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guy or best friends
Ok so there is this guy that likes me and i kind of like him and he wants to hang out this weekend. My friends also wanna hang out with me. I want to hang out with all of them but my friends would just talk to me and pull me away from him.Cause they are not friends with him and won't really talk to him. So where is a place we all could hang out as friends? but not the movies. Also what are some fun things we could do and talk about?
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Dear Conflicted,
Would it be possible for you to meet with your friends and your love interest at different times? It sounds like you're in need of some time management. For example, you could stay with your friends on Friday evening and spend all day on Saturday with them. Then, Saturday evening or Sunday afternoon you could spend time with your new friend. In the beginning of a relationship, you should spend time alone with your love interest and get to know each other well. Then, if you decide to continue the relationship with him, you can introduce him to your friends as your boyfriend. That way, they'll know that he's important to you and they'll make more of an effort to include him. The added benefit of this is that you'll know whether or not you and your love interest like each other for who you really are, not for the way that either of you acts in an awkward situation.
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Well maybe you could go ice skateing or sometimes me and my friends just like to go walk around the places we live. like go to a near-by food place.
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A coffee shop is a good way to gather a bunch of people around and talk. Even having a small et together at your house would even help loosen them up to get to know the guy. Asking what movies have seen is a good way to start a conversation, even music like bands and concerts. Find common interests they have with each other. Finding similar interests brings people close together even if they are a little opposite.
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