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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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Hi, Please send me cheat codes for sims 2 free time & Hobby Enthusiasm.
There is a website called cheatcc.com where you can get cheat codes. If you don't like that website or you prefer another one then gamefaqs.com is a really good one.
how do you get your girlfriend to hug you if she is emabarssed to show she likes you in public
Right now she feels like she can't make her feelings exclusive. I would suggest giving her a little time to warm up. People like her have a wall and only patient people will be able to break that wall. If you stand by her and show that you support her, being ok with her decisions then she will be doing more than hugging in public. Give it some time maybe a week or two. IF nothig happens then you have to just hug her. She may be waiting for you. It is hard to know what a person is thinking about but it is ironic most people are thinking the same thing.
My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and up until now have had a very strong and loving relationship. Recently, we have started to have lots of arguments, primarily about the fact that I feel slightly sidelined by his busy lifestyle.
We have always been open with each other and make sure we talk about the problems we are having, and today I told him that I didn't see how we could continue like this, especially as things will get busier what with exams and the growing success of his musical career. His reply was that every single problem we have is entirely down to me.
I know we love each other very much, but at the moment I really don't know how to solve this seemingly permanent problem. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
16/f
I have been in the same situation as you but the truth is it only gets harder as his career starts to build but that will take at least 5-6 years before he actually gets noticed. I will let you on a secret. Even though he mnay be practicing with his friends and doing shows, it takes alot of time and energy to be a successful musician. And to be honest contractors for record deals take time, I am talking years of practice. They look for someone who knows the music well writing, reading sheet music, and being able to play anything anywhere. You don't just have learn the type you are playing but they like you to be able to play different genres. You may think his career is building but you don't have anything to worry about right now. As for the arguing that happens when you are spending to much time together. I would go on a shopping spree or do something for a week without him. Let him know what you are doing because you don't want him to think you are ignoring him. Don't talk to him on the phone or see him because that will start the arguments. You just need a little time to figuare things out. Its not that you don't love him and he doesn't love you, you guys are just spending to much time together. As for exams take the time you need to study for yours and he can take the time to study for his.
how do i make new friends easily at school?
Join sports or any kind of club so you will get the interaction you need to meet new people. If you are in class ask someone for a pencil (even if by chance you already have one), this is a conversation spark that always works. IF you see someone sitting by themself at lunch, go over, and ask them if you can sit by them.
Ok, so I've been really stupid, and I don't think I've read a single book in a whileeee. I do read, kinda, like on the computer, and at school for assignments. Is this really gonna hurt me when I take the test? I'm a good student and I usually good good grades, and I think last year I scored an exemplary or exceeds standard on my reading assessment. What are some tips to help me get a better score on my reading assessment? I really want to get exemplary. Is there any -last minute- studying I should do? Or should I just try to read a whole bunch of stuff, if that'll help me? xD Oh yea, if anyone knows any great websites that could help, (like one example could be stuff about hyperboles, alliteration, metaphors, or practice websites, etcc, and so on), that would be great too. One more thing. What should I do -IF- I kinda start falling asleep? Like if I have to fight to keep my eyes open or something like that. I don't want to be too focused on trying to stay awake, and not pay much attention to the test. Any advice is greatlyyyy appreciated! Oh and if you need it, I'm in the 7th grade and I'm 13/f.....
http://www.actstudent.org/sampletest/reading/read_01.html
This website is an act prepartory website that will help you prepare for any kind of test. Doing good on this practice website will help you do good on your test. These prep questions are advanced so if you can nail this website you are good to go on anything. I would drink alot of hot chocolate or coffee that usually does the trick. If you don't like either than an energy drink will give you the boost you need. Make sure when you are sitting you are uncomfortable. Being comfortable makes you sleepy.
I have a Motorola RAZR V3m. I go through Verizon Wireless. I can send text messages to pretty much anyone else, on any network.
The problem is, when I receive replies, they come in the form of a phone call, and the operator reads the text message to me.
Is there anything that can be done to fix it?
Thats a glinch in the phone and chip itself so the only way to get it fixed is to go to the actual store. They will help you set it up so you don't ahve to go through that kind of hassle. My brother had the same problem and ended having to go the store where he pays his bill.
I am female and 14 about to be 15.
Ok, this guy I knew a couple of years ago and I used to be best friends, but we didn't see each other for a couple of years except when his last little sister was born and I really like him. He knows I like him and he definitly knows who I am, but he won't say if he does like me or not, but whenever I see him, he stares at me and back when we had gym together last semester, if I ignored him, he'd be right on top of me and my best friend while we walked around and ignore every other girl we had class with except his cousin, but if I paid attention to him, he'd ignore me and talk to these girls I couldn't stand and make sure I saw it. So does he like me too?
