirting, smiling, laughing, being around him, etc. so he knows that you like him, if he still doesn't get the hint, you may have to tell him you like him. Which, its okay!! Don't be shy PLEASE, you'll be fine! =D Try writing him a letter instead and tellin him how you feel. And just put in the letter how you feel about him, just be like "I tried giving you hints that I like you, but you seem to not of noticed, but I do like you, and I just want to know if you like me." Just say something like that and just how you feel about him and you want to know how he feels about you. Hope this helps and good luck hun!

xoxo Kourtney

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--

He may feel the same way. Like, the whole kissing thing, but no relationship. Because I mean he hasn't said anything about him liking you or wanting to hook up. BUT, just to be on the safe side, I would try talking to him and telling him whats up. Just be like "I'm sorry if I'm leading you on, I'm not trying to, I mean I know that we kiss and stuff, but I dont want a relationship, and if you like me, then I'll stop kissing you because I don't want to lead you on." Just say something like that and find out whats up and everything. Hope this helps and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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i was wOnderinq if anyOne knOws whO sinqs the sOnq that kinda qOes like

"i want you to want me"
"i need you to need me"
"i`d love you to love me"
"i`m begging you to bed me"

anyone know who sings that song?

Cheap Trick - I Want You To Want Me...... if you ever need to know another song and you dont know who sings it, try going to:
www.songlyrics.com
AND typing in the lyrics to it and it should pop up! =D

xoxo Kourtney

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ok me and my bestfriend get in alot of fights but we dont wana be seperated and i dont no wat to do

I think you should try talking to your best friend and telling her how you feel about this situation. Just be like "I don't like fighting with you, we really need to stop, and work this out." Just say something like that and just talk about it. Hope this helps, if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox! Good luck!!

xoxo Kourtney

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whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it?

LOL! I've noticed that too. IDK why guys do that, I guess so they know that they are good kissers! lol. And if they aren't, they'll try to make it better the next time. Some like to brag it to there friends to be all PIMP lol. And some just like to hear it. LOL. Every guy is different though, boys are odd sometimes lol. But you gotta love them =P

xoxo Kourtney

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my name is adisley and i need a nickname for my friends to call me....please help

Hmm, you can try: Adi or Sley. Something like that. But, I'm sure people will think of nicknames for you by your personality or something. But, for now you can go by either one of those.. hope you liked them =D

xoxo Kourtney

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male 15
i really need help im way to shy to start a relationship or even friendship with i girl that i really like. Can u help?

Hmm, this is a tough one. If you be more specific about it, I can help you. But, I'll try my best right now. Its okay if you're shy, most guys are, and usually girls don't like it when you try to be all "pimp" in front of them lol. Just talk to girls and be more friendly with them, try talking to them on AIM for awhile and then you'll feel more comfortable talking to them when you see them in person. I hope this is kind of useful, please leave another message so I can help you alittle more, and be more specific with me =D

xoxo Kourtney

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My best friend is a guy. I've known him for a while and we're really close. He sleeps over my house a lot and hang out together a lot. But for a while i've been having strage feelings. I look in his eyes and wanna kiss him right then and there. I hug him and i never wanna let go. Im starting to think about him all the time. And i really think i like him. But should i tell him? I'm afraid if he knows what i'm thinking, he'll be afraid to hang out with me anymore and we'll stop being friends. And that would be the worst thing in the world. What should I do? xo0x ANO

Aww thats so cute. I think you should tell him how you feel, just be like "You're my best friend thats a guy, and I think its so cool you can spend the night and everything, but lately I've been finding that I have feelings for you, and I'm not trying to freak you out or anything, or change our friendship, because no matter what happens, we'll always be best friends, and I was afraid to tell you think because I thought maybe you would get freaked out and not want to hang out with me or anything, but I just want to know if you feel the same about me." Just say something like that and how you feel. I hope this helps and good luck hun tell me how it goes please! And if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!

xoxo Kourtney

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ok well this might be weired cuz im one of the advice helpers here but i cant help my self...so please help me...ok well it all started when i met this person and we always talked and we were like good friends..but then it kinda got oviose that, that person liked me and i started to like that person too...well then we admitted it to each other that we like each other alot...and everything is going great..but theres a probelem im not the only one that person likes see the person just broke up with a person and the person still likes the x alittle but the x likes the person still and the person i like likes another person too so the person likes me and another person andthe x alittle...should i make things work ro do u think i shouldent cuz im not the only one the person likes? please help me im really confused!!!!ill rate u for this!!

confused

Aww I'm sorry =( Guys.. geezers they are soOoOoOo confusing. But, I mean you two like each other, I think he just needs to realize what a great girl you are. Keep talking to him and just show off your personality. But, try talking to him and just be like "You know I like you, and you said you liked me too, but you like another person also, but I want me and you to go out, so basically I want to know if there is a chance or me and you EVER going out?" Just say something like that and tell him how you feel about him. Hope this helps. Good luck hun! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox, I'll be glad to help =D

xoxo Kourtney

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is it still pleasurable for a guy to kiss a girl with braces? do you have to do anything differnt?

No. Its the same as without, well atleast to me it is lol. I have braces, I was always afraid to kiss a guy who had braces because I don't want my mouth to get stuck to his lol. But, I heard it wont lol. But, no its really know different, you just kiss the person the same way as if you didn't have braces =P

xoxo Kourtney

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