Yeah he definitely likes you, he is just playing hard to get. A way to get him out of that trance to flirt with other guys. He can't stand when you do this so eventually he will realize that he needs to get you before start liking another one. Within a couple of days he will be asking you out. If by chance he is an idiot, and some but not all guys are, you will have to ask him out. Maybe just write him a note asking why do you do all this stuff, do you like, and should stay friends or take it further. The key is to be patient and don't read into anything. He likes you for sure!
I'm a twin. End of story. My twin sister is funny, more confident than me and sometimes I think better looking (people say we look very different). I'm in what will be a long term relationship and already has lasted a year, and I'm very sure that my boyfriend loves the hell out of me, just like I love the hell out of him!
My problem? I've shared everything with my sister for my whole life. Friends, everything. Her and him, they're close friends. Shes always telling him her problems and they talk on a personal scale. They joke around and stuff and sometimes when hes talking to me about like, e.g. when theyve been alone together he's not entirely truthful. Oh, I don't mean anything like they DO anything together, I trust him in that sense. But I get so scared. I can do everything she can do, but I'm not as confident and although I equal her in things like drama I'm kind of the quieter one, who likes a good laugh and whose more academically skilled. I just get so worried that he likes me - and hes said that he used to fancy her - and we're twins! How can he not like her as much as he likes me? we look relatively the same (we're identical but don't like to look the same), she's brighter, more full of life. The other day, although they constantly abuse each other and flirt for fun, he rung her up expecially so he could walk with her to school. I somehow don't think he'd do the same for me. He says I'm the better twin, that I'm worth alot more than her, but he doesn't show it in his actions. What do you think he thinks? What would you feel in his position? I'm confused and probably shouldn't be, am probably overreacting. He can talk as much as he wants with other girls. By my twin? That feels so different. Its like they have a whole kind of different other relationship. Please help.
Thank you, Faye :) ^^
The truth is they have a jealous sibling relationship. What you may think of as flirting is two siblings getting along. You say that you guys are always competing but that can get kind of lonely. She needs someone like a brotherly type to talk to. He is thinking of ways to help others. Truth be told being better academically will get your farther than anyone anyways because you have a future. When they say that the popular ones will grow up working in fast food places was not lying. I wouldn't be worried but it is ok to feel uncomfortable about it. He is with you and if he wanted her he would be with her. He likes you and no other.
I got my period for the first time back in November.
(i'm 14/f, by the way, 15 in a little over 4 weeks) Anyways, my mom doesn't know yet. I don't know how to tell her, because i'm too embarrassed! She said she's thinking about taking me to the doctor if i don't get it (or tell her about it) soon.
Any tips on how to tell her? Thanks soo much!!!!!!!
IF you drop hints without having to say the actual words she will know what you are talking about. Say can you buy me chocolate because I have really bad cramps. Or say I ran out of tampons/pads could you buy some for me. You would think she would figuare it out because most people who start have a tendency to be mean. If she asks maybe we should make an appointment just say not necessary with a smile. She will know exactly what you are talking about then. It was hard to tell my mom when I started because it felt weird but the truth was it felt better knowing that someone in my fmaily actually knew what I was going through. My mom besides me is the only girl.
how much is it for all texts to be unlimited
I pay 20 dollars extra on my bill for unlimited texting.
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Ok so there is this guy that likes me and i kind of like him and he wants to hang out this weekend. My friends also wanna hang out with me. I want to hang out with all of them but my friends would just talk to me and pull me away from him.Cause they are not friends with him and won't really talk to him. So where is a place we all could hang out as friends? but not the movies. Also what are some fun things we could do and talk about?
A coffee shop is a good way to gather a bunch of people around and talk. Even having a small et together at your house would even help loosen them up to get to know the guy. Asking what movies have seen is a good way to start a conversation, even music like bands and concerts. Find common interests they have with each other. Finding similar interests brings people close together even if they are a little opposite.
Ok well we have to pick a greek myth person, monster or god for this project and as an added art part, half of it is based on a display! We have topretend as if it's like a museam and there's usally an artifact or display of some kind. I'm doing Medusa. Any ideas what what display I could create? Maybe a little on the cheap and affordable side..but if not that's ok I just want some helpful ideas. thanks!
I am pretty sure that the scenery for medusa was in a cave. So making a papermache in the shape of a cave. Use newspaper and glue mized with water. Use the newspeaper to shape what you want and use the glue to shape it into place. You would want the cave in dark colors maybe display her in the middle of the cave. I am pretty sure that they have an action figuare of her in walmart. They usually have action figuares to go with disney movies. The movie hercules that is a cartoon had medusa in it so maybe seeing her will help you visualize what she looks like. Maybe cotton balls colored in blue making the cave look like it contains water.
Alright here is the deal....my best friend and i have bin like fooling around and stuff....and he tells me he cares alot about me every time we're together...but sometimes he goes like 4 days without trying to contact me....is that ok? and secondly...i want to take this a step further and actually date him so how would i tell him and should i tell him?
That is ok that he doesn't contact you for a few days. When it comes to my obligations calling someone takes a couple of days or even more. I wouldn't worry to much about that. You should definitely tell him. He is just waiting for you to say something. The point of him telling you cares for you is a hint that he wants to be a couple. It is always good to be friend before you date it just means that you will be really close especially in a relationship. A way to tell him is to ask him to come over to your house. Don't panic and don't think about how his reaction is until he actually gives one. If you picture what he will say then you will be upset when it doesn't happen exactly how you pictured it even if it is a great reaction anyways. First ask him if he ever thinks about you. He will answer and then ask him in what way. Then ask him how he would feel if you guys were more than friends. I guarantee that he will give the reaction you want.
am real down about my marriage..my husband seems to always exclude me and seems to have better times with his friends..what do you say about something like that
I know it must be hard to feel constantly left out. Maybe learning more about what your husband likes will help him include you more. I think that he feels he likes hanging out with his friends is becasue they can get into real depth about a certain topic. If you learn as much as they know then you can join in the conversation. Maybe cook him a fabulous dinner that contains all of his favorite foods so you can talk to him more. Maybe simply asking him why you guys don't hang out more and why he doesn't invite you. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
i missed 6 days of school because i was very very sick. so clearly im going to have a LOT of make up work to do.
any tips on how to manage all of my missed work?
First make a list of all the work you have to do. This will help you get an idea overall how much you will have to do and the amount of time you have to do it. Pace yourself and don't rush. It may seem like alot but really it is a long list that doesn't take to much time. Take one thing at a time if you get tired of working on one thing then more to another. Taking breaks in between will help motivate you to finish. If you spend all your time working on one thing for a couple of hours by the time you are done you don't want to do the rest. So spend at least a half an hour on each thing. When you accomplish one then cross it off your list. Then you can think to yourself one less thing to worry about. Thats all you can do. I suggest working on the things that are due the most recent to the ones that are due at a later time.
I have dry, flaky skin and it's hard to find a foundation right for my skin type. I really want something to moisturize my face, but also cover all my imperfections and smooth everything out. Does anyone have anything they would recommend?
There is a foundation found in walmart that is blue and looks like a toilet seat. It should have a brochure beside it so you can test your skin to see which skin type best suits you. When you get home use St. Ives Apricot Scrub on your face. It will make your face soft and help heal the dry, rough skin. Put the foundation on. It is nice because the foundation is not a liquid or a dry foundation either. It is kind of a mix between both. After you put the foundation on kind of rub your skin so that the foundation blends more with your skin tone. After that you want to put some lotion on. I recommend the lotion that you find in Bath and Body Works because their lotion works well with dry skin. It makes your face have a more natural glow.
Answer to the second question you asked me on my rating list. It is called cover girl
what is a sexy way to turn on my bf and getting him real aroused without giong past 2nd and i dont even think im going to 2nd possibly in the future. Not now haha anyway so no rubbing 'down there' or anything haha. but some sexy things i can do. also no licking. so ways to turn him on and get him really aroused before 2nd and then if we go to 2nd.
thanks so, so much! i will rate! :]
ps. he knows we wont go farther and doesnt want us to either so im not teasing him in a mean way. just a hott, sexy, playful way. but i want to make him want to go further even tho he knows he cant! ;] thanks again!!!
A good way to get a guy to do what you wat without having to rsort to going any further is kissing on the neck, back rubs, and guys even like it when you take your index finger and go down the middle of their back. Draw letters on their stomach, stroke their legs up and down with your hand or even play with their hair. Anything that is gentle they will get excited about. It is kind of like when someone takes their finger and gently goes up your arm you get goosebumps.
Alright, i think this would be alot easier if i start from the beginning.. sorry if its long, but it might give you a better understanding.
2 and a half years ago i met this boy dylan. i just recently found out that he has liked me ever since we first met. i didnt know this at the time, so during the 2 years i've known him i've just went out w/ a few of the guys he hangs out with.
back in october is when he finally asked me out & i told him yes. he ended up breaking up with me in the middle of november, but he said he still wanted to be really close friends. i dont know if that was just some lame break up line, but i wanted to stay friends too.
in december, dylan told me that he wanted to go back out w/ me, but that his friend jeremiah wanted to go out w/ me also. i told dylan's friend that i didnt know if i wanted to, so we just hung out as friends & got to know each other instead.
then in january they actually got into a fist fight b/c over me & i witnessed it. jeremiah backed out of the fight cause he said he didnt want to fight w/ someone he had so much history with, but dylan is telling everyone that he kicked his ass and that he ran away like a coward and is just talking alot of shit on him. they aren't friends anymore & i feel like this is my fault. i never meant for them to stop being friends.
at the beginning of this month dylan was telling everyone he knew that he was going back out w/ me. but we arent.(btw we go to different schools) & just last week is when he really did ask me back out again. over the weekend i told him i'd think about it, but that too much stuff was going on & i dont want anyone to get in anymore fights and that i think it'd be better if we werent going out and just stayed friends for now. but now today jeremiah told we that dylan is now talking shit on me as well as jeremiah. jeremiah was saying that he heard my name clearly & something about my race(ethnicity), he told me he didnt hear anything else but i dont know if he was just holding back from anything else he heard cause he didnt want me to get hurt, but i really dont care b/c dylan's just saying all this cause i turned him down. or atleast thats what i think.
before me and dylan first started going out, we never really talked. so i never thought he would be the type to lie(he's lied to me about alot of things), go behind your back, or talk shit. i really do still want to be friends with him though & i want him and jeremiah to be friends again, so im thinking maybe if i could talk to him about it & tell him that its really hurting me that he's disrespecting me and just get everything out in the open so that we could resolve all this. do you think this would be a good idea or would it just make the situation worse & use it against me? also, why do guys feel the need to talk shit on a girl that doesnt want to go out w/ them? i told him the reason why, & i thought he would understand. he's liked me for almost 3 years, so why would he do this? is it some kind of ego thing or what? how do i make him stop?
They both want/will continue to fight and spread lies to in order to get you on their side. Dylan is doing it by spreading rumors or is he really? And Jeremiah is running to you, continuing to stir the pot of drama by making you mad at dylan. The key is to ignore them both. If you ignore them it will drive them crazy that they will do anything to even get your friendship back. Talking to them is not going to help it will make things worse because you don't know the truth or the exact true. You are basing your judgments on what he said she said. A way to find out the truth is to be neutral and ignore them both. By doing that you are making them talk to each other because they are going to ask each other is she talking to you? This will actually help them communicate with each other eventually bringing them together as friends and working together to get your friendship back.
My mom's birthday is soon and I want to get her something special. we've became really close so i want something with a meaning to it.
I am a bit low on money although i have my christmas money which i could spend but I don't want to spend it out.
She likes household stuff and jewelry. I could buy her a pair of earrings or a chain but i could also make something.
Is there anything I can make that will make her happy and that she can keep for a lifetime but will cost me not much?
I would have to say that the best present I ever gave my mother was a scrapbook of photos. My grandmother died a few years ago from cancer and she really misses her. I found a bunch of photos of my grandmother and put a scrapbook together. I also put a nice poem in the front of the scrapbook that made her cry in a good way. Ebay.com has some really good, expensive looking jewelry thats really cheap. Though you have to have some form of account or credit card to purchase from ebay.
ok am i wrong to want the truth from people? for the last 4 months people have been weird to me. im kindof not hanging out with my friends as much and not talking to them as much and stuff like that but they dont say anything about it, when i can tell that they are talking about me behind my back. they look at me with that look like they are thinking "fuck you" in their head at me, but i wish they would just TELL ME HOW THEY REALLY FEEL. whenever i see them they just make awkward small talk with me and if i bring up something cool that happened to me or something they dont comment and they are just like "oh. wow i just love this weather." because god forbid they state their opinion.
my friends have this thought that basically telling the truth starts drama. when, in my opinion, telling lies and not telling the truth is what starts the real drama.
so, tell me your opinions on this and tell me if im wrong to think this please.
thanks
A true friend never lies to you and would do anything for you. If you have suspicion that they are talking behind your back you are in the right if you want to know. The truth is lies start drama not the truth. My best friend told me that this one shirt I bought was hidious looking. Even though the truth kind of hurt, I am glad she said it to my face and not behind my back. A way to get them to talk is by saying when you see them just say I know you have been talking about me. They will start talking if you say stop the drama by talking behind my back and be woman/man enough to say it to my face. It worked for me when I was trying to figuare out which one of my friends was starting the drama. I used the same line on all of them and the one I had the suspicion about the most finally spilled the beans